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Today, I’m going to do something a little different and analyze a song that contains some very good messages for men.

That song is called “Brandy” by Looking Glass.

Though this song was made in the 70’s, it contains some information that is extremely relevant to the men of today.

It just goes to show that the things that help men nowadays are not new.

Why Brandy? 

“Brandy” talks about a girl who is pining for a man.

I chose “Brandy” because it describes why she pines for that man and it turns out the reason is because he doesn’t love her like he loves his mission.

This is a lesson that more men should learn.

I also chose it due to when it was written.

It was written 50 years before today, a time when the female sexual revolution was in full swing.

This did not mean that men were clueless when it came to how to seduce women.

Clearly they knew what was up if songs like “Brandy” were mainstream!

Ok, let’s look at the lyrics I’m talking about.

Song Lyrics I Want To Discuss

Here is the chorus of the song:

“She hears him say, “Brandy, you’re a fine girl” (you’re a fine girl)

“What a good wife you would be” (such a fine girl)

“But my life, my lover, my lady is the sea”

Man.

Such powerful stuff written into so few words!

The sailor is talking about what a good girl Brandy is, but still she is not as good as the sea.

The man is “already taken” by the sea, his “true lover”.

Basically, the sailor in this story is a real man who values his mission above any woman, even if she’s great!

Here are some other lyrics from the song that are amazing:

“He came on a summer’s day

Bringin’ gifts from far away

But he made it clear he couldn’t stay

No harbor was his home”

The man came bearing value and stated that he was unattainable.

Basically, he challenged Brandy to try and convince him to stay.

It is a classic story of a woman wanting a man she can’t have.

The unattainable, the superior, is what women’s hypergamy desires.

Meaning Behind Lyrics

As I said previously, the lyrics discuss the fact that the sailor values his mission (the sea) over Brandy (some girl in a harbor town).

Even though the sailor finds Brandy to be a lovely girl and that she’s the type that would be a great wife, he still does not commit to her as he has higher aims.

The man clearly stated he was unattainable and that no harbor (no woman) could hold him.

He has inverted the script! Rather than being the chaser, he is the chased!

The sailor is an alpha indeed.

We can learn a lot from the messages in this song.

Remember: No matter how amazing, beautiful and perfect a girl is, your mission is STILL more important.

No woman can detract you from your mission in life!

YOU are the prize, no harbor can hold YOU.

True Attraction Written In Verse

Check out the bridge of this song!

It is just FULL of lessons!

“Yeah, Brandy used to watch his eyes

When he told his sailor stories

She could feel the ocean fall and rise

She saw its ragin’ glory

But he had always told the truth, Lord, he was an honest man

And Brandy does her best to understand”

Basically, this bridge sums up the primal attraction women feel for alpha men.

They don’t understand their attraction, they simply are attracted!

Brandy doesn’t know why she loves the sailor.

It is the same way women don’t understand why they’re attracted to certain men.

“It just happens”.

The Kind of Men Women Pine Over

The kind of man women pine over (women like Brandy) are those that value their mission over any woman.

She wears the sailor’s locket and pines over him, even though she is just a small part of his life.

Women pine over the man they can’t have.

Examples include: the nomad, the sailor and the movie star.

These are archetypal men that are unattainable.

You want to be like the sailor in this story.

You should avoid being like the men in the first chorus.

Here is the first chorus, to help you understand:

The sailors say, “Brandy, you’re a fine girl” (you’re a fine girl)

“What a good wife you would be” (such a fine girl)

“Yeah, your eyes could steal a sailor from the sea”

These sailors are men who could be tempted away from their mission by a girl (betas).

Notice how she is attracted to the man who is not swayed by her pretty eyes.

Also, notice that they are “the sailors”, an interchangeable mass of men who all think the same way.

This was done on purpose!

The lone alpha sailor is our goal, not the beta sailors of the first chorus.

The Information Is Everywhere, You Just Have to Look

The information you need to be a successful man exists everywhere.

It is in literature, it is in songs, it is even said by famous people.

It is simply not said by the MAJORITY.

There is a reason for that,

The MAJORITY are like the sailors in the first chorus.

The majority are betas/slaves/NPCs who place the importance of a woman over everything in their lives.

They parrot the matriarchy’s memes in an attempt to get women to love them.

Betas do not realize that by associating with the feminine, they become the feminine and lose the very masculine polarity that is necessary for attraction.

The alpha sailor is the man to emulate, the one who’s wife is the sea.

How You Should Apply The Concepts In This Song to Your Life

As I have previously said, you need to try to be like the sailor, who is Brandy’s love interest in the song and not like the sailors in the first chorus.

The sailors in the first chorus could be swayed by a girl like Brandy.

The man Brandy is attracted to “just gets it” and could never be swayed by her.

The sea, his mission, is his ultimate partner.

The man has himself, his boat and his mission.

He understands that he could never be a husband to anything but his mission.

This wisdom and understanding of how the world really works is the true reason that Brandy pines over him.

Conclusion

Let this song be a lesson to you.

Women are attracted to men they can’t have.

They pine over men who put their mission above them.

The sailor is a true alpha, to be emulated.

Be the ONE, not the MANY.

Good luck!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Do You Mean To Say That the Lessons We Had to Truly Learn to Become Alpha Were Around Us the Whole Time?

Yeah!

It is your job to parse the information and make sure that you are learning the right lessons.

Misinformation is everywhere, and it is there to obfuscate the truth.

What Type of Man Do Women Pine Over?

Women pine over men who have a higher mission than them.

They are attracted to men who don’t put women as the highest priority in their lives.

They do not understand why they are attracted to these men, it just happens.

What is the Takeaway Message of This Song?

You should try to be like the sailor who Brandy pines over and not the sailors of the first verse.

The sailors of the first verse represent the betas who all think the same and have no mission in life.

You want to prioritize your mission and goals in life over any individual girl.

Failing to do say fails the global shit test that is your upbringing.

Can A Beta Man Forgive His Girlfriend’s Past?

Yes!

Sadly.

If he is steeped enough in matriarchichal brainwashing, there is no low to which he won’t stoop for women.

He will utterly sacrifice himself for the feminine imperative and have no idea that he’s even doing it.

I’m sure all of you men have met an “abuse” victim.

Here is a tough pill to swallow.

Many of these “abuse” victims have not been abused in the dictionary definition of the term.

They have been “abused” in that they have not been worshipped as the superior beings they believe they should be treated as.

This purposeful engineering of language has allowed women to turn white knights and the government to their defense at the smallest of offenses to their ego.

This is a huge problem.

Allow me to elaborate…

What is the Definition of Abuse

Abuse is defined as:

Treating (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly.

This is obviously terrible.

When a person is subjected to true cruelty, it is a crime against human nature.

It is truly horrific.

Actual Abuse and What It Looks Like

Actual abuse looks like the following:

1. A girl’s mom constantly calling her a bitch/slut/retard/etc. for the smallest perceived offense
2. A girl’s father beating the shit out of her, her brother and her mother when he’s drunk
3. A person in jail being given only enough bread and water to eat to barely sustain themselves
4. A sister, hitting her brother and then calling the police on him when he retaliates in self defense 

Actual abuse leads to serious psychological problems.

Often, the sufferers of abuse experience symptoms of PTSD, like soldiers do.

This is a true and sad crime and it is terrible that any person should have to suffer abuse at all.

I’m sure many of you, having read the examples of abuse written above, felt a pang of empathy and a want to help the imaginary people in the situations I described.

THIS is why it is SO SHAMEFUL that women today have changed the definition of the word abuse to suit their purposes.

It is SHAMEFUL because it hurts REAL VICTIMS.

Many women today claim abuse when NO REAL ABUSE has ACTUALLY occurred.

This DOWNPLAYS how serious REAL ABUSE is.

What Many Women NOW Define as Abuse

I have heard, and I’m sure you have also heard the term “emotionally abusive”.

This is a shameful word indeed.

It is shameful because it does not mean what I wrote in the situations above.

For many women, “emotional abuse” means the following:

1. My boyfriend/husband made me feel bad
2. My boyfriend/husband doesn’t let me do what I want without consequence
3. My boyfriend/husband tells my daughter (who isn’t his daughter) to clean her room
4. My boyfriend/husband left me when I cheated on him
5. My boyfriend/husband doesn’t want to do what I want him to do when I want it
6. My boyfriend/husband tells me what to do

NONE of these situations constitute REAL ABUSE.

Each of these situations is simply a man having a spine in an LTR.

