I keep ruffling feathers, and for that I’m sorry.
As I’ve stated multiple times, I believe more in your long term happiness than your short term feelings.
I cannot spare you the rod.
It is for your own good, I promise.
This topic is a sad one.
We’re going to talk today about beta men who discover that the “good girl” they married was in fact a wild one when she was younger and now she gives none of that to her husband.
To say that this is a relationship wrecker and a severe cause of unhappiness is an understatement.
Let’s get into it, shall we?
The Lies Men Are Told
Men are told lies from a young age.
One very important one is that there is one special girl out there who will love you just as you are and will be perfect for you.
Men are also told (usually when they’re young and unsuccessful with women) that nice guys win in the end.
This is a lie.
Women fuck the alpha bad boys and the emotionally unavailable boys until they can’t anymore, with reckless abandon.
Women then make the swap to the safe nice guy later (when they can no longer get the attention of the alphas), to ensure that she can fulfill her mommy’s and society’s wishes.
Women will NEVER tell you this.
They ESPECIALLY will never tell you this if they perceive you to be a beta/NPC/slave man.
Who Does She Give Her Best To?
Women NEVER give their best to their husband or serious boyfriend.
Sex with “serious” men is given as a reward for good behaviour.
Women give the best sex of their lives to alpha, uncommitted men who they are animalistically attracted to.
As a beta, you can’t even imagine the difference in quality that an alpha gets.
The men that never break free of the matriarchy DO NOT get to experience the true raw passion of a woman that is fucking him without commitment.
The realization of the truth for beta men is one of the reasons for suicide, it is that much of a visceral hurt to the ego of a man.
Remember that you have a choice as a man to NOT be this guy.
“I Married A Whore Who Fucks Like A Prude”
The experience of many men is this one:
They marry a whore who fucks like a prude.
Disclaimer: I do not personally believe in the concept of whore or prude, this is simply to make a point.
Basically, men marry a woman with a diverse sexual past, expecting her sexual experience to benefit him.
They expect that she will do all of the freaky things with him that she did with her previous partners.
She NEVER does.
Women only do those things for men they are TRULY attracted to, and women are NEVER truly attracted to their husbands (in the long term).
Because of this fact, many men suffer doubly.
They suffer at the lack of sex AND at all of the time they missed where they could have been fucking women like this and NOT sacrificing for them.
It is for this reason that many men have a mid-life crisis.
Cultural Lies
The cultural lies of the matriarchy state that men should sacrifice their lives for women.
Those lies are present to facilitate the following female strategy:
Men sacrifice their lives so that women can fuck as many alphas as they like when they’re in their sexual prime and STILL have a fallback option.
THIS is the reason why there are so many betas.
Betas exist to facilitate a female reality.
Men Have to Sacrifice to Facilitate the Matriarchy
Here is the truly tough pill to swallow.
Your whole life, you have been conditioned as a lamb to the slaughter so that women could have their cake and eat it too.
Betas are sacrificed so that women can have alpha fucks AND beta bucks.
Men should not have to suffer this fate.
They should know EXACTLY what modern marriage is about.
It is not at ALL the LIE that Disney teaches.
Marriage is present to facilitate women’s sexual strategy and nothing more.
If you agree to marriage, you have agreed to sacrifice your life so that women could live a charmed life with no consequences.
You are worth more than that.
Do Men Divorce If They Find Out About Their Woman’s Sexual Past?
The sad part is that due to cultural conditioning, many men DO NOT divorce.
They STAY and ENCOURAGE women’s bad behaviour.
They are then praised to the heavens for being such a “good husband” (slave).
Women are NOT saving their best for their husbands.
They are USING them.
Sad, I know.
It is even sadder than many men defend marriage, being so steeped in matriarchichal brainwashing, they have no idea what sheep they truly are.
Is A Man’s Sacrifice Rewarded With Good Sexual Behaviour?
FUCK NO!
Men’s sacrifice is NEVER rewarded.
That men are expendable is EXPECTED!
Men are expected to sacrifice themselves to facilitate a feminine reality.
In marriage, men are treated as live-in butlers, not as respected husbands.
Contempt is their fate, not respect.
Familiarity Breeds Contempt
I have mentioned this before, in previous blog posts.
Living with a woman does not make her like you more.
Due to the lack of mystery she starts to resent that you’re not a superhuman (even if you started off as alpha in her eyes).
This is why I say that you should NEVER get married or cohabitate.
Doing these things is the closest thing to an anti-aphrodisiac a man can produce.
Do not agree to shitty deals like monogamy or cohabitation.
Conclusion
Due to our cultural programming, many beta men suffer at the hands of women.
Women get to fuck alphas when they’re young and beautiful and have the safety net of betas to fall back on.
They NEVER reward betas behaviour (marriage) and instead treat them with contempt and barely give them any sex.
Many beta men, having discovered their wife’s previous sexcapades, do not even leave, due to the deep cultural brainwashing they have experienced.
Thus, betas facilitate women’s reality where they can have their cake and eat it too.
Do not allow this situation to befall you.
Be strong!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
Can A Beta Man Forgive His Girlfriend’s Past?
Yes!
Sadly.
If he is steeped enough in matriarchichal brainwashing, there is no low to which he won’t stoop for women.
He will utterly sacrifice himself for the feminine imperative and have no idea that he’s even doing it.
From What My Wife Has Said In Passing, I Get the Impression She’s Very Sexually Experienced. Why Won’t She Give Me Even One Blowjob?
She’s not sexually attracted to you.
She’s using sex as a carrot to encourage certain behaviours in you.
To her, you’re not a man, you’re a plough-horse to be driven whatever direction she desires.
Isn’t it great being a beta?
I Found Out That My Wife Was In A Gangbang In College! She Gives Me Starfish Sex Once Every Two Months. I’m Thinking Of Divorcing Her.
So you finally figured out she was using you, huh?
I hope you have a prenup…
Otherwise, things are going to get pretty bad for you…
I’m So Lucky, I Married the Girl of My Dreams at 30, That Girl That I Longed For In High School!
You married her when she turned 30?
Who did she fuck before you?
Be very careful, she might be treating you as the safe, fallback option.
Why do I even bother advising people who got married…
Stupid.
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