The Pareto Principle

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I’m sure some people have never heard of the Pareto principle.

Allow me to enlighten you!

People need to understand the Pareto principle in order to maximize their choices in life.

Once you understand the Pareto principle, you will easily be able to understand the modern SMP (sexual marketplace)

Let’s dive into it!

What is the Pareto Principle?

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The Pareto principle describes the 80-20 rule.

It means that 20% of the population (those in the highest bracket) receive 80% of the resources.

It does not only apply to capitalism, but also to the free sexual market place.

In the free sexual market place (which basically follows a capitalist structure), sexual availability is concentrated in the top 20% of men.

This means that the top 20% of men receive 80% of the sexual attention.

Understanding the Pareto Principle

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Regarding the SMP (sexual marketplace), the Pareto principle implies that 80% of men are competing for 20% of female attention.

This means that the competition among betas is fierce.

One of the hardest things in the modern SMP is for a beta to get into a relationship with a woman.

They essentially have to be a super-beta, following all of the matriarchy’s rules to the letter and continually revamping and capitulating in terms of their personality in order to stay competitive among the pool of beta losers they find themselves in.

Not only is it a losing battle, it is not even one worth fighting.

If the betas understood what they really needed to do in order to succeed, they wouldn’t need to fight so hard.

20% of the Men get 80% of the Attention

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In the modern SMP, 20% of men get 80% of the attention.

This means that the top 20% of men receive most of the sexual attention and experience extreme sexual abundance.

THESE top 20% men are the men that women refer to when they say things like “all men are assholes, or men are all pigs”.

To women, who only see the top 20% (and maybe the top 2% of betas), only the absolute winners are considered sexually.

You are much better off trying to break into the top 20% than fight betas for the scraps that remain to them.

Hypergamy and the Pareto Principle

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Hypergamy refers to how women (especially those in their sexual prime) seek men who are most attractive and successful (alphas).

When women are no longer competitive, they MIGHT settle for a beta (though many simply exit out of the game completely and become cat ladies).

Hypergamy means that 80% of women try and gain the sexual attention of the top 20% (and succeed).

Obviously, many alphas have several women as sexual partners.

Women would much rather share a winner than be saddled with a faithful loser.

Alpha vs Beta

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As I have said several times, men are split into two categories (actually three, with undesirables being the other group).

Alphas, the top 20% of men in terms of sexual attractiveness (which is a mixture of physical shape, game, and resources) receive most of the attention, and betas fight for the scraps.

It is difficult to break into the category of alphas (it requires both freeing yourself from your mental prison and also working on your body in order to be physically attractive).

Ultimately, the alphas are the ones that women want to spend sexual time with and the ones that women show genuine desire to.

It is your decision whether you want to spend the effort required in order to become successful, or whether you decide to fall into obscurity.

The Sexual Marketplace Doesn’t Care About Fairness

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The SMP does NOT care about fairness.

Just like how a small percentage of the population holds 90% of the wealth, a small percentage of men have most of the sexual attention.

If you are NOT currently in the top 20% of men in terms of attractiveness, you should spend some chunk of your available free time becoming a top 20% male.

Breaking into the top category of men will make your life WAY easier in terms of seduction.

Fighting the 80% is HARDER than fighting the 20%

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The life of a beta is MUCH more difficult than that of an alpha.

A beta has to work extremely hard in order to maintain the affection of one woman.

An alpha requires no such effort.

Since the beta has such a huge group to compete against, and the way that they are competing is very similar, nothing distinguishes one beta from another.

As a result, only the super-betas win, while the others have no chance at all.

Once you break into the top 20% group, as a result of the abundance of options available to you, you will find that seducing women and creating your own roster will be relatively easy.

Work to Break into the Top 20%

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My recommendation to you is that you work to break into the top 20% of men in order to ensure that you are easily able to access the sexual options of the superior group.

Once there, the work you have to do is much less.

Basically, working on yourself in order to get into the top 20% is an investment.

It is VERY HARD to break into the group, but ONCE THERE, practically no more work is required.

An alpha literally shoots fish in a barrel.

The abundance of options available to you make it extremely easy to seduce women once you’re in the top 20% due to the Pareto principle.

Conclusion

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The Pareto principle explains how 20% of men receive 80% of female attention in the SMP.

It is much harder for a bottom 80% beta to fight for the scraps of women left to them than to compete with the top 20% for 80% of female attention.

Thus, I recommend that you work on yourself in order to break into the top 20%.

Once you are there, your sexual life will be all but guaranteed.

Life is about struggle, and now is your time.

Work hard!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Pareto Principle?

The Pareto principle is the idea that the top 20% of men in the SMP (sexual marketplace) receive 80% of female attention.

Life distributes sexual attention similarly to how it distributes monetary wealth.

As a result, men in the bottom 80% bracket have a HELL of a time trying to get ANY woman at all.

Is It Harder for An Alpha or Beta to Seduce a Woman?

Obviously it is much harder for a beta.

It is harder because not only does the beta not have game, he has the Pareto principle working AGAINST him.

He is competing with 80% of men for 20% of female attention.

Alphas are the reverse.

They compete with 20% of men for 80% of female attention.

Thus, alphas have abundance.

Life is So Unfair! What the Hell Helios! Why Are Women Like This?

Life is NOT fair.

You need to work in order to turn the unfairness to your advantage.

Now that you know that the top 20% of men receive 80% of female attention, you should work to break into the top 20%.

Once there, you can reap the fruits of your labor.

My Girlfriend Loves Me, She Would Never Leave!

Your girlfriend loves you for what you give her.

Since you’re probably a beta (as evidenced by your willingness to be in a traditional LTR), she is draining you for all you’ve got.

Your time attention, affection and resources are all on tap.

Once they run out and she gets bored, she’ll be on to the next.

She has a ton of options and can easily replace you.

How easily can you replace her as a beta?

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