Of course, as a result of the feminine imperative, having a spine means that the wife/girlfriend can call the police, claim “domestic abuse” (one of the above, non-real “abuse” situations) and have the boyfriend/husband beat up by the cops.)

Does this seem fair or just to you?

This is a public service announcement:

If you are a woman and you have used any of the following “fake abuse” situations in order to fuck over your husband/boyfriend, you are scum and you should be ashamed of yourself.

Trash like you doesn’t deserve a relationship.

NOTE: If you were ACTUALLY ABUSED (as I have written in the section titled actual abuse) this PSA DOES NOT apply to you, and I’m so sorry that that happened to you.

The Uses of “Abuse”

Many women claim they have been “abused” (hurting real victims in the process) in order to have white knights flock to their defense.

It has become a way to get attention.

It embarasses me just thinking about how low a person you must have to be in order to use the word “abuse” to gain attention.

ABUSE DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU WERE MADE TO FEEL BAD.

Abuse is also used to gain sympathy.

Many women say they were emotionally abused in order to gain the sympathy of the crowd they’re in.

Obviously, seeking attention through such a low ploy is shameful.

Feigning Weakness

For many women, abuse is a word that is used in order for them to feign that they are the weaker of the two genders.

They were “emotionally abused” and so they need even greater protections from the government.

It is shameful to hurt REAL VICTIMS through the perversion of language in this way.

One of the laws of power states that when you’re strong you should feign weakness.

This is exactly what many women use the word abuse as.

As I have said before:

If you are a woman who uses the word “abuse”, and you were NOT abused, as stated in my definition, you are SCUM.

You are attention seeking scum, who is HURTING REAL PEOPLE through your actions.

By diluting the power of the word, you are hurting actual abuse victims, who now are not believed anymore due to your shenanigans.

SHAME on you.

Government Sanctioned Feminine Primacy

Due to government sanctioned feminine primacy and the matriarchy, women are free to do stupid things like this to gain more favours from the government.

The government has given women so much power, that they are wielding it at the expense of men and ALSO hurting real victims.

It is shameful that such an imbalance should exist so that this sort of abuse of power can happen.

NO, not all women have been abused.

NO, YOU have not been abused because some hot guy fucked you and left.

STOP hurting real abuse victims by perverting the word!

Of course I can acknowledge that the guy made you feel bad.

Feeling bad is NOT abuse.

Women should not be allowed to wield the power to beat someone up using paid thugs if another person made them feel bad.

That is an awful ABUSE of power.

The Person Who Rules You Is the One You Can’t Criticise

As I have mentioned in previous articles, the person who rules you is he who can’t be criticised.

Can we criticise men openly? Yes.

Women openly? Hell no.

That is obvious proof of the matriarchy.

Since women have SO MUCH POWER in the west, the word abuse can be used to beat up a man.

I hope you can see the disparity in power over the genders now.

Control of Language

Orwell said it best:

“The Party seeks power entirely for its own sake. We are not interested in the good of others; we are interested solely in power – pure power.”

With language control comes power.

This power is wielded over men repeatedly by women through the use of the words “emotional abuse”.

I chafe at the fact that the word abuse has been bastardized to allow for such power games to occur.

In order to take back power, the language must be properly defined, and not morphed as anyone sees fit.

Conclusion

The word “abuse” has been co-opted as a tool for women to wield power.

This has happened at the expense of REAL PEOPLE who are suffering from abuse.

Ironically, the change in meaning of the word abuse represents an abuse of power.

The matriarchy is firmly in the process of changing language for the purposes of control.

Be prudent and guard yourself well.

Language can cut deeper than any sword.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

My Sister Was Beat Up By Her Husband, Who Was A Raving Drunk, Are You Saying She Wasn’t Abused?

No.

She was definitely abused.

That is REAL ABUSE.

I’m so sorry that happened to your sister and I hope that shitbird got what he deserved.

This article talks about how victims like your sister, REAL VICTIMS, are HURT by the matriarchy’s grabs at power.

The matriarchy don’t even care about abused women, they care about power.

The matriarchy should be ashamed of itself.

You’re Full of Shit If You Think Women Rule Us!

You sure?

Which is the default relationship strategy?

Who wins in that type of relationship?

Will society shame you if you fail to follow this strategy?

Who can you not openly criticise in public?

What characters in the media are portrayed as “strong and independent”?

Make the connections yourself.

Critical thinking is an important aspect of freeing yourself from your mental prison

You Keep Mentioning the Matriarchy, But We Live in A Patriarchy, Dude!

You’re fucking clueless.

Go back to women’s studies class.

By the way, is there a men’s studies class?

Why do you think that is?

I’ll give you a hint:

It’s because women are so superior to men in the current matriarchy they can have self-fellating programs like “women’s studies”.

My Ex Boyfriend Was Extremely Emotionally Abusive. We Were In An Amazing Relationship and We Even Named Our Future Kids. One Day, Out of the Blue, He Just Broke Up With Me! He Then Went On to Fuck 20 Other Girls!

That your ex-boyfriend was a cad DOES NOT make him emotionally abusive.

He simply didn’t give a shit about you and that made you feel bad.

Did he hit you?

Did he yell at you?

Did he restrict your ability to access your basic human needs?

Did he call you worthless trash for no reason?

I’ll bet he did none of those things.

He just didn’t go along with your long term plans for him.

That doesn’t make him abusive, that makes him SMART.

Today we’re not going to talk so much about seduction as psychology.

Well, that isn’t true.

Seduction is all about psychology, so I guess, we’re going to talk about both.

First, a bit about donkeys…

How Are Donkeys Controlled?

Donkeys are controlled through one of two methods:

1. The carrot
2. The stick

If the donkey does something you like, you give it a carrot.

If it does something you don’t like, you hit it with the stick.

Both methods are effective at getting donkeys to do what you want.

Humans, as many people will attest, are much like donkeys.

Positive and Negative Reinforcement

In psychology, there are two terms I’d like to explain that are extremely important to seduction.

These work on humans just as well as on animals (I mean humans are animals, so does that really surprise you?).

Here they are:

1. Positive reinforcement
2. Negative reinforcement

Positive reinforcement is when you reward a behaviour you like to see.

An example is saying something like “good girl” to a girl who is fucking you passionately.

Negative reinforcement is when you punish a behaviour you don’t like to see.

An example is withdrawing your attention when a girl is being annoying to you.

These psychological techniques should be used LIBERALLY by you in your relationships.

You should reward behaviours that you like, and punish those you hate in order to create a partner that treats you according to your standards.

Behaviourism

In behavioural psychology, there was a famous doctor named B.F. Skinner.

Here is a quote by him that we should take heed of:

“Give me a child and I’ll shape him into anything”

I don’t know if you’ve heard this statement before, but women are more similar to children than men are.

I don’t know if it is because society coddles women more or because of the fundamental differences in brain structures between men and women.

It is probably both.

I believe therefore, that operant conditioning works very well on women.

I mean, it works very well on men, but I think it works EVEN BETTER on women.

You should therefore reinforce behaviour from women you like seeing, and punish behaviours you dislike seeing.

You should do this with ACTION preferably, and not with words (especially punishment).

Disclaimer: I do NOT believe in corporal punishment of any sort. You should reinforce and punish through your attention (giving or withdrawing it). A man’s attention is extremely valuable to a woman, after all.

Women’s Frame in Long Term Relationships

A woman’s frame in a long term relationship is that she is in control.

She should decide the direction of the relationship and everything that goes along with that.

Women believe that they should be the decision makers when it comes to clothes, decoration of the house, cars, sexual attention, activities, etc.

If you allow yourself to fall into this frame, you are lost.

I suggest you prevent the problem by avoiding monogamous live-in relationships entirely in favour of relationship strategies that favour men (FWB – friend with benefits, NMG – non-monogamous girlfriend, SNMG – serious non-monogamous girlfriend).

How Alphas Are Treated In Relationships vs. Betas/NPCs/Slaves

In relationships, women naturally defer to alphas.

They tend to become naturally shy and submissive with men they really like.

Alphas get to do what they want in their relationships because of that.

Betas/Slaves/NPCs get no such luxury.

Women consider themselves to be above those men.

Because of this, NPCs get a whole list of rules for things they are “allowed” to do in relationships.

This is how you get the husbands that have to ask their wives permission to do anything they want to do, like they would their mommy at 6 years old.

How to Be In Control of A Relationship

The simplest way to be in control of a relationship is to always hold the power to walk away.

