When Men Are Most Sexually Valuable vs When Women Are

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I can’t wait to get flamed as a result of writing this.

People cannot handle the truth (women and beta accomplices)

Luckily for you, I don’t write for them.

I write for you!

If you want to break free of societal programming, you’re going to have to understand how things really work and use that information to your advantage.

Here we go…

Men’s Life Progression

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Men start life as NOTHING.

They have NO intrinsic value.

They learn very quickly and from a young age that men are judged SOLELY on what they can DO.

As a result, men struggle and struggle, and are constantly failing and being rejected.

Being a man does NOT give you anything for free.

Some men struggle and give up, eventually giving in to feminine conditioning and are destroyed (betas).

Others, struggle until they break free (alphas).

Here’s a list of how men’s life generally goes:

1)  Birth

2)  Child  (treated the same way as women)

3)  Puberty (treatment as  a man begins)

4)  Young man (struggle and failure, constant rejection/invisibility, unless they’re a “natural” alpha)

5)  Adult man

a.  Option A:  Figures out how life really works, rises above the pack and becomes an alpha

b.  Option B: Becomes more and more feminine in an attempt to escape the burden of masculinity. Fails to become a real “man” (beta)

c.   Option C: Absolutely gives up on life, trying not at all to do or make anything of themselves. (undesirable)

6)  Aging Adult (value begins to drop, regardless of previous status)

7)  Death

When Men Are Weakest

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Men are weakest as children or young adults (Age 10-18) . They have not even begun to increase their value.

Men increase their value through developing competence and acquiring wealth.

They also increase their value by becoming more physically imposing.

All of these things take time and testosterone, things the young adult barely has any of.

Many men feel like failures when they’re young.

This is normal and is part of the learning process.

These young men are learning that the world does not care for them an IOTA until they provide VALUE.

Some men NEVER learn this lesson and remain betas/undesirables their whole life.

When Men Are Strongest

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Men are strongest once they have “grown up” from being a young man. This lasts from the ages of 19-40.

Different men peak at different times and for different reasons.

Some men peak in their early to mid 20’s (athletes).

Other men peak in their early to mid 30’s (businessmen and many musicians).

Other men peak in their late 30’s (late bloomers).

In any case, at their peaks, these men all have some combination of healthy bodies, wealth and status.

All of these things combine to make them extremely attractive to women.

If you are a young man reading these posts, understand that it is possible that you NEVER reach your peak potential as a result of being too lazy, or allowing yourself to get embroiled in long term relationships/a 9-5 job.

It is possible for you to only ever achieve 60% of the value you could have had if you allow the distractions of life to deter you from your goal (freedom and success in life).

Misconceptions About Assortative Mating

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Many people seem to think that as a result of what I just said, that the most attractive women (women in their late teens to early 20’s) will pair up with the most attractive men, men at their peaks.

While they often do, it is obviously not the case that they all will.

This is because some do not ever have the opportunity to meet an alpha man at their peak (alphas are rare).

Also, with apps like tinder, it is more likely for a young woman to pair up with an established athlete nowadays (a very handsome man in his early to late 20’s) than it has even been before.

This skews women towards getting with athletic alphas and away from the older, more established alphas.

This does not mean that they do not find these men attractive, or even that they don’t sleep with them.

It simply means that the occurrence is rarer than it has been previously.

Obviously, women’s life progression is extremely different, as you’ll now see.

Women’s Life Progression

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Women progress through life very differently than men.

This is because women HAVE intrinsic value.

Since women are the literal progenitors of the human race, each individual woman has intrinsic value from birth, something that men do NOT have.

This gives rise to the famous “pussy pass”.

Women start life off as valuable (as children), and get progressively more valuable as they age, peaking at around 18-23, and dropping in value slowly until they lose their intrinsic value at around age 35.

At that point, the “pussy pass” disappears, and women experience life as men do for the first time.

At age 35, women look at the most attractive men around who are their age, and lament the difference.

They often then get angry at the world.

