It is a common complaint of men in the manosphere that we’re angry.
I would say that an analysis of the average person here does NOT imply that, but certainly, there is a sizeable quantity of men who are angry to learn the truth of the red pill.
It is a bitter pill to swallow after all, and anger is not a surprising reaction.
Let’s explain why…
Learning the Truth
Imagine living in your reality, and suddenly discovering that NOTHING that you learned is as it seems.
Imagine learning that in fact, many things you have been taught are an elaborate RUSE to keep you a slave.
That utter shock and realization of the truth would jar anybody.
Learning about women’s true nature (hypergamy, alpha fucks, beta bucks, control in relationships, etc.) makes many men angry.
It is the truth and the truth often hurts, as we know…
Seeing the Truth Everywhere
Once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
You begin to put the pieces together.
You understand things like the following:
1) Why all your past relationships turned out so badly
2) Why your parents, and seemingly everyone else in marriages are miserable
3) Why men look so despondent holding a woman’s purse at the mall
4) Why feminism exists
5) Why white knights exist
6) The mental prison keeping most men (including you) down
7) Why LTR’s are terrible
At that point, many men want to scream in rage.
This is utterly normal.
Being fooled for your whole life by people that love you will do that to a person.
Getting Angry About It
Men get angry.
They rage, they complain and they trash talk women.
They berate them for having hurt them and for all of the future men they will use and abuse.
They rage at female nature, and how hypergamy doesn’t care about male happiness.
They rage at how women can never love them how they desire, and never will.
They rage at the mental prison they were so foolish as to let themselves get caught up in.
They rage at the alphas, who were lucky enough (or wise enough) to understand female nature before them.
They rage at how unfair life truly is.
They rage at the amount of effort they have to put in to be a man worthy of anything, and how much time they have lost.
As the saying goes:
“The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, the next best time is today.”
Rage is a REACTION to the HARSHNESS of the real world they have just been plunged into.
Justified Feelings
Men are FULLY and TRULY justified for their anger.
How would you feel if everything you thought was true, all the things that you thought would lead to your fundamental love and acceptance were all a lie?
It is an incredible moment in a man’s life when he parts the veil of reality in this way.
It is almost like taking a breath for the first time after having held it in forever.
And the air is COLD.
Many men suffer greatly as a result of this knowledge, but it also allows for true freedom in the long run.
They can finally run free!
Use the Anger to Drive You to Improve Your Life
Rather than continue to rage and despair at your current situation, use that anger to fuel your journey towards greatness.
Most people do not, and never will, know the truth.
You now know.
Channel the rage you feel into greatness.
Do all of the things that the losers of the world feel are unimportant.
Beat them!
They deserve it!
Take your revenge by becoming one of us!
Become one of the greats!
It is now in your grasp.
The knowledge that you need in order to succeed is finally in your hands.
Be careful, it is powerful.
Women Don’t Do It Out of Malice
Remember that women are NOT the way they are out of malice, or evil.
They are acting as evolution has made them.
They are the natural selectors of the human race, whether we like it or not.
Do not hate them for it, it is what will make you great.
In struggle and pain lies greatness.
Do not allow the unfairness of the world to bow your knees and bend your back.
You are a powerful man who was made to bear the burdens of this world.
Fight!
Be free!
It is Just A Phase
With time, the anger will pass.
The anger phase will likely last anywhere from a few months to a few years.
Afterwards, you will likely move into a depressive phase, as you realize that nothing is happening to contradict those things that made you angry to read.
Eventually, the sadness will give way to the next phase.
It will be a comfortable acceptance.
Only when you have truly accepted the truths of the world can you be set free and become one of us.
Amused Mastery
With true acceptance of what the world is really like, you will gain “amused mastery”.
Amused mastery is the idea that you understand women and how the world works so well that it no longer hurts you.
The tests of women now amuse you as you realize that they are simply evolutionary games being played in front of you.
You effortlessly swat these challenges to the side as and are now in full control of your life.
You will truly feel as an apex man feels at this point, having reached the peak of your sexual existence.
You will finally feel as powerful as a woman does in her rockstar phase.
You will feel this way for the rest of your life.
What women were given by birth, you will have earned through pain, sacrifice, hurt and rejection.
The kind of man you will be at this phase of your life is unimaginable to you now.
You’ll laugh at the childishness of your actions now once you’ve reached this point.
Conclusion
Men experience anger when they’ve learned the truth of the world for the first time.
Many people outside of the manosphere complain about “the angry men of the red pill”.
What they don’t understand is that it is simply a phase in the process of self-actualization.
Anger is a necessary step in a man’s growth as he reacts harshly to the lies and deceit that have plagued his life until that point.
Do not despair if you are in this phase of your life.
It will pass and give way to something far greater.
Stay strong!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
I FUCKING HATE That the World is the Way It Is! I Feel Like I’ve Been Abused My Whole Life! Goddamn I Was Such An Idiot!
I know, I know.
I felt exactly the same way.
You’re going to have to life with the pain for now.
Use the anger to fuel your path to greatness.
No turning back now…
What Do You Mean Women Can’t Love Me the Way I’ve Always Wanted?
Women are totally incapable of giving you unconditional love.
This is a FEATURE, not a bug.
You have to become comfortable with that fact.
Women love men for what they DO, not who they ARE.
Women Are All Lies and Manipulation, What the Hell?
They are not!
They are simply running on what biology has given them.
They are the natural selectors of the human race, like it or not.
If you are weak, you deserve NOTHING.
That is the sad truth of this world.
Women actively raise men to be weak, and only the strong survive and thrive DESPITE it.
Helios, Will I Ever Stop Being Angry?
Yes you will, my son.
It will not pass without anguish and pain, however.
First you must suffer.
You must experience how truly blind and foolish you have been to truly appreciate the great gift you have been given.
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