When you are non-monogamous and actively exercising your options, you are never beholden to one girl.

Since none of them can control you, they compete with the other women in your life for dominance (to be your favourite).

They will defer to you in everything, as women know on an instinctual level that alpha men love to be followed.

You can then dole out punishments and rewards as you see fit, depending on the behaviour of the women in your life.

Reward what you like to see (by giving attention and affection), and punish what you don’t (by withdrawing your attention and going cold).

Which Should You Use? Carrot or Stick?

According to psychology textbooks, the most effective form of behavioural control is reward.

This means that praise/compliments/affection/love are excellent things to use when you see behaviour that you like.

You should ACTIVELY AVOID showing any of these kinds of behaviours if you see behaviour you don’t like.

Punishment is less effective, especially punishment related to fear, according to those same textbooks.

People are much more likely to rebel against a despot.

This is why I recommend withdrawing attention, as opposed to hitting or yelling.

Some women actually interpret hitting or yelling as love (as fucked up as that sounds), and will be encouraged if you do those things.

When you remove yourself from a situation, you give no attention, something that women crave on a biological level from alphas.

The best technique for that is the “soft next”. 

Basically, you stop talking to her entirely, and ignore her totally for one week no matter what she says or does.

Even if she messages you 55 times, you continue to ignore.

It is extremely important that you exercise your ability to use both the carrot and the stick.

When women know that you reward good behaviour and punish the bad, they are much more likely to behave in ways that you consider extremely pleasant.

They then contribute positively to your life.

Everything in Life is About Sex, Except for Sex. Sex is About Power.

All of man-woman relations boil down to sexual relations.

Sexual relations are entirely based on power relations.

This is why women play power games (shit tests).

You hold ultimate power as a man when you have the ability to exercise your options.

No matter how amazing the girl you’re with is, no matter how sexy, or fun, you NEVER cede your ultimate power.

Like the myth of Samson, once your hair is cut, you are nothing.

You’ll notice that by always exercising your power, you also will have the good fortune to be rewarded with good girl behaviour.

Conclusion

The carrot and the stick are extremely important concepts when it comes to relationships.

Women tend to wield carrot and stick power over their beta slaves and alpha men tend to wield carrot or stick power over their lovers.

Hold power by always retaining the ability to exercise your options.

Once you have it, use your power judiciously.

Reward behaviour you like to see (with positive attention and love) and punish behaviour you don’t like to see (with withdrawal of attention).

Avoid hitting and yelling, as many women see those as positive attention (even though you might see it as negative attention).

Be wise in the use of your power and watch your results soar!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

You’re an Asshole for Implying that Girls Are Donkeys Helios!

Where is your reading comprehension?

I said donkeys are SIMILAR to humans.

Oh right, you’re just being deliberately inflammatory.

Here, let me demonstrate the advice in this article.

Ignore women like this.

At A Party, My Brother and His Wife Said They Have A 50/50 Relationship, Who Rewards Who in That Case?

Anytime a woman says she’s in a 50/50 relationship, she is with a BETA.

She’s making the rules.

A 50/50 relationship does not exist, and that a man would agree to that frame means he’s a beta by DESIGN.

Should I Punish Or Reward More?

Ideally, you’re with women that really like you.

This means that you’ll likely reward more than punish.

Punishment occurs when there is rare drama (your girl complaining about your non-monogamy), crying at you, shouting at you, etc.

Withdraw attention in that case, and don’t turn it into a shouting contest.

I Hate When A Woman Controls the Relationship, How Can I Be In Control Instead?

You can be in control instead by being non-monogamous and constantly exercising your other options.

When no woman has a hold on you, you hold the power in all of your relationships.

You can then punish and reward behaviours as you see fit.

Today, I’m going to do the exceptional and not talk to the guys.

I’m going to talk to the girls who read this blog.

Allow me to tell you the true story of a girl who had everything, until she didn’t.

This is the unfortunate story of a woman I knew.

She died because of the matriarchy.

Allow me to explain…

She Was Pretty

From a young age, this girl was pretty!

Blonde hair, thin, with blue doe eyes.

She had every physical quality you could imagine.

Many people in her life remarked on her beauty.

She was exceptional in this regard.

This meant that she had constant attention until the wall.

She could have capitalized on it, had she known what the world was really like from a younger age.

She Was Smart

From a young age, people could tell that she was smart.

She had learned multiple languages by the age of ten, and was exceptionally skilled at mathematics, as well as computers.

Everyone could tell she was going places.

In fact, she ended up studying at not one, not two, but three of the world’s most prestigious American universities.

She completed her undergrad, PhD and Postdoc at these universities and was praised at each one.

Multiple people remarked that she may have been one of the best scientists they ever had in their lab.

Eventually, at the apex of her career, she published a paper in one of the world’s most famous scientific journals.

She was the envy of her friends and family.

She Was A Rockstar

Not only was she well educated, and relatively famous in the scientific community, she was also well travelled.

You can imagine that a young, thin, pretty genius would be a rockstar.

She was.

She had attention everywhere she went, from multiple suitors.

None of them were good enough.

She flitted from relationship to relationship, drinking of the power that women experience in this phase of their life.

Had she known at this phase of her life what would be in store, she might have had a chance later…

She Listened to the Matriarchy

She listened to what the matriarchy told her.

You go girl! You can have it all! You can have a career, travel, and finally settle down and be a wife and have children when you’re older.

These insidious messages are everywhere.

They are in every TV show, on every billboard and on all social media at all hours of the day.

Her 20’s passed and gave way to her 30’s.

She still wasn’t married and still had no children.

All of her family began to warn her about the dangers of her own biology.

She didn’t listen.

She knew better.

After all, she was the famous rockstar scientist in her family.

She Hit the Wall

At a certain point, things began to fall apart.

The attention she received began to dry up.

She, being a genius, realized exactly what was going on.

She knew she was approaching her biological limit to have children and knew that the chances of having children at this point were slim to none.

She got involved with the most attractive man she could find at her age.

He was a hippie, druggie researcher type with a gleam in his eyes she enjoyed.

She hoped, beyond hope that she could fulfill her dreams of having children, something that at this point, was painfully clear she should have done earlier.

She Got Married

They were married.

It was a beautiful destination wedding where people gathered from all over the world.

Researchers from the east and west gathered on a cute little island to experience the wedding of these two beautiful people.

On paper, it was perfect, and were it not for the sad glint in her eyes, we all would have been fooled.

We were not however, and could all tell something was wrong.

We later realized it was drugs.

The Confluence

Everything came together all at once.

She had moved to a different country to do research, a country that had none of her family members.

She was isolated from everyone around due to the virus that had begun to spread around the world.

She continued to take drugs.

Her and her husband began to argue.

She had reached her biological limit and was likely unable to have children.

She understood that the good times were over.

The world looked bleak.

The End Presents Itself

After a brief stint at a mental hospital (likely due to drugs) and arguments with her husband, she began to reach out.

She spoke to friends and family about how she had made the wrong decision to marry this man.

She spoke of how alone she was.

She didn’t mention the drugs.

Later, she isolated herself, pushing everyone away.

We thought she wanted some space.

A little while later, she was gone.

An overdose took her.

So it ended, the beautiful life of a woman who had everything.

Conclusion

This woman had it all, a career, a husband, fame, and world experience.

What she didn’t have was a realistic knowledge of biology.

The matriarchy took that from her and replaced it with lies.

Now she has nothing to show for it but dirt.

Let this be a lesson to you women who believe that your biology is unimportant and you can have everything.

The wall is unforgiving and unrelenting.

Truly sad…

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

But Helios, I’ve Heard of Women Having Children at 50! I Can Do It Too!

No you can’t.

You don’t have hundreds of thousands of dollars to spend on that treatment.

Also, even with in vitro, women have something like a 5% chance of conception.

Understand your biology and prevent the problem!

Strong Independent Women Don’t Need Men! Are You Trying to Say We Should Go Back to Being Housewives?

Far from it.

I’m saying that you need to understand that if you are to succeed in your biological imperative, you have to do it before you are biologically unable to.

Starting at 35 is IDIOTIC.

You should be in a stable, comfortable arrangement LONG before that in order to maximize your biological success and the health of your children.

Try 26-28 for your first kid, or earlier!

This Girl Was the Exception! She Was an Idiot Druggie and Something Like This Could Never Happen to Me!

Maybe you’ll never overdose.

What is much more likely is you’ll live a bitter life of quiet desperation where you are dead inside as a result of the idiot decisions you made when you were younger.

