Want to be that mysterious guy that women are always wondering and talking about?
Mysterious men are very successful with women.
I’m here to explain to you how you can make yourself more mysterious!
You simply need to implement these 5 easy things!
Here we go…
1 – Talk Very Little On the First Date
As I have said before in previous posts, on your first date, you should aim to talk only 15 minutes out of 60.
You should direct the conversation and the speaking should be mostly done by her.
This leads to two positive effects.
The first is that it gives the girl the opportunity to open up to you, making her feel more comfortable in the process.
Women will only sleep with men they’re comfortable with.
It also has the advantage of making you mysterious.
The girl will be thinking about the date and realize that while she really likes you, she doesn’t know much about you.
She will want to know more about you, and will want to go on a second date with you as a result.
You can then continue the trend of not talking much, while also sleeping with her, and you’ll maintain an attractive, mysterious aura forever.
It is a very effective strategy that you set up from the beginning of the first date.
Being mysterious is an exercise in self control and limiting the amount of information that the girl receives from you.
She then has to work to learn the information others would have given freely from the scraps of information she has given.
If all of the scraps that you give are full of high-value cool things that you do, it will lead to amazing results.
Try it!
2 – Text Only for Logistics
It is very easy to maintain a mysterious aura when you’re not texting her all the time.
Because you’re not in constant communication, she wonders what you’re up to when you’re not together.
This leads to amazing outcomes for you.
She wonders what you’re doing when you’re not around, and so, she is constantly thinking about you.
This longing to know who you are maintains her attraction for you as she tries to figure out the mystery behind you.
Of course, she never gets all the information, and so she comes up with her own theories.
The more she fantasizes and theorizes about you, the more attracted she becomes.
The more attracted to you she is, the more she wants to have sex.
Isn’t it amazing how by limiting something as simple as communication through text, you can increase attraction and mystery?
It really is that simple.
If she texts you, leave her on read for 3 days, then reply to her text in a short way, and message her to meet up.
You never want to text her other than the times that you want to meet up.
All the beta losers in her life will be texting her, trying to get her attention and affection. The only exception is you, who doesn’t seem to care one way or another.
She’ll wonder why!
3 – Be Emotionally Unavailable
A man who guards his emotions is mysterious.
Why won’t he love me?
Why won’t he commit to me?
She wonders what it is that she lacks for you to be emotionally unavailable and unbending.
You create an aura of mystery as she wonders what it was in your past that made you that way.
Again, by keeping a cold wall between your deepest emotional self and her, you maintain a very attractive, mysterious aura.
She feels that there is a barrier that she can never cross and she will fight to try and cross it.
She will try more and more to please you in order to cross the barrier which you have decided can never be crossed.
This mysterious, cold aura is extremely attractive to women.
She will experiment, trying all kinds of things to break down your walls.
She, in this way, falls ever more into your aura and frame.
The more she fights to get to know you, the more she falls for you.
As you can see, a mysterious aura is amazing!
An easy way to be emotionally unavailable is to have multiple women.
When you spread your heart out over several women as it were, each knows that they can never have you fully.
As a result, they work harder to please you and figure out what you like, in order to beat their competition.
4 – Respond Evasively to Any Interview Questions
Early on in your interactions, she’s going to ask you the classic questions:
- What do you work as
- How old are you
- What do you do
- Where do you live, etc.
If you want to maintain a mysterious aura, simply reply evasively to these questions.
My favourite way to reply is to give joke answers to these questions.
Example:
Her: Where do you live?
Me: Narnia
Her: No, really
Me: I’m serious!
This creates a dynamic where she’s frustrated because every other guy answers her questions directly, but not you.
Now she really wants to know.
As you keep denying and redirecting, she falls into your frustrating, mysterious aura.
Her attraction spikes as her frustration increases.
It is amazing for you!-
You then keep holding frame and never answer those questions.
As your relationship goes on past the 6 month or even 9 month point and she still doesn’t know, eventually, she’ll cave and stop asking you.
At that point, she has internalized the fact that you are mysterious and she has to accept that she’ll never get direct answers regarding those questions.
She only has her suspicions and the little things you give away casually.
Want to have a girl hanging on your every word?
Dodge the common questions and watch as she works, trying to deduce what you do from the scraps of information you give her.
As she deduces more and more, she feels like she’s figuring you out with her feminine intuition.
This process of figuring you out is extremely rewarded to many women.
Don’t spare them this pleasure by answering the interview questions in the beginning!
5 – Do Not Reveal All of Your Hobbies or Skills All at Once
If a girl asks you what you can do, don’t give her a list.
Reveal one thing one day, and save the other stuff you have.
Later on, still don’t tell her.
Maybe three months later, you can reveal something else about yourself.
You allow the girl to discover you slowly.
In this way, she feels as though she’s peeling away the layers to the mystery that is you.
It is much more rewarding for her to feel like she is discovering you slowly, than for her to get to know you all at once.
By controlling the flow of information this way, you increase attraction like crazy.
You appear to always be growing in value as she learns more about you.
To her it will appear as though there is no limit to the height of value that you can achieve.
You will beat your competition just by controlling how much information you give away.
This slow-burn style of revealing information will increase your attractiveness hugely!
Imagine:
You’ve been with a girl for 6 months and she has no idea that you play the guitar.
Suddenly a situation arises where you can showcase your ability and you’re amazing.
To her, it seems almost magical.
You created a skill out of nothing.
She had no idea you were this cool, and she already thought you were cool.
Her attraction will spike like crazy.
Conclusion
As you can see, there are several strategies that you can use in order to be more mysterious.
Being mysterious and controlling the flow of information leads to much greater attraction.
With increased attraction comes increased sex and better behaviour from the women in your life.
Here’s the list of things again you can do to improve your ability to be mysterious:
- Don’t talk much on the first date
- Text only for logistics
- Be emotionally unavailable
- Respond evasively to her interview questions
- Do not reveal all your hobbies or skills at once
Using these strategies will make you much more attractive to women in the long term.
Godspeed!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
Should I Tell My Girl How Much Money I Make?
Never.
Dodge this interview question!
Tell her you make 2 dollars a year.
When she pushes, hold strong to your ridiculous answer.
Watch her squirm and her attraction grow!
I Was On the First Date and I Told Her Everything About Myself. The Date Went Amazing!
Yeah, no it didn’t.
You told her everything about you and now you’re not mysterious or a challenge.
You’re already pretty close to being boring and you’ve barely begun!
Better luck next time.
She Keeps Texting Me, Should I Reply?
You should only text for logistics.
Three days before your first date, you should message to establish some comfort, so she comes out.
On the day of your first date, you should send a confirmation text.
You should always text her the day after the first and second times you have had sex and be nice.
Other than those situations, you’re only texting for logistics (to meet up again)!
She Asked Me About My Hobbies, Should I Mention Each One!
No!
Mention only one and be passionate about it!
If you are really passionate about it, she’ll feel like it’s really cool too!
Afterwards, in three months, you can reveal a new skill.
She’ll be surprised that you’re so good at that one too.
Her attraction will spike, as it appears that you created competence out of nothing.
Repeat again with another ability in three months.
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