Here is a topic you might not have ever considered.
Most people don’t ever consider it (clearly).
The topic is long term happiness!
What if I told you that most people you have encountered (and will ever encounter) are unable to experience long-term happiness (10-15 years plus).
That is the truth of the modern world.
Let’s get into why…
Helios, How Do You Define Happiness?
I define happiness like this:
“Happiness is the experience of having a stable positive emotional state, with no major dips due to poor life choices.”
Most people (90%) will NEVER achieve this.
Most people go through life on autopilot and never plan their moves so far in advance as to prevent misery in the long term.
They think about the now and the next 5 years, and forget that their life span is a lot longer than that.
Let’s explain who can be happy and why they can actually achieve happiness.
We’ll also explain why the rest of the population is not able to achieve any sort of long term happiness.
Who Can Be Happy?
ALL PEOPLE are capable of experiencing happiness.
EVERYONE experiences short term happiness, or cyclical happiness.
I am NOT talking about that today.
Most people have NO CONTROL over their own happiness, it just happens.
In my opinion, that is not true happiness.
Having happiness happen to you, rather than it being a result of your excellent planning is not true happiness.
Who Actually Ends Up Happy In the Long Term?
The only people who can be truly happy in the long term are ALPHA MALES who know the truth (enlightened alphas).
All other people (women, betas, natural alphas) are FUCKED when it comes to long term happiness.
The reason is because ALL PEOPLE who are NOT enlightened alphas are entered into some kind of deal that is bound to explode in the long term.
Since they are sitting on bombs, they can never be happy in the long term.
The bombs I am referring to, of course, are committed, monogamous LTRs/marriages.
Why Women End Up Unhappy
Women end up unhappy because most of them ARE NOT paired with men they actually want to be paired with.
Most women who are married/in a committed LTR are paired with BETAS.
Betas make women miserable in the long term because women’s hypergamy is not satisfied by them.
Effectively, since most women have SETTLED for their partner, they are incapable of experiencing long term happiness.
Many women could prevent this problem by pairing up with partners MUCH earlier in their lives, when they are at the absolute PEAK of their sexual attractiveness (and can therefore attract the best possible partner for themselves).
Of course, most women don’t do this, as not enjoying their rockstar phase (age 18-23) is akin to abuse nowadays.
Many women waste away their best reproductive potential and burn away their ability to pair bond by sleeping with multiple ultra-attractive partners in their rockstar phase, and experience oxytocin burnout later in life, leading to extreme misery.
I would say that in the western clown world/matriarchy, the incidence of this occurring is about 85-90% for women.
This means that 85-90% of women have NO CHANCE OF EVER being long-term happy and are only happy when they are enjoying their rockstar phase (age 18-23) and in the honeymoon phase of their beta relationships (3 months to 3 years).
The remaining 10-15% of women are then happy or unhappy based on luck.
If their LTR/married partner manages to NOT mess up and ruin her hypergamous assessment of him and IF she has children without genetic defects and IF there is no problem with the extended family, THEN women are sometimes capable of long-term happiness.
Add to this the fact that women ENJOY cyclical feelings and you can see how it would be nearly impossible to have long-term happiness (for a 10-15 year period).
Of course, there are SOME women lucky enough to experience this happiness, but the exception proves the rule.
Why Betas End Up Unhappy
Betas end up unhappy because their happiness does not enter into society’s equation.
Betas are useful idiots who are used and abused by the system in order to make sure that women’s poor reproductive choices lead to no negative financial consequences.
Betas are women’s financial safety nets in modern society.
Betas are there so that women have someone to marry/LTR after they have thoroughly enjoyed their rockstar phase (age 18-23) and sometimes even their strong-independent phase (age 23-29).
Since practically ALL betas are SETTLED for, women are INCAPABLE of being attracted to them or happy with them past the honeymoon phase of the relationship (3 months to 3 years).
The honeymoon phase can be extended by having children (2 year extension per child), but past that point, happiness is impossible for betas.
Since betas never understood how women truly work, they NEVER had a chance at true happiness.
Also, betas never understood the kind of relationships they should enter into in order to maximize their own happiness, and instead only enter into relationships that favour women (monogamous LTR and marriage).
Why Some Natural Alphas End Up Unhappy
Sadly, even many natural alphas end up unhappy in the long term.