PREVENT THE PROBLEM.

Don’t let the matriarchy ruin your life too!

Make decisions based on real facts and biology rather than listening to the platitudes that the matriarchy tells you in order to make you feel better.

You’ll live a better life that way.

This Story is a Lie and You Should Be Ashamed of Yourself for Writing it Helios!

If only it were a lie.

A girl wouldn’t be dead then.

I hate that the world is one where such tragedies can occur.

If I can even save one person with these words, then I can be redeemed for not being able to save her myself.

I was too young and dumb at the time for her to listen to me, unfortunately.

You however, hopefully, will listen and save yourself from her terrible fate.

This is a great topic.

Too many men screw up with women because they ask the wrong person for advice!

It is very important to ask for advice from the right people, lest they steer you in the wrong direction.

Let’s get into it, shall we?

The Fisherman Knows, Not the Fish

Do you think fish have any idea how fishing works?

They simply get taken up by the nets, or are lured by the hook of the fisherman.

They have no idea the mechanics behind the fishing trawler or the fishing rod.

Would it be wise to ask the fish how they’re caught?

They would tell you that getting fished “just happens”.

Or they might tell you that when the right fisherman comes along in the right place, fish get magically pulled into his boat.

Listening to that advice might imply that no effort at all is required in order to fish.

Asking the fisherman may yield different results.

You’ll find that he knows many things about fishing, from water currents, to where fish like to reside, to what kind of bait works for which fish and even which net is best to use.

Talking to a fisherman, you would understand the underlying mechanics behind fishing.

You’d realize that it is not only hard, but that a lot of thought and effort goes into fishing properly.

You have clearly asked the right person for advice!

The People Men Normally Ask for Advice

Men normally ask women for advice on how to seduce women.

Nothing could be more idiotic.

Every woman has a different opinion on how women are to be seduced and none of them understand how it’s really done.

At best, women will steer you in a neutral direction, at worst, they’ll steer you completely wrong.

Women give advice on how they would LIKE to be seduced.

What they would LIKE to happen is very different from what ACTUALLY happens.

As a result, many women end up telling men advice that leads them to become better beta slaves.

This of course, works in women’s favour, as a man asking for advice about how to seduce women, clearly doesn’t get it, and so does not deserve sexual access anyway.

In asking for advice from a woman, he has disqualified himself sexually from that woman and all her friends.

In effect, he has told her hypergamy everything it needs to hear (I am unworthy of sex and am a slave, please advise me on how best to serve you).

Asking women for advice will NOT help you seduce women.

It can only hurt you.

Instead, ask the fisherman.

Ask the men that are good at seducing women how it’s done.

Who Men Should Be Asking for Advice

Men should be asking seducers for advice on how women should be seduced.

They should not ask women OR beta/NPC/slave men.

Everyone in those categories has NO CLUE how it’s done.

All of their advice will therefore steer you in a terrible direction.

Unless you want to be an NPC, take ALL advice from women and NPCs on how to seduce women with A GRAIN OF SALT.

Seducers know exactly what needs to be done, and how.

They understand the current social climate and how women differ by age.

They understand exactly how you’re supposed to look, act and think in order to seduce women.

They are an AMAZING source of advice.

If you happen to have any man in your social circle who is amazing with women, you should definitely be asking him for advice on how women are to be seduced.

Anything you can glean from him will be gold!

Watch his mannerisms and how he treats the women around.

Watch how they react.

Learn and emulate.

He is an excellent fisherman!

Learn how to fish from him! 

Stupid Advice, Given On Purpose

Women tend to give bad advice on purpose, in order to serve the feminine primary social order.

They only know how to give that kind of advice, as they have grown up that way.

Women give men advice on the assumption that those men are slaves.

Only when the contrary is proved do women admit to what they truly want.

If you are constantly listening to advice given to you by women about what women want, you are 100% going to have mostly beta behaviours.

As a result, you will be totally anti-seductive to the women around you.

You will then wonder what you are doing wrong to repulse the women around you!

Your problem? You’re listening to them!

You’re failing the shit test by listening and you didn’t even know it was one!

Why Stupid Advice is Given

Women do not communicate overtly, they communicate covertly.

This means that the medium is the message.

You’re sub-communicating to her by asking for her advice that you have no idea what you’re doing.

As a result, you have just signaled that you’re an NPC to her.

You then receive the culturally appropriate advice to give to an NPC (which is engineered to keep you as an NPC to continue to fuel the feminine primary social order).

When women volunteer advice to you about what women want, smile, nod, and ignore it.

She has no idea that what she’s telling you is garbage, and she will be offended if you point it out to her.

Women’s advice is for team woman and for the natural selection of the human race.

Women’s advice is not for you.

Who You Should Model Yourself On

You should try to emulate the behaviours of the men around you who can actually seduce women.

If they’re able to do it, they’re clearly doing something right.

If you see a guy, and all he’s ever had are monogamous relationships that went disastrously wrong, do you really want to model yourself after him?

If he’s a miserable beta slave in a marriage, do you really want to model yourself after him?

How about if he has multiple FWBs (friends with benefits) and he always seems happy and in control?

How about if he has multiple attractive women that seem to want to fuck him?

Of course that is the guy to emulate!

Talk to the damn guy!

Learn all you can.

He’s likely lonely, and living an existence where he has actively had to ignore the bullshit that people around have tried to feed him his whole life.

He will love to have someone to talk to who gets that the world is stupefying people on purpose!

Use the Scientific Method

Rather than immediately agree with things you’re told, be a skeptic!

Don’t trust what people tell you, verify!

Read my stuff and test it out!

If it doesn’t work, dump it.

Use what works and drop what doesn’t.

Do the same for the advice that women and your family have given you.

If it doesn’t work, don’t be angry at them, just ignore it!

It is very important to experiment, so that you can get the best results out of your life.

Just because the social convention says you should do something, doesn’t mean you should follow it to the letter!

Search Your Feelings, You Know It to Be True

On some deep level, you know it to be true that women are obviously not the best people to be asked for advice.

Obviously they don’t know how they should be seduced.

If they did, most would not end up in miserable LTRs.

Learn from the people that are actually able to get the results that you want.

Listen to the experts.

Use the scientific method and don’t trust everything you hear.

I’m sure your gut was screaming at you constantly before you found a redpill source that something was wrong in your understanding of the world.

Obviously women are not attracted to what you thought they were attracted to.

Luckily, the internet has lots of information to help you.

It was not always this way. 

Conclusion

Most men fail before they even begin because they have no idea who they should be asking for advice.

They ask all the wrong people how they should go about seducing women (their friends, their family, women).

They fail to notice that the advice given by these people never works.

They are not experts in seduction, and if they were, would not be in the miserable situation they find themselves.

You need to ask the right people for advice or you will be led astray.

Ask the fisherman how fish are to be caught, and not the fish.

Good luck!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

My Older Sister Keeps Telling Me That If I’m Nice to Women I Will Meet the Girl of My Dreams One Day! I Don’t Believe You Helios!

Does your sister know how to seduce women?

Why are you listening to her advice then?

She has no idea what women really want, she is just parroting what the matriarchy tells her that women should want.

Her advice will lead you down the road to slavery.

Listen at your own peril.

My Older Brother Is Happily Married and Is Having Lots of Sex With His Wife. Are You Trying to Tell Me He Did It Wrong?

When the honeymoon phase ends, your brother is going to be a sex-starved slave like all the rest of the beta NPCs.

If you do what he did, you will end up the same.

Women find men in marriage to be totally anti-seductive.

You are not the one special exception to the rule.

Women BECOME sexless in marriage.

Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

I Keep Trying to Be Nice To Women, and I’m Constantly Being LJBF’d. What Am I Doing Wrong?

You’re very likely behaving in ways that are anti-seductive (ie. doing what women and your beta friends are telling you will work with women).

Take advice from people that actually know how to seduce women and change your fate!

“Being nice” is doing it TOTALLY wrong.

Read all of the content on this blog and try to internalize the concepts.

You will do MUCH better afterwards.

This Is Sounding Too Much Like A Conspiracy Theory. Women Working Together to Enslave Men? Total Bullshit!

It would be if the animal kingdom didn’t work on EXACTLY the idea of natural selection.

Women create the selective pressure necessary to generate alphas.

They train all men to be slaves, and only those that break free are real men.

It is a shit test on a global scale.

Simply look for the patterns in human behaviour and you will see what I see. 

Look deeper than what people, especially women, say.

Watch their actions!

Men think of the world as having two genders, male and female.

