Today we’re going to talk about 8 things that women find most attractive in men.
Out of these 8, only 1 is out of your control.
I guarantee that if you work on the traits that you can control, you will skyrocket your success with women.
Off we go!
1 – Muscularity
Women are very attracted to muscular men.
Muscles and height are clear indicators of masculinity and women are attracted to masculinity.
Bigger muscles = greater masculinity.
Of course, there are diminishing returns to this.
You only need to reach a certain threshold of muscle in order for women to find you attractive.
Past that point, you would be better served spending your time doing something else.
Of course, if you want to compete with other men in terms of muscle (as in bodybuilding) or you are a professional athlete, train as much as you need to!
Just know that past a certain point, it isn’t really doing much more for you than any other attractive muscular guy.
2 – Height
Women prefer taller men.
Height is a masculine trait.
Unfortunately, height is outside of your control.
If you are under 6 feet tall in the west, you may want to consider shoe lifts in order to increase your height.
Ultimately, you’re going to have to work harder than most men if you’re short in order to get laid.
The silver lining is that shorter men have an easier time putting on muscle (as there is a smaller surface area that muscle needs to build on).
This means that a shorter man is capable of becoming male-model jacked in a much shorter period than a taller man.
Work on your muscularity if you’re not tall, you don’t really have a choice.
3 – Frame
Women find frame to be extremely attractive.
Frame is the idea that no matter what the external world wants from you, you remain yourself.
You are capable of being a rock despite the world trying to change you.
A man with frame is a man who isn’t afraid to be true to himself despite the crabs around him trying to make him act otherwise.
Women who are attracted to you will shit test you in order to determine if you can stay true to yourself.
If you can, you pass the shit test and have demonstrated good frame.
If you fail, you are not a good sexual prospect for her.
4 – Game
Women are attracted to men with game.
These are men that clearly show that they know how to seduce and sleep with multiple women.
Women have been sleeping with players for as long as there have been women.
Men with game give off a charismatic, attractive vibe which women tend to find irresistible.
Practice seducing multiple women concurrently.
The process of practicing this will skyrocket your success with women, as well as improve your frame immeasurably!
5 – Style
Women are attracted to men with style.
A man with style embodies an archetype much more easily than a man without.
As I have mentioned in previous articles, women are attracted to male archetypes, not to men themselves, so having a solid sense of style will help you to attract more women!
Try leaning into some kind of attractive male archetype with your sense of style.
You’ll see your success with women soar when you do!
6 – Unwillingness to Commit
Ironically, women find men more attractive who are unwilling to commit.
When a man is unwilling to commit, it is for a reason.
Often, the reason is that the man has multiple options and has no need to commit.
Even if you don’t have multiple options at the moment, showing an unwillingness to commit is a powerful frame to have.
It implies that you don’t need her and women are extremely attracted to non-needy men.
When a woman knows that she isn’t the centre point of your life, she is much more likely to relax around you and be pleasant!
7 – Emotional Unavailability
Women LOVE men who are emotionally unavailable.
These are men who don’t believe in love and don’t overly show emotion with women.
Women who are with men like this try very hard to win them over and get them to show their emotion.
These women try and try to “fix” these men and it never works.
When a man is emotionally unavailable it puts women in a constant chasing frame.
They want desperately to connect with you more deeply and realize that no matter what they do, they can’t.
This constant chase and drama is what women live for!
8 – Evidence of Other Partners
When a woman knows that you are with other women, she will be much more attracted to you.
It does not have to be stated by you overtly, it only needs to be implied.
A woman will understand by the implications of your actions that you’re seeing other women and she will try and compete in order to be your favourite.
Many women are happy with you being with multiple women, so long as they know that they are your favourite.
When a woman knows that other women are into you, she knows she has made a good hypergamous choice!
In the SMP (sexual marketplace), the rich always get richer.
Conclusion
There are many traits that women find attractive.
Here is the list again:
1) Muscularity
2) Height
3) Frame
4) Game
5) Style
6) Unwillingness to commit
7) Emotional unavailability
8) Evidence of other partners
Most of the traits that women find attractive can be controlled by you.
You should actively work to embody these traits in order to maximize your attractiveness to women, and your results!
Work hard!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
What Are The Traits That Women Find Most Attractive In Men?
Here is a list of things women find most attractive in men:
1) Muscularity
2) Height
3) Frame
4) Game
5) Style
6) Unwillingness to commit
7) Emotional unavailability
8) Evidence of other partners
Betas do not have most of these things, and are thus disqualified.
Why Do Women Find Tall, Muscular Men Attractive?
Tall muscular men are attractive because these qualities are what women don’t have.
They are both signs of high testosterone.
Women find beards attractive for the same reason!
Why Are Women Attracted to Men Who Clearly Have A Partner Already?
Women are attracted to these men because they have social proof.
Obviously, there is something attractive about this man if other women are interested in him.
Through this logic, women are more likely to share a stud than have a loser all to themselves.
Why Are Women Attracted to Men Who Won’t Commit?
If a man refuses to commit, it is because he doesn’t need to.
He obviously has other options.
Women will spend time trying to convince him to commit.
When a woman is chasing a man, the script is flipped!
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