Natural alphas are men that are SO ATTRACTIVE for whatever reason that they NEVER HAD TO LEARN what the world was really like.
These men are likely to believe women are wonderful angels that give men whatever they want no matter what men do.
Natural alphas never realize what the REASON for women’s good treatment of them is.
As a result, they also tend to enter into relationships that favour women, and destroy any potential for their own long term happiness.
Natural alphas are VERY LIKELY to be ground down into beta paste in an LTR/marriage since they have no idea what moves to make in order to maintain a woman’s attraction (they never had to learn, it just came naturally to them by genetic chance).
Natural alphas are women’s favourite because natural alphas have no idea the game that is being played, and so, women can fulfill both sides of their hypergamy (alpha genes in the short term AND beta resources in the long term).
Since natural alphas often become betas over time due to their poor choices, they are unlikely to achieve long term happiness.
Why Enlightened Alpha Men Up Long Term Happy
The reason that only alpha men who know the truth are capable of happiness is simple.
Men desire life that is like a still pond.
Men do not desire emotional ups and downs.
An enlightened alpha understands how the world really works and what moves are needed in order to create a life that is steady and stable in the long term.
Since they understand the true nature of women, enlightened alphas never enter into relationships that disfavour them in the long term (LTR and marriages).
They also don’t get common-law married.
As a result, enlightened alphas are capable of avoiding the worst aspects of women’s natures while maximizing their own reproductive goals.
Enlightened alphas are able to PREVENT THE PROBLEM and thus maintain a state of continuous, long term happiness.
Of course, there will always be negative events that happen to every person, but outside of those RANDOM OCCURRENCES, enlightened alphas are able to maintain a state of continuous, calm happiness over the long term (10-15 year periods).
As I have implied in the title of this post, I believe that only 10% of the human population is enlightened alphas (and that may be a generous number).
Consequences In Society
The consequence of only 10% of people being happy in the long term in our society is obvious.
Our society would be in a state of total anarchy without the entertainment industry.
Entertainment is keeping people afloat despite their misery.
It also means that most people’s advice in our society is wrong, and following it will lead to your long term misery.
The sad part is the people giving advice probably have NO IDEA that THEIR OWN CHOICES are what has led them down the terrible path they’re on.
They are too brainwashed by their mental prison, religion, their mom, etc. to ever know.
The Modern World
As I have said in a previous post, the modern world is clown world.
People following society’s traditional script are headed for a cliff.
The sad part is that most have NO IDEA their relationships are bound for failure and misery!
The cliff is hidden from view through illusion.
The veneer of happiness once misery is achieved is maintained through the entertainment industry and a sea of fake smiles everywhere.
Conclusion
Only about 10% of the population (enlightened alphas) are capable of true long term happiness.
Everyone else is doomed to long term misery due to their poor long term decision making.
If more people were aware of the truth, they may be able to prevent the problem.
Sadly, the modern clown world is hellbent on teaching people to destroy themselves rather than bettering their lot in life.
That is the true tragedy of our world.
Become enlightened and carve out a happy world for yourself!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
How is Happiness Defined, in Your Opinion?
Happiness is experiencing a stable positive state with no dips due to poor life choices.
Most people have no idea how to create such a world for themselves.
Why Do Women End Up Unhappy in the Long Term?
The matriarchy/clown world teaches many women that they will be beautiful forever.
They thus waste their prime years on their rockstar phase (16-22) fucking the most attractive alpha studs they can find without ever considering the consequences that will have on their long term happiness.
They then end up miserable when they are no longer able to attract partners they actually find attractive and settle down in misery.
Why Do Most Men End Up Miserable in the Long Term?
They enter into relationships that favour women, rather than themselves.
Men that enter into monogamous LTR/marriage are in for a bad time, as the women who have settled for them grind them down into a fine paste.
Men then cannot escape their relationships without serious consequences (such as a total reduction their ability to have sex – in the case of an LTR, or financial destruction – in the case of marriage).
Who Are the Only People Capable of Long Term Happiness?
An enlightened alpha man is capable of long term happiness.
He is capable of this because he can prevent the problem of the consequences of entering into relationships that favour women.
Since the problems that normally occur in LTR/marriage never occur to the enlightened alpha, the misery associated with those consequences is also prevented.
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