Women do not see the world this way.

Instead, women see the world as comprising of three genders.

Depending on the gender that you are, you are treated differently.

Most men have no idea that women think this way.

They feel that they are on an even playing field with other men.

The world turns out to be much more insidious than that…

What Are the Three Genders?

To women, there are three genders (in order of importance):

1)  Female

2)  Male

3)  Slave

Each gender has certain things that they are entitled to.

Women, being the highest and most important are entitled to almost everything.

Here is a list of entitlements that women receive as the most important gender:

1)  The near-ubiquitous protection of the government

2)  Favourable treatment in courts (including family courts)

3)  The upper hand in relationships

4)  Control of reproduction

5)  Better access to education

6)  Better workplace protections

Men, being the second most important gender receive entitlements as well.

Here is a list:

1)  Sex

2)  Respect

3)  Submission(in bed)

4)  Genuine attraction and love from women

The slave gender receives NOTHING.

No entitlements.

They exist for the sole purpose of providing the entitlements that women need in order to live a comfortable life.

They are seen as reproductively INVISIBLE.

Most men (what a man would think of as men) are NOT actually men to women, but SLAVES.

How Are the Genders Determined?

The female gender is determined by BIRTH.

The two other genders are determined by BEHAVIOUR.

Our matriarchy has determined that every non-female should be raised as a SLAVE, and the determination of who is male is made after, through behavior.

Every non-female is ASSUMED TO BE and TREATED as a slave until they PROVE OTHERWISE.

Tests needed to be devised in order for males to be determined out of the populace of slaves.

Thus, the shit-test was born.

Hypergamous Doubt

Since hypergamy wants only the best, and the best is in constant flux, tests were made to determine male-ness.

Shit tests therefore, are ubiquitous.

All males are constantly tested, to determine if they’re truly males, or if they were secretly a slave all along.

Most men fail these regular tests.

This is why you see strong alpha males in marriages eventually become beta-ized.

To women, this demonstrates that they were NEVER a man at all, but a slave the whole time who was pretending to be a male.

A male would never bow to constant testing.

The Best Way to Perform Constant Behaviour Testing

Since constant behavior testing needed to happen for women, relationship styles had to be developed that would facilitate this.

Thus, the monogamous relationship was born.

In a monogamous arrangement, the man had to shift his focus from multiple women to just one.

As a result, his sex drive could be carefully controlled and managed by one female.

She could then perform constant testing to determine if he was truly a man, or if he was a slave the whole time.

More than 95% of men in these arrangements turn out to have been slaves the whole time.

Since the man was a slave the whole time, the woman who was carefully managing him could throw him away in disgust.

He was never a man, and was unworthy to reproduce, why the fuck did I do it with him?

This is the common feeling many women experience in monogamous arrangements.

Reproduction vs. Provision

Only men are worthy of reproduction.

Slaves get nothing.

All that slaves are good for is resource generation!

I hope you can see now why women stop giving sex to men in long-term monogamous arrangements.

Under rigorous testing, the man turned out to be entirely unworthy of reproduction (a slave).

The woman’s hypergamous nature became dissatisfied with her sexual choice and now seeks a better one.

Her nature, however, has no problem with taking the resources of a slave.

He is unworthy of anything else, after all.

That the slave tries to convince the women that he should be worthy of reproduction means nothing to her.

She knows he is unworthy and therefore undeserving.

Natural Selection and Selective Pressure

As has been previously discussed in past posts, women are the natural selectors of the human race.

They purposely raise non-women to be good slaves, and look for actual males in the pool through tests.

The biological selective pressure on men is provided by the matriarchy.

Non-females are sociologically conditioned to be slaves and only those non-females who fight against their mental shackles become worthy of reproduction.

This worthiness lasts until the determination that they were actually a slave all along, at which point, the sex disappears.

This explains why it is much easier to sleep with a new woman than one that has known you a long time (especially for less-experienced seducers).

A woman that has known you a long time has had lots of time to make hypergamous tests.

She is more likely, as a result, to determine any man to be unworthy.

Again, as previously stated, women look to disqualify.

Once a man has been disqualified, he is a slave in her eyes.

True Love is Only Given to One of the Two Male Genders

Most men have never experienced true love and admiration from a woman.

This is because most men are NOT men, but slaves.

Slaves are unworthy of true love, or respect.

Only the real men, those that have resisted the cultural slavery women have created to foster natural selection deserve love and sex.

The rest get to be husked like corn.

Which One Do You Want to Be?

Ultimately, you’re going to have to choose which of the two genders you want to be.

If you want to be a slave, that is your prerogative.

You will suffer and be used as a slave.

You will also be praised for “doing the right thing”.

The definition of “doing the right thing” is fostering the beautiful, comfortable life that the matriarchy gets to live as a result of your sacrifice.

Men will receive love, adoration, sex and reproduction.

Slaves get nothing.

Remember that.

Conclusion

Women don’t see two genders, but three:

1)  Women

2)  Men

3)  Slaves

Only two of the three genders are entitled to anything (men and women).

Women have created a cultural environment of slavery in order to foster natural selection.

This natural selection leads to the creation of better and better men.

Your goal in life should be to break free of the slavery placed upon you from birth and take your place as one of us, a free man.

Be strong!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Are You Talking About Homosexuals When You’re Talking About Three Genders?

Nope!

I’m referring to women, men and slaves.

Most “men” out there are men in name only.

They are treated in a manner much more closely resembling slavery.

They are also undeserving of reproduction.

Most husbands and men in long term relationships (past the honeymoon phase) are slaves in actuality.

I Love My Girlfriend and We Have Sex All the Time, She’s Not Constantly Testing Me To Turn Me Into A Slave!

Honeymoon phase!

Wait 3 months to 3 years and come back.

Let me know if she’s still giving you dick-breaking sex.

It is much more likely that you’re on choreplay status and having to convince her to have sex with you.

Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Thanks Helios, I Broke Up With My Bitch of a Girlfriend and I Have a FWB Who Doesn’t Treat Me Like A Slave Anymore!

Thank god you get it!

You’re much more likely to receive the attention a real man deserves when not in an exclusive relationship.

Her hypergamy is satisfied knowing you have other options and are exercising them.

You’re one of us!

Why is the World So Fucked Up Helios?

I wish I knew, my son.

Here is a quote from Lord of the Rings for you that may help:

“I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. “So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

We have control over our own thoughts and actions.

We did not get to decide the time that we were born into.

Valentine’s day is a really shitty part of the year.

For women, it is shitty because they are reminded of other women who are better (at subjugating a man) than they are.

For men, it is shitty because they have to reaffirm their love (slavery) to a woman.

You’ll see what I’m talking about…

Male Subjugation Day

Valentine’s day should be called by its true name: Male subjugation day.

You see, it isn’t enough that men are already at the whim of a woman in a committed, monogamous relationship.

Men also have to reaffirm their worship of their one special woman once per year, on male subjugation day.

On this day, men must totally prostrate themselves before a girl and buy her something to show how much of a slave he is.

He then gets the privilege of being compared to the other slaves.

If he hasn’t done a good enough job showing how good a slave he was that year, no duty sex for that month!

Isn’t that amazing!

Adding Insult to Injury

As I alluded to before, it isn’t enough that women have total primacy over our culture, they have to rub it in our faces with one specific day where they can be overt about how badly they have won the culture war.

It is a gigantic insult to masculinity everywhere that such a day should exist.

Men should never have to prostrate themselves before anyone, let alone their sole sexual partner, who they’re providing so much to already.

Being forced to do this by feminine culture is truly adding insult to injury.

The only way I can imagine this holiday as being any more shameful to betas is if they were forced to wear something garishly embarrassing.

That a man would EVER agree to the socially accepted conventions of valentine’s day is an affront to masculinity.

Alpha vs Beta

A true alpha would NEVER beg for the affections of a girl like valentines day implies men should.

It is TOTAL cultural brainwashing.

It is made to convince betas to compete over how good a doormat they are.

Just by entering into the competition, you are labelling yourself as a gigantic LOSER.

It’s hilarious what a shit test this day is.

It’s also fucking embarassing how many men fail it.

Buying Love

As I’ve said before, you cannot buy women’s love.

No amount of lingerie-buying or chocolate gifting will make that girl want to fuck you.

No amount of kneeling will make your wife horny for you again.

In fact, trying to buy love DIRECTLY goes against what you should be doing.

Want to get laid on valentine’s day?

Don’t buy your wife ANYTHING.