Here is a list of women’s life progression:

1)  Birth

2)  Child (treated well)

3)  Puberty (treated well)

4)  Young woman (rockstar phase begins, treated AMAZINGLY well by everyone around, given free things, constantly given attention and praise, especially by men)

5)  Adult woman (still treated pretty well, but not as before. Praised often by more beta men, but the attention is less. It is here that women go through their “strong and independent as well as lady phases”)

6)  THE WALL (women hit the infamous wall, and they actively notice that they simply cannot compete with younger women anymore)

7)  Aging woman (“pussy pass” attention disappears completely, often leads to misery, especially if hypergamy is not satisfied. Treated like a man for the first time in her life)

8)  Old woman (Treated like a man still)

9)  Death

As you can see, women are frontloaded, whereas men are not.

When Women Are Weakest

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Women are weakest when they are no longer receiving the “pussy pass”.

That means that women are weakest at any point past the wall.

They stop being treated as goddesses at this point, and instead are treated as humans for the first time (something that men have experienced the whole time).

Many women experience misery later on in their lives due to this reality.

It is good for women to understand that their good treatment will not last forever.

When Women Are Strongest

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Women are treated as ROCKSTARS from the age of 18-23, and the “pussy pass” continues until they are around 30, though for some women it lasts much longer (if they have good genes and take care of themselves).

Some women can maintain their “pussy pass” until their mid 40’s if their behavior is EXTREMELY regimented and controlled and they STAY IN SHAPE.

The average women experiences something that the average man NEVER does his whole life.

She experiences a period in her life where she’s treated more like Mick Jagger (or some other celebrity).

The average man NEVER has this experience.

It is truly awe inspiring what happens when you become an alpha for the first time and are saturated with female attention.

It is like the veil has been parted and the sun can be seen for the first time.

You truly have to experience it to understand what I mean.

When Men and Women Overlap

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Men and women somewhat overlap at around age 28.

It is at that age that an alpha on the rise has about the same value as a rockstar (or strong independent) phase woman on the decline.

Women often resent men at this point, as they can see that he is on the rise while she is on the decline.

This resentment effect is even more pronounced once men and women are 35, and the man is still attractive.

The man, having reached his peak is about as attractive to women as a 22 year old woman is to men.

They resent that they no longer have the power to attract such a man and complain that he should date/sleep with someone who is “age appropriate”.

This is jealousy and shaming, and should be IGNORED.

Anger Men Have Towards “Pussy Pass”

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Many men who first learn the truth of the pussy pass get extremely upset.

They rage at the unfairness of the world, that women get treated well no matter what they do and that men have to work for it.

To that, I answer, that men have potential that women can never achieve.

Men have the ability to continue to rise, nearly indefinitely, as compared to women.

A man can continue to grow, and grow and raise his value well into middle and even old age.

Women do not have that luxury.

Their attractiveness burns like a supernova, and very quickly explodes.

Women are flowers, men are wine.

Do not be angry that the world is how it is, use the knowledge you have to your advantage.

“Build it  and they will come”.

You have to want to build it, however.

Conclusion

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Men and women have different life progressions.

Men have no intrinsic value, while women do.

Men have to work for everything they have, while women don’t (at least early on in their lives).

Men have the capacity to keep rising far beyond the wall that women have, but most men don’t even try.

Use the knowledge you have been given to better yourself and do not complain about your lot!

Work hard!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Are You Saying That I, As A Man Am Worthless From Birth?

Yes.

I know the truth is hard to hear.

You, as a man, are NOTHING until you earn it.

You deserve NO ACCEPTANCE until you claw it out of reality for yourself.

That is what it means to be a man.

Learn, suffer and grow, or die as a man who never had worth.

What the Fuck Helios! Women Don’t Have to Do Anything and They’re Treated Like Rockstars? The World is Shit!

Now you’re on the road greatness.

The veil has been parted and you can see the truth.

Women have to do NOTHING to get what we men have to suffer a lifetime for.

That is our lot as men.

The reward is that we get the privilege of shaping our realities.

Women have no such luck.

I’ve Never Seen A Young Woman With An Older Man, There’s No Way That A 20-something Would Get With a 35 Year Old, That’s Gross!

My experience and the experience of many men says otherwise.

Just because you haven’t seen something, does not mean it doesn’t exist.

You never knew how women were before you read this blog right?

You had no idea, and yet reality is the way it is.

Hypergamy doesn’t care what you think.

I Noticed That Most Raging Feminists Are Over 35, Is There Something To That?

Yeah!

They’re mad that they’re being treated as men have been treated the whole time and think it’s MEN’s fault!

Isn’t that hilarious?

How many men have you heard complaining that they’re not treated like a rockstar just for existing?

Exactly.

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