Many men get married thinking that their wives will stay just as sexual and amazing as they did during the honeymoon phase.
This is further encouraged by our society, who promotes the “happily ever after” trope.
It is a lie.
The majority of marriages are “bait and switch”.
Husbands expect one thing, and receive something entirely different.
It should be no surprise to any of you that men have mid-life crises, as they realize the shit decisions they’ve made.
Here we go…
I Do, You’re Mine
Both men and women believe this, for different reasons.
Men believe that they will have their wife forever sexually once she’s agreed to marriage.
Women believe that they will have their husband’s resources, status and provision forever.
Only one of these two statements is correct in modern society.
Want to guess which one?
If you guessed the matriarchy’s one, you’ve been reading this blog.
Of course women have their cake and eat it too in marriage.
They have a government GUARANTEE of their husband’s resources.
Do men have a guarantee of their wives’ sexuality?
Nope!
It is an inherently unfair exchange masked as a good one!
The Myth of Sexual Wives
People seem to believe that wives are sexual in marriages.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
Once the honeymoon phase ends (3 months to 3 years), the sex begins to dry up.
Married women also talk endlessly about all kinds of topics, including how much sex they’re having with their husbands, with other married women.
Do you think that these conversations lead to all of them deciding to have more sex with their husbands?
Hell no!
It leads to women deciding on a “standard” amount of sex wives should give to husbands (an amount they can tolerate to give to a beta, as a kind of reward for slave behaviours).
Often (99.9% of the time), this amount of sex is WAY less than what the average man needs for his sex drive to be satisfied.
Marriage is for Duty, Not Passion
Here is the main point.
Men think that they are getting married to consolidate their passion.
That is false.
Men get married so that women can consolidate their RESOURCES.
Women understand that there is a dutiful amount of sex required to keep a beta around.
They will do that much, and NO MORE, pushing over time to lessen and lessen the quantity of sex.
They will then talk to their husbands about how marriage is about “duty” (while shamelessly not sticking to their “duty” in a marriage).
Beta Safety Nets
Effectively, marriage traps a beta into a trap of the government’s making.
Marriages trap betas so that they can be a guaranteed safety net to women.
This government-backed guarantee allows the matriarchy to stay in power.
Women have constitutionally written power over men (through control of their resources) once married.
The beta walks into this trap, lured by the honeypot of honeymoon sex.
Insidious, no?
Obviously, once he is in the trap, there is no more need for the honeypot, and any supposed desire from the wife can be withdrawn.
It is a sad reality that the scope of the lives of many men is simply to be a safety net to a woman.
He is a tool, not a man, at that point.
Alpha Seed, Beta Need
As has been mentioned in previous articles, women truly desire alphas sexually, and use betas as drones.
The desire they had for a beta was never genuine, it was a ploy to get him to commit himself wholeheartedly to her and fall into her trap.
Once in, there is no more need for pretense.
If you want the true desire of a woman, you need to be alpha in her eyes.
Marriage cements your status as a controllable beta, regardless of what you were before the marriage.
In fact, women that marry men who they see as alpha often try to change him, to mold their husband into a beta, to secure his provisioning.
This often works, as the government holds the “alpha” married man at threatpoint through the pillaging of his resources should his relationship end.
Allowing yourself to be put into such a terrible position not only lacks forethought, it also signals weakness to women (who understand exactly the position any woman is in a marriage).
Hypergamy Doesn’t Care About Your Happiness
Ultimately, hypergamy doesn’t care whether YOU are happy or not.
It cares about the success of the female sexual strategy.
She gets to experience the joy of all of the alphas she can get her hands on, while being saved by a nice beta.
You are raised to be a pawn in this strategy, and sacrifice your life and happiness for it.
Only those men that wake up can prevent the problem of “bait and switch” marriages.
Only those men that wake up can actually live a life worth living, where they can experience genuine desire and enjoyment in their relationships with women.
It is a sad reality that we live in, but a true one.
Following the Socially Acceptable Script Leads to Misery
If you follow the script your mom and beta dad taught you about how you should be as a man, you’re going to have a bad time.
You will suffer in all of your relationships with women as you get tossed around and ignored, by men who know better than you.
Following what mommy tells you is going to lead to your rejection until you “just get it”.
If you keep doing what mommy told you your whole life, you’re going to end up in exactly her husband’s position.
You will be a convenient slave, used to facilitate the matriarchy’s goals for women.
You will not be human to them, you will be a tool, for use and deletion when your utility has finished.
Remember that.
Don’t Get Married!
I have been implying this the whole time, but let me state it outright.
DON’T GET MARRIED.
I will also add cohabitate to this.
Marriage and cohabitation are the foundations of women’s control over you.
When you let her control you, you let her drain your masculine essence.
You lose what it is that made you a man in the first place.
Destroying your masculinity is NEVER a good strategy, especially if you want to experience a life of long-term happiness.
If I told you not to hit yourself in the head with a stick, you’d probably think it wise advice.
When I tell you not to get married, I’m telling you not to put your balls in a vise.
Believe me, putting your balls in a vise is MUCH more painful than hitting yourself in the head with a stick.
Marriage is that.
Avoid!
Cohabitation and Monogamy
As I mentioned in the previous section, cohabitation is a terrible proposition.
In some states, just living together with a women for a certain amount of time means that you are married.
Obviously that’s terrible.
When you cohabitate, it gives women the power to control your actions, as she gains knowledge of what your regular habits are.
Once she knows that, the mystery is gone.
If you agree to be monogamous and cohabitate, basically all of the competition anxiety that women have is greatly reduced.
Sadly, competition anxiety is a large part of many women’s attraction for men.
Effectively, by agreeing to be monogamous and cohabitate, you have destroyed two of the absolute best tools men have for seduction.
NEVER shoot yourself in the foot this way.
Conclusion
It is clear that many men enter into relationships that destroy them.
A great example is the “bait and switch” marriage.
In these relationships, men think that they are gaining the attraction of their wife by consolidating their relationship, but actually, they’re moving in the opposite direction and guaranteeing their beta provider spot for her for the future.
Thus I advise that men avoid marriage, monogamy and cohabitation in order to maintain their power and the attraction that the women in their lives have for them.
Be wise and in control!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
My Wife Is Very Sexually Experienced, Why Won’t She Fuck Me Well?
You’re a beta who is married to her.
What attraction could she have to a plough horse when she’s had mustangs her whole life?
You’ve seriously messed up in your strategic thinking here.
Have a sexually experienced girl as a FWB, NOT a wife!
My Wife Keeps Telling Me That She Wants Me to Do the Right Thing! What Should I Do?
Often, when women tell their partners to “do the right thing” or “be vulnerable”, these are shit tests designed to see if the man knows what women are attracted to or not.
If a man submits to these tests, he greatly damages how the women feel about them.
If your wife is trying to shame you into doing chores, doing them will NOT make her want to fuck you.
I Love My Girlfriend So Much, I’m Thinking of Proposing
All of the women around you will freak out and encourage you to do this.
Know why that is?
It’s because women WIN in marriage.
Asking her to marry you WILL NOT increase the sex or the quality of the relationship.
It locks YOU into commitment and provisioning.
Proceed at your own (mortal) risk.
Me and My Girlfriend Used to Have Marathon Sex. Now We Live Together and the Sex Has Gone Down Drastically, What Gives?
You’re not longer hot and mysterious!
Now you’re just a man.
All of the competition anxiety she previously had (when she didn’t know what you were doing) is GONE.
She has lost serious attraction for you as a result of your boneheaded decision to move in together.
Dumb.
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