When she complains, agree and amplify, or deflect.

That annoyance/rage she feels because you refuse to bend might just get you laid.

Combine it with the truth: 

“Valentines day is stupid.”

And you might just have a magic “get-laid” potion!

You are a MAN, you DO NOT bend because some stupid social convention tells you to!

Choreplay

People that believe that giving gifts on valentines day will get them laid are the same kind of men who believe that choreplay is attractive.

Both of these activities have the OPPOSITE effect.

You are NOT a slave.

Acting like one will NOT get you laid.

You need a masculine-feminine polarity in your relationship in order to get laid.

This means that the man has to behave in ways that are worthy of respect.

If he fails to do so, he fails to be respected as a man, and sex drops to zero as a result.

DO NOT BEND!

If You Have to Convince Her, You’re Beta

If you have to logically convince your wife to fuck you, you’re a beta.

If you have to buy her things for her to fuck you, you’re a beta.

If she constantly makes excuses for why she won’t fuck, you’re a beta.

If you’re constantly kissing her ass (the way society implies you should on valentine’s day), you’re a beta.

Attraction is NOT a logical thing for women.

Women are NOT men.

What Most Men Think Women Want

Most men think women want the following:

1. A nice guy
2. A stable home
3. Nice things
4. Money
5. Chores done for her
6. Comfort
7. Love
8. Listening to her

This is what women teach men that they want from a young age.

If you listen to these things and give them to women freely, you’re a beta slave.

You have learned nothing.

Pay attention to who women fuck and you’ll get an idea of what they really want!

What Women Really Want

Women really want the following things (qualities of men they fuck passionately):

1. Excitement
2. Unpredictability
3. Instability
4. Emotional unavailability
5. Sexy body
6. Domination
7. Drama
8. Danger

If you foster even two of the following qualities in yourself, you’ll see a remarkable increase in the amount of sex you’re going to have.

Notice how NONE of the things on this list include buying her chocolates on valentine’s day!

I also hope you notice that most husbands (or boyfriends) embody NONE of these qualities (or maybe one).

Attraction Cannot Be Bought

You cannot buy the visceral, animalistic attraction that women have for alphas.

That has to be forged in you through struggle and pain.

You will NEVER achieve that by subjugating yourself.

Do not supplicate to her by following shitty cultural trends that enforce weakness and ass-kissing in men.

Valentine’s day is to be avoided at all costs, go it?

Good.

Conclusion

As you can see, Valentine’s day is terrible, in that it enforces the cultural stereotype of male subjugation for implied intimacy.

Obviously it not only doesn’t work, but further screws over the man in the arrangement.

Valentine’s day is a cruel insult to injury for betas.

NEVER engage in stupid shit like this.

Do not follow cultural trends that encourage men to be doormats.

It hurts everyone in the long run!

Be strong.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Valentine’s Day is Coming Up, Should I Buy My Girlfriend Something Nice, or Is That Too Beta?

Having a monogamous GF is already beta.

Now you want to buy her shit on subjugation day too?

Are you kidding me?

Have you read any of these posts?

I Love My Wife, are You Saying I Shouldn’t Buy Her Flowers? Asshole!

Is it beta day or something?

Why are you monogamously married? In 2021? Are you retarded?

And you’re buying her flowers too.

Jesus, there’s no saving some people.

Go chop your balls off bro, there’s a cleaver right there.

I’ve Always Thought Valentine’s Day Was Stupid, Is It?

It’s not only stupid, it reinforces that women are in power.

It’s just a day for women to compare purses(husbands) with each other.

One will say how her butler (boyfriend) bought her something nice, and the other will counter with how her even better butler (husband) bought her something nicer.

The first girl will then get jealous and deny her butler (boyfriend) sex since he didn’t do a good enough job being a butler and the cycle continues.

NPCs have such amazing lives don’t they?

My Wife Only Sleeps With Me On Valentines Day and On My Birthday. I Have to Work Hard to Convince Her I Need Sex. Help!

You’re in a dead bedroom because you agreed to get into a monogamous arrangement with your wife where you’re cohabitating.

Now she has your balls in a vice and has to do absolutely nothing to keep you around.

You’re more of a dog with cash around his neck than a man to her at this point.

She has to feed you once in a while.

She just feels that if she has to feed you more than twice a year that it’s too much.

Don’t you agree?

If you don’t, give her half your money!

That’s what you get for marrying anytime after 1980.

The law is also on your wife’s side.

She can treat you like a dog and you can’t do anything!

Beautiful NPC life…

I’m so jealous by the way.

It is a common complaint of men in the manosphere that we’re angry.

I would say that an analysis of the average person here does NOT imply that, but certainly, there is a sizeable quantity of men who are angry to learn the truth of the red pill.

It is a bitter pill to swallow after all, and anger is not a surprising reaction.

Let’s explain why…

Learning the Truth

Imagine living in your reality, and suddenly discovering that NOTHING that you learned is as it seems.

Imagine learning that in fact, many things you have been taught are an elaborate RUSE to keep you a slave.

That utter shock and realization of the truth would jar anybody.

Learning about women’s true nature (hypergamy, alpha fucks, beta bucks, control in relationships, etc.) makes many men angry.

It is the truth and the truth often hurts, as we know…

Seeing the Truth Everywhere

Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.

You begin to put the pieces together.

You understand things like the following:

1)  Why all your past relationships turned out so badly

2)  Why your parents, and seemingly everyone else in marriages are miserable

3)  Why men look so despondent holding a woman’s purse at the mall

4)  Why feminism exists

5)  Why white knights exist

6)  The mental prison keeping most men (including you) down

7)  Why LTR’s are terrible

At that point, many men want to scream in rage.

This is utterly normal.

Being fooled for your whole life by people that love you will do that to a person.

Getting Angry About It

Men get angry.

They rage, they complain and they trash talk women.

They berate them for having hurt them and for all of the future men they will use and abuse.

They rage at female nature, and how hypergamy doesn’t care about male happiness.

They rage at how women can never love them how they desire, and never will.

They rage at the mental prison they were so foolish as to let themselves get caught up in.

They rage at the alphas, who were lucky enough (or wise enough) to understand female nature before them.

They rage at how unfair life truly is.

They rage at the amount of effort they have to put in to be a man worthy of anything, and how much time they have lost.

As the saying goes:

“The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, the next best time is today.”

Rage is a REACTION to the HARSHNESS of the real world they have just been plunged into.

Justified Feelings

Men are FULLY and TRULY justified for their anger.

How would you feel if everything you thought was true, all the things that you thought would lead to your fundamental love and acceptance were all a lie?

It is an incredible moment in a man’s life when he parts the veil of reality in this way.

It is almost like taking a breath for the first time after having held it in forever.

And the air is COLD.

Many men suffer greatly as a result of this knowledge, but it also allows for true freedom in the long run.

They can finally run free!

Use the Anger to Drive You to Improve Your Life

Rather than continue to rage and despair at your current situation, use that anger to fuel your journey towards greatness.

Most people do not, and never will, know the truth.

You now know.

Channel the rage you feel into greatness.

Do all of the things that the losers of the world feel are unimportant.

Beat them!

They deserve it!

Take your revenge by becoming one of us!

Become one of the greats!

It is now in your grasp.

The knowledge that you need in order to succeed is finally in your hands.

Be careful, it is powerful.

Women Don’t Do It Out of Malice

Remember that women are NOT the way they are out of malice, or evil.

They are acting as evolution has made them.

They are the natural selectors of the human race, whether we like it or not.

Do not hate them for it, it is what will make you great.

In struggle and pain lies greatness.

Do not allow the unfairness of the world to bow your knees and bend your back.

You are a powerful man who was made to bear the burdens of this world.

Fight!

Be free!

It is Just A Phase

With time, the anger will pass.      

The anger phase will likely last anywhere from a few months to a few years.

Afterwards, you will likely move into a depressive phase, as you realize that nothing is happening to contradict those things that made you angry to read.

Eventually, the sadness will give way to the next phase.

It will be a comfortable acceptance.

Only when you have truly accepted the truths of the world can you be set free and become one of us.

Amused Mastery

With true acceptance of what the world is really like, you will gain “amused mastery”.

Amused mastery is the idea that you understand women and how the world works so well that it no longer hurts you.

The tests of women now amuse you as you realize that they are simply evolutionary games being played in front of you.

You effortlessly swat these challenges to the side as and are now in full control of your life.

You will truly feel as an apex man feels at this point, having reached the peak of your sexual existence.

