I’m warning you guys, this is going to be a tough one to read.
It’s not easy reading that you’ve been lied to your whole life.
The following things are lies that everyone tells us from a young age.
They’re used to brainwash us into becoming beta slaves.
You have certainly heard at least one of these, though I’m sure most of you have heard all of them.
These are the insidious beliefs that will ruin any chance you have at long term happiness.
You are one of the lucky ones, you have a chance to escape.
Most men are not so lucky.
Here we go…
1 – If It’s Meant to Be, It Will Just Happen
This is such a crock of shit I’m amazed it even works!
There is no such thing as determinism.
Therefore, nothing is “meant to be”.
What that means is that nothing is going to magically appear to solve your girl problems, or frankly, any of your other problems.
If you want to make something happen, you have to make it happen.
The problem is that you can’t just make it happen instantly.
Anything that you want to do in life takes struggle, dedication, and very often, pain.
There is no one girl out there who’s going to solve your girl problems, and there is no magical job out there that’s going to solve your drone problems.
If you don’t make a life for yourself that solves these problems, no-one will for you.
This garbage determinism belief leads many men down the road of serial monogamy.
Here is a classic belief of men who have just broken up:
“That last girl was a bitch, I’ll do better next time.”
What they don’t realize, is that the fundamental problem wasn’t the girl, but the nature of the relationship with the girl.
She was a bitch BECAUSE you were monogamous.
Let me say this another way.
She was a bitch BECAUSE YOU were a bitch.
The same applies to any jobs you may have had.
The boss was an ass to you because they could. They could because you let them.
You chose a job where you assumed the position of a replaceable drone, and then were surprised when you were treated like one?
You have to create a good life for yourself.
Don’t expect good things to fall into your lap by luck.
What an idiotic notion.
2 – You’re Special
This one is gonna be tough to hear.
Luckily for you, daddy’s here to say it.
You’re NOT special.
Neither you, nor anyone else is special.
If you look at history, the people that we laud as superhuman are really just people that were lucky enough to be in the right place, at the right time, with the right training.
Does that sound like a divine person to you?
Nope!
Let this be a motivator for you!
You are just as able to be “special” as they.
All you need to do is this one little thing.
Wanna know what it is?
It’s something nobody wants to do.
Still wanna hear it?
YOU HAVE TO WORK.
YOU have to create the reality you want for yourself.
Otherwise, you’re just another NPC, born into a world of NPC’s.
You’re NOT special.
Nobody is coming to save you.
No magical thing will break your chains.
YOU have to break them.
YOU have to structure your reality in such a way as to be free of the chains society puts on you.
If you do as everyone else does, you will NEVER be free.
This is BECAUSE you’re NOT special.
The thing that distinguishes the strong from the weak in this world is work ethic and discipline.
Do you have what it takes to struggle, grind, and bleed for what you want?
If you don’t you are and will always be NOTHING.
3 – Put Women On A Pedestal
This is another ridiculous lie that men are taught from a young age.
Men are taught to worship women, as though they are gods.
It’s really funny.
The truth is that the world’s earliest religions were fertility religions.
People have been worshipping women for as long as there have been people.
I find it hilarious, and somewhat comforting.
It is a lie though.
To believe that women are somehow divine because they weren’t born men is utterly ridiculous.
Women are human just as men are.
They are flawed, completely mundane creatures.
Our poetic minds elevate women when they fuck us well, but that doesn’t make their divinity a reality.
Putting women on a pedestal is one the worst things you could do for your long term happiness and financial stability.
Humans do not deserve to be venerated as divine beings, man or woman.
Do not EVER treat a woman as above you.
She is a flawed human, just like you.
She doesn’t deserve it.
Also, if you treat a woman as better than you, she will NEVER fuck you.
Thanks hypergamy!
This makes my advice really easy:
Never see a woman as a perfect little angel, and you’ll do ok.
4 – The World Cares About You
This is an extremely sad truth, and it makes some people very upset.
We are taught from a young age that the world cares about us.
The truth is this:
The world doesn’t give a shit about you individually.
You are a pawn in a large game.
You are to be used, abused and discarded by the system.
That is your role in life.
Sound fun?
That’s your life if you live according to society’s cultural rules.
People around you will shower you with praise, and you’ll be promptly drained, like some common fruit
When you’re a shell of your former self, who has given everything he has to a company, a cause, or a marriage, what happens?
You are thrown away.
A useless, drained husk.
The essence of masculinity that you had, that was needed by the system, is no longer present, so you’re useless.
Once you’re useless to them, you’re no better than garbage, so of course they throw you away.
Obviously you should break free of this system.
Ultimately, only you can care for you properly.
Men are seen as disposable pawns in our society.
Follow a different set of rules, or be drained and discarded.
The choice is yours.
5 – Everyone Is Equal
Are you equal to someone born in the royal family of England?
How about to the son of a rich billionaire?
People are not born equal, that’s a fact.
A sad, and true, fact.
Most people are born as nothing. Mere pawns.
Some people are born as less than nothing. It’s sad that they never had a chance.
If you are like me, the son of nothing, then you have nothing.
From the day you were born, if you’re like me, your fate was predestined.
Work some shit drone job, have a family, have kids, pay child support in divorce, and die.
Some people, like me, a son of nothing, were born with something else.
We were born with a brain.
Not just any brain, a brain capable of deduction. Of true reasoning.
Even though I am a son of nothing, I have made something of myself.
Something outside of this garbage that we call our system.
I will not work a drone job, you mark my words.
Neither should you.
You, if you’re like me, are made of better stuff than that.
I will not be churned in the meatgrinder of history.
I refuse.
And you should too.
Join me in the quest of becoming a chainbreaker.
We will live as we like, free from the unfairness that plagues the world we didn’t choose to be born into.
Conclusion
People are fed pretty lies growing up.
Here is a list of the lies once again:
- If it’s meant to be, it will just happen
- You’re special
- Put women on a pedestal
- The world cares about you
- Everyone is equal
These lies, while making you feel good, are not reality.
They in fact pull you into slavery.
The irony is that the people who tell you these lies often have the best of intentions.
Our parents, or other loved ones who tell us these things.
As the saying goes:
“The road to hell is paved with good intentions”
If we listen, we’re doomed to repeat the patterns of the past.
If we listen, we are enslaved. Trapped in a mental prison from which there is no escape.
Break free!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
You’re A Jaded Asshole Who’s Full Of Shit!
For telling you the truth?
I would prefer you know what reality is really like.
You will suffer much less in the long term, trust me.
You Must Be A Misogynist, You Say That Women Aren’t Special!
No-one is special.
No-one should be put on a pedestal because of their gender; men or women.
Equality.
Everyone Deserves to Be Treated Equally! It Is A Basic Human Right!
Please read the book “Animal Farm” by George Orwell and then come back.
Just because we want a thing to be true, doesn’t mean that that is how it happens in practice.
The Queen of England is not and never will be treated as a commoner, and never will be.
It is fundamentally unfair, and will remain so forever, unfortunately.
Only the people that are treated unfairly will rotate over time.
Read some history.
People Keep Telling Me That the Way I Want to Live WIll Make Me Miserable In the Future, What Gives?
They’re trying to drag you down into beta hell.
Misery loves company.
Do you want to join them, or do you want to be great?
Ultimately, the choice is yours.
The bottom line is betas don’t get laid like I do.
Can It Really Be True That the World Doesn’t Care About Me?
Unfortunately, yes.
Especially if you are a man, you are only worth what you provide.
If you give nothing to the world, you will get nothing back.
You’re not special, remember?
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