I know this is going to sound like we’re beating a dead horse, but we’re going to cover this topic.
I think it’s necessary to restate that appeals to reason are not attractive.
Beta men seem to think that if they logically convince a girl why they should be together that it will work.
Here’s why that doesn’t work…
You Cannot Convince A Girl to Like You
Logic is not what determines a girl’s attraction for a guy.
If that were the case, every guy who was an amazing match on paper would be with the most attractive women.
Is that what we see in the real world?
Hell no!
In the real world, we see women with deadbeats and losers of all kinds!
You cannot explain that through logic!
You can, however, explain it through tingles!
Women allowed their feelings to lead them to those “deadbeats” (often alpha deadbeats).
Clearly, that implies that you can’t convince a woman through logic to be interested in you!
Attraction Isn’t A Choice
Attraction isn’t a choice!
Women don’t logically choose to feel feelings towards certain men.
Certain men behave as they do, and attraction just happens.
As a result, trying to “hack” the process by logical argument is NOT going to work.
You need a much more subtle and intelligent approach than the traditional masculine way.
You need GAME.
Luckily for you, if you’re a smart, logical guy, you’ll be able to figure out why game works from a strategic perspective, and you’ll use it to your advantage.
Lots of nerds do this!
Alpha vs. Beta
The alpha behaves as he does and triggers attraction “naturally”.
The beta tries to convince and buy his way into attraction.
Nothing could be less attractive than trying to buy your way into her good graces.
When I say “buy”, what I mean is things like:
1) Taking her on nice dates
2) Sucking up to her
3) Agreeing with everything she says
4) Buying her nice things
5) Giving her infinite time and attention
You need to avoid these behaviours like the plague.
Men who try to convince women to like them will often try to logically explain why they deserve intimacy as a result of what they have “given” the girl.
Obviously this doesn’t work and often triggers indignation.
“How dare you say that because you bought me this purse that I should sleep with you! I’m not a whore!”
Meanwhile, the suave alpha swoops in and with minimal communication and spent money and seemingly casts a spell on her. Suddenly they’re sleeping together within two short dates.
Game will give you this ability as well (by the way, game is pretty much just the ability to set boundaries for what you’re willing to tolerate).
Aligning Yourself with the Feminine is Not Attractive
Many men will try and expose their feminine emotional side in an attempt to logically convince her of how much better he is than an alpha.
Logically, a beta assumes that by being more feminine, he distinguishes himself from an alpha, and this should be worthy of intimacy.
It’s not.
Separating yourself from masculinity will have the opposite effect.
Women LIKE facial hair for a reason.
It is because facial hair is MASCULINE. The same applies to BEHAVIOUR.
Overt MASCULINE behavior is very attractive.
You should train yourself away from the behaviours that our feminist matriarchy taught you from a young age.
Actively expressing masculine behaviors and attitudes is very attractive and will be a key step in your seduction journey.
Beta Explanations
“Why won’t you love me? I’ve given you everything!” – a desperate husband with his wife.
Logic is not what works with women, as I’ve said previously in the article.
Explaining why she should be attracted to you is the opposite of what you should be doing.
WOMEN talk, MEN do.
If you are EXPLAINING, you are aligning yourself with the feminine!
Women are attracted to what you ARE, NOT to what YOU SAY you are.
Stop explaining so much what you’re doing, and instead be powerfully masculine.
If you’re not sure how, read all of the posts on this blog and try to internalize everything.
Also, read some old literature (1850’s and before).
The men in that literature are MASCULINE, for good or ill.
Take Moby Dick, for example.
Captain Ahab is an alpha, for sure! He’s also an idiot, but that does not take away from his RAW masculinity.
You think a man like Captain Ahab, in our time, a man absolutely consumed by his mission to destroy a monster, would not be attractive today?
Of course he would be! He is a MAN. Women love that.
Alpha Tingles
Alphas give women tingles.
They make them feel a way that is unmistakable.
Once a girl has felt the tingles of an alpha, she is unlikely to ever want to be with a beta again (for a long period of time).
She is instead, very likely to keep going back to him over and over (boomeranging) to experience his masculine essence.
Women cannot get enough of a man with a true masculine essence.
Be the alpha, and not the beta.
Be strong and hold to your convictions, despite struggle and questioning.
You will be glad you did!
Covert vs. Overt Communication
As I said before, women communicate covertly, and men communicate overtly.
Rather than logically try to convince a woman through words that she should be with you, imply with your actions that you’re a badass and watch as she comes to you and shows interest.
Implication of badassery is the very definition of alpha.
As the saying goes:
“The man who has to call himself King is no King”.
Do not talk about how “alpha” you are.
Instead, demonstrate it in your effortless deflection of shit tests, and your work ethic in becoming a better man.
Women all around will respect and cherish your presence.
Improve Yourself and Watch What Happens
Rather than try and convince those around you of your superiority, work on yourself until you are clearly superior.
Raise your status in this world through your devotion to your own greatness.
Increase the size of your muscles through intense effort, increase the strength of your character by facing your fears, and improve your lot in this world by freeing your mind from its mental prison.
The people around you will naturally acknowledge your greatness then.
They cannot deny it, as it will be obvious to everyone.
“Build it, and they will come.”
Conclusion
Do not try to convince women logically why they should be attracted to you.
Improve yourself and watch your results soar.
Hold strongly to yourself and your convictions when you are questioned.
Work fiercely on your body.
Improve until you cannot be denied.
You will not need to call yourself “King” then.
Everyone will know it.
Work hard!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
If I Buy Her Enough Things, Will She Be Interested In Sleeping With Me?
No!
It is utterly stupid to buy a girl things for no reason.
You put yourself into the provider category instantly.
Rather than want to sleep with you, she’s going to try and drain as many resources out of you as she can, while fucking the nearest alpha and complaining to you about it.
Is that what you want?
Don’t keep buying her nice things then.
That is a privilege that is EARNED.
I’m Perfect for This Girl, We’re Both From the Same Culture, We Went to the Same School and Have Many of the Same Interests! She’s Going to Love Me!
Attraction is NOT a choice.
She’s very likely to be repulsed by you if you try to logically convince her why she should be with you.
She wants an alpha, not a good guy on paper.
Her parents might like you as a beta loser husband though!
I Just Need to Get In Touch With My Feminine Side, Then Women Will Love Me!
Women think of men who are in touch with their feminine side as betas.
Betas are unattractive to women (sexually).
You need to be unapologetically alpha in your actions, and then you will be respected and considered to be attractive by women.
If I Tell A Girl How Alpha I Am, She’ll Be Impressed and Want to Fuck Me!
Nope.
Communication needs to be covert with women.
“The man who calls himself King is no King.”
When you unapologetically show the behaviours of an alpha, you will be treated as one, no conversation required.
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