You will finally feel as powerful as a woman does in her rockstar phase.

You will feel this way for the rest of your life.

What women were given by birth, you will have earned through pain, sacrifice, hurt and rejection.

The kind of man you will be at this phase of your life is unimaginable to you now.

You’ll laugh at the childishness of your actions now once you’ve reached this point.

Conclusion

Men experience anger when they’ve learned the truth of the world for the first time.

Many people outside of the manosphere complain about “the angry men of the red pill”.

What they don’t understand is that it is simply a phase in the process of self-actualization.

Anger is a necessary step in a man’s growth as he reacts harshly to the lies and deceit that have plagued his life until that point.

Do not despair if you are in this phase of your life.

It will pass and give way to something far greater.

Stay strong!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

I FUCKING HATE That the World is the Way It Is! I Feel Like I’ve Been Abused My Whole Life! Goddamn I Was Such An Idiot!

I know, I know.

I felt exactly the same way.

You’re going to have to life with the pain for now.

Use the anger to fuel your path to greatness.

No turning back now…

What Do You Mean Women Can’t Love Me the Way I’ve Always Wanted?

Women are totally incapable of giving you unconditional love.

This is a FEATURE, not a bug.

You have to become comfortable with that fact.

Women love men for what they DO, not who they ARE.

Women Are All Lies and Manipulation, What the Hell?

They are not!

They are simply running on what biology has given them.

They are the natural selectors of the human race, like it or not.

If you are weak, you deserve NOTHING.

That is the sad truth of this world.

Women actively raise men to be weak, and only the strong survive and thrive DESPITE it.

Helios, Will I Ever Stop Being Angry?

Yes you will, my son.

It will not pass without anguish and pain, however.

First you must suffer.

You must experience how truly blind and foolish you have been to truly appreciate the great gift you have been given.

Time for a sad and uncomfortable topic today.

I’m very sorry I have to write this, but betas need to hear it.

You can’t break free without knowing the truth of what happens in committed, monogamous relationships.

I know it’s going to hurt.

Sorry, I’m doing it anyway…

Alpha vs. Beta

Before we talk about duty sex, let me reiterate the concept of alpha vs beta.

Women want to fuck alphas and do so out of instinct.

They cannot control the feelings and give themselves freely.

This is not the case for betas.

When women fuck betas, it is often out of obligation.

Obligation is NOT sexy.

Most men in western society are betas.

This means that it is likely that a large proportion of men have NEVER experienced the truly passionate, animalistic sex that women give alphas freely.

That is a travesty and one of the reasons why I have written this blog.

Why Men Get Married

Men get married (or get into committed monogamous relationships) under the false impression that it will give them access to sex on tap.

Obviously, living with your partner means that they’re around more often, and therefore, there must be greater access to sex.

Unfortunately, this is NOT true.

Familiarity breeds contempt.

When a man agrees to live with a woman, he removes all of the mystery of their previous arrangement.

The anxiety of whether he was seeing other girls disappears.

As a result, the sex actually LESSENS over time, where the man was expecting it to INCREASE.

A long term relationship is simply a honey trap.       

Women lure men into them and then don’t give them at all what they expected.

This is why men become miserable in marriages.

Their expectations for frequency of sex are not met, and in fact, over time decrease to near zero as inevitable beta-ization occurs.

Why Women Get Married

Women get married because once they’re married they are safe!

For the next twenty years, all of their beta provisioning needs are now met!

All of the worries about being able to raise children are gone.

The only sacrifice is the man in the arrangement.

The woman and children benefit at the expense of the man.

Nowadays, more and more women understand exactly the position they have put husbands in by marrying them.

They use the fact that they can divorce him as leverage.

As a result, women hold extreme power in a marriage through use of threat point (the idea that she could leave at any time, ripping his financial and emotional situation in half).

In marriage, men are brought to their knees, forced to worship their new boss, who controls them through the government.

The Thrill is Gone

When a woman knows she has a man by the balls (in a marriage), she no longer has to fuck him to keep him around.

He no longer has the luxury of going to other options when she pisses him off.

He now HAS to tolerate her bad behavior or have his life ripped in half.

Obviously, this change in power dynamics, where the woman reigns supreme, ruins her hypergamic instinct.

She no longer feels she is with a superior man, she knows she is with a loser.

Any man that would prostrate himself before her in such an arrangement must NECESSARILY be a loser.

She stops feeling passion for her husband and instead uses sex as a tool.

She wields sex like a treat, using it to reward more and more submissive behaviours from her man, using his sex drive against him.

This is so-called “duty sex”.

This treatment over time wears down even the strongest of men.

A man’s desire to have sex being locked up through financial threat is the ridiculous result of modern marriage.

It is no surprise that more and more men are checking out of this terrible deal.

If You Have to Convince Her, You’re A Beta

If you have to convince her logically to fuck you more, you’re done.

She no longer has the passion for you that is necessary in order for you to keep her around.

She’ll very likely cheat.

You caused this problem yourself by allowing yourself to be monogamous.

You should NEVER have only one woman as your sole option.

That opens you up to being controlled through your sex drive.

Committed monogamous men are beta BY DESIGN.

DO NOT put yourself in that position.

You are dooming yourself to a life of suffering.

Ignore this warning at your peril!

Monogamy is Anti-Seductive

As I said before, when you get into a monogamous arrangement, she knows she has you.

As a result, she will start to display more and more disrespectful behaviours.

Where before you had the power to walk away to your other options when she showed disrespect, you now have no ability to do anything.

When she knows for SURE that you won’t walk away, she’ll begin to take her liberties.

This is also why you NEVER agree to living with a woman.

She WILL use it against you.

Let her feel love, while you keep the power for yourself.

It is more important to hold the upper hand in a relationship than to feel love.

When you have the ability to wield your options, the sex you receive and it’s passion will always be high.

Women will fuck you just to convince you that they are better than your other options.

They never are.

The sexual benefit you get from having multiple partners far exceeds the amount of sex that one girl could ever give you.

Don’t Get Married

Unless you want to experience how it feels to have your balls in a vice, don’t get married.

NO CONTACTS with the government should exist in your relationships.

She should have NO POWER of law to wield over you.

Do NOT co-habitate, do NOT get married.

Women will wield their power over you shamelessly if you do.

It is absolutely idiotic to enter into such an arrangement.

If your aim is to be a free man who gets to experience all the best of life, you should NOT get married.

Better Relationship Arrangements for Men

As I’ve stated numerous times, the best arrangements for men are non-monogamous ones.

FWBs (friend with benefits), NMGs (non-monogamous girlfriends) and SNMGs (serious non-monogamous girlfriends) are the ONLY relationship arrangements you should enter into.

You should NEVER enter into other ones.

They simply shift the power balance too far in favour of women, and allow them to control you in ways that make it too easy to be beta-ized.

Once you allow the power to shift in her favour, rather than passionate alpha sex, you’re getting once-in-a-while duty sex.

It is a losing proposition.

For those of you lamenting the loss of marriage, don’t.

Non-monogamous arrangements are as good as it gets for men.

Conclusion

Duty sex is the result of being in long-term committed relationships.

Women simply grow bored with their arrangement, understand that they are the leaders in their relationships and take full advantage.

Don’t allow yourself to be the guy who sex is doled out to as a reward for being a “good boy”.

Prevent yourself from entering into these kinds of arrangements and you’ll prevent the problem of duty sex entirely.

You shouldn’t have to suffer in the long term to serve the matriarchy!

Godspeed.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

I Have Lots of Sex With My Girlfriend, Am I A Beta?

Honeymoon phase.

Wait 3 months to 3 years and then tell me how your girl is treating you.

If she’s even a little bit unpleasant compared to before, she’s taking her liberties and sees you as her beta.

What’s the Real Reason Women Get Married?

Safety.

Safety is NOT sexy.

You want to be the guy she fucks in arduous passion, not her financial safety net.

My Wife At the Beginning of Our Marriage Used to Fuck Like An Animal, What Gives?

Boredom, safety, security and she knows she has you by the balls.

She knows you’re not going anywhere, so why should she put in any effort?

You’re a loser to her who would be willing to chop his own balls off.

Why should she fuck a guy without his balls?

I Bought Lingerie for My Wife for Valentines Day, I Can’t Wait Until She Wears It!

That is obligation!

She should buy lingerie for herself to impress you.

You should not have to try and convince her to wear lingerie.

If you do have to buy her lingerie to try and convince her to wear it for you, she’s just not that into you.

Sorry bro, you’re a beta.

I can’t wait to get flamed as a result of writing this.

People cannot handle the truth (women and beta accomplices)

Luckily for you, I don’t write for them.

I write for you!

If you want to break free of societal programming, you’re going to have to understand how things really work and use that information to your advantage.

Here we go…

Men’s Life Progression

Men start life as NOTHING.

They have NO intrinsic value.

They learn very quickly and from a young age that men are judged SOLELY on what they can DO.

As a result, men struggle and struggle, and are constantly failing and being rejected.

Being a man does NOT give you anything for free.

Some men struggle and give up, eventually giving in to feminine conditioning and are destroyed (betas).

Others, struggle until they break free (alphas).

Here’s a list of how men’s life generally goes:

1)  Birth

2)  Child  (treated the same way as women)

3)  Puberty (treatment as  a man begins)

4)  Young man (struggle and failure, constant rejection/invisibility, unless they’re a “natural” alpha)

5)  Adult man

a.  Option A:  Figures out how life really works, rises above the pack and becomes an alpha

b.  Option B: Becomes more and more feminine in an attempt to escape the burden of masculinity. Fails to become a real “man” (beta)

c.   Option C: Absolutely gives up on life, trying not at all to do or make anything of themselves. (undesirable)

6)  Aging Adult (value begins to drop, regardless of previous status)

7)  Death

When Men Are Weakest

Men are weakest as children or young adults (Age 10-18) . They have not even begun to increase their value.

Men increase their value through developing competence and acquiring wealth.

They also increase their value by becoming more physically imposing.

All of these things take time and testosterone, things the young adult barely has any of.

Many men feel like failures when they’re young.

This is normal and is part of the learning process.

These young men are learning that the world does not care for them an IOTA until they provide VALUE.

Some men NEVER learn this lesson and remain betas/undesirables their whole life.

When Men Are Strongest

Men are strongest once they have “grown up” from being a young man. This lasts from the ages of 19-40.

Different men peak at different times and for different reasons.

Some men peak in their early to mid 20’s (athletes).

Other men peak in their early to mid 30’s (businessmen and many musicians).

Other men peak in their late 30’s (late bloomers).

In any case, at their peaks, these men all have some combination of healthy bodies, wealth and status.

All of these things combine to make them extremely attractive to women.

If you are a young man reading these posts, understand that it is possible that you NEVER reach your peak potential as a result of being too lazy, or allowing yourself to get embroiled in long term relationships/a 9-5 job.

It is possible for you to only ever achieve 60% of the value you could have had if you allow the distractions of life to deter you from your goal (freedom and success in life).

Misconceptions About Assortative Mating

Many people seem to think that as a result of what I just said, that the most attractive women (women in their late teens to early 20’s) will pair up with the most attractive men, men at their peaks.

While they often do, it is obviously not the case that they all will.

This is because some do not ever have the opportunity to meet an alpha man at their peak (alphas are rare).

Also, with apps like tinder, it is more likely for a young woman to pair up with an established athlete nowadays (a very handsome man in his early to late 20’s) than it has even been before.

This skews women towards getting with athletic alphas and away from the older, more established alphas.

This does not mean that they do not find these men attractive, or even that they don’t sleep with them.

It simply means that the occurrence is rarer than it has been previously.

Obviously, women’s life progression is extremely different, as you’ll now see.

Women’s Life Progression

Women progress through life very differently than men.

This is because women HAVE intrinsic value.

Since women are the literal progenitors of the human race, each individual woman has intrinsic value from birth, something that men do NOT have.

This gives rise to the famous “pussy pass”.

Women start life off as valuable (as children), and get progressively more valuable as they age, peaking at around 18-23, and dropping in value slowly until they lose their intrinsic value at around age 35.

At that point, the “pussy pass” disappears, and women experience life as men do for the first time.

At age 35, women look at the most attractive men around who are their age, and lament the difference.

They often then get angry at the world.

Here is a list of women’s life progression:

1)  Birth

2)  Child (treated well)

3)  Puberty (treated well)

4)  Young woman (rockstar phase begins, treated AMAZINGLY well by everyone around, given free things, constantly given attention and praise, especially by men)

5)  Adult woman (still treated pretty well, but not as before. Praised often by more beta men, but the attention is less. It is here that women go through their “strong and independent as well as lady phases”)

6)  THE WALL (women hit the infamous wall, and they actively notice that they simply cannot compete with younger women anymore)

7)  Aging woman (“pussy pass” attention disappears completely, often leads to misery, especially if hypergamy is not satisfied. Treated like a man for the first time in her life)

8)  Old woman (Treated like a man still)

9)  Death

As you can see, women are frontloaded, whereas men are not.

When Women Are Weakest

Women are weakest when they are no longer receiving the “pussy pass”.

That means that women are weakest at any point past the wall.

They stop being treated as goddesses at this point, and instead are treated as humans for the first time (something that men have experienced the whole time).

Many women experience misery later on in their lives due to this reality.

It is good for women to understand that their good treatment will not last forever.

When Women Are Strongest

Women are treated as ROCKSTARS from the age of 18-23, and the “pussy pass” continues until they are around 30, though for some women it lasts much longer (if they have good genes and take care of themselves).

Some women can maintain their “pussy pass” until their mid 40’s if their behavior is EXTREMELY regimented and controlled and they STAY IN SHAPE.

The average women experiences something that the average man NEVER does his whole life.

She experiences a period in her life where she’s treated more like Mick Jagger (or some other celebrity).

The average man NEVER has this experience.

It is truly awe inspiring what happens when you become an alpha for the first time and are saturated with female attention.

It is like the veil has been parted and the sun can be seen for the first time.

You truly have to experience it to understand what I mean.

When Men and Women Overlap

Men and women somewhat overlap at around age 28.

It is at that age that an alpha on the rise has about the same value as a rockstar (or strong independent) phase woman on the decline.

Women often resent men at this point, as they can see that he is on the rise while she is on the decline.

This resentment effect is even more pronounced once men and women are 35, and the man is still attractive.

The man, having reached his peak is about as attractive to women as a 22 year old woman is to men.

They resent that they no longer have the power to attract such a man and complain that he should date/sleep with someone who is “age appropriate”.

This is jealousy and shaming, and should be IGNORED.

Anger Men Have Towards “Pussy Pass”

Many men who first learn the truth of the pussy pass get extremely upset.

They rage at the unfairness of the world, that women get treated well no matter what they do and that men have to work for it.

To that, I answer, that men have potential that women can never achieve.

Men have the ability to continue to rise, nearly indefinitely, as compared to women.

A man can continue to grow, and grow and raise his value well into middle and even old age.

Women do not have that luxury.

Their attractiveness burns like a supernova, and very quickly explodes.

Women are flowers, men are wine.

Do not be angry that the world is how it is, use the knowledge you have to your advantage.

“Build it  and they will come”.

You have to want to build it, however.

Conclusion

Men and women have different life progressions.

Men have no intrinsic value, while women do.

Men have to work for everything they have, while women don’t (at least early on in their lives).

Men have the capacity to keep rising far beyond the wall that women have, but most men don’t even try.

Use the knowledge you have been given to better yourself and do not complain about your lot!

Work hard!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Are You Saying That I, As A Man Am Worthless From Birth?

Yes.

I know the truth is hard to hear.

You, as a man, are NOTHING until you earn it.

You deserve NO ACCEPTANCE until you claw it out of reality for yourself.

That is what it means to be a man.

Learn, suffer and grow, or die as a man who never had worth.

What the Fuck Helios! Women Don’t Have to Do Anything and They’re Treated Like Rockstars? The World is Shit!

Now you’re on the road greatness.

The veil has been parted and you can see the truth.

Women have to do NOTHING to get what we men have to suffer a lifetime for.

That is our lot as men.

The reward is that we get the privilege of shaping our realities.

Women have no such luck.

I’ve Never Seen A Young Woman With An Older Man, There’s No Way That A 20-something Would Get With a 35 Year Old, That’s Gross!

My experience and the experience of many men says otherwise.

Just because you haven’t seen something, does not mean it doesn’t exist.

You never knew how women were before you read this blog right?

You had no idea, and yet reality is the way it is.

Hypergamy doesn’t care what you think.

I Noticed That Most Raging Feminists Are Over 35, Is There Something To That?

Yeah!

They’re mad that they’re being treated as men have been treated the whole time and think it’s MEN’s fault!

Isn’t that hilarious?

How many men have you heard complaining that they’re not treated like a rockstar just for existing?

Exactly.