Many men ask me how they should think of women.
I tell them that they should consider women to be the cherry on top of their cake.
I’m going to explain what that means and how it applies to you!
Let’s get into it, shall we?
What a Man’s Priorities Should Be
When I say a woman is the cherry on top of the cake that is your life, I’m talking about priorities.
Women should NOT be the focus of your life, but rather a pleasant ADDITION to your life.
The focus of your life is NOT on the cherry on top of the cake, but on the CAKE ITSELF.
You should spend MOST of your time focused on yourself, and an extremely small percentage of that time should be spent with women.
When you prioritize your mission and not women, not only will you be much more time efficient in your life, you will find peace and happiness.
The majority of your life should be spent working on yourself and your mission.
If you spend the majority of your life trying to please ANY woman, you’re doing it WRONG.
This is equally true if that woman is your mother or your sister.
Beta Bait
Women will BAIT betas.
They will say or imply that they want a man who is wholly devoted to them.
It is a LIE.
That is a deception they use in order to separate the wheat (alphas) from the chaff (betas).
If you put a woman as your mental point of origin, and make pleasing her the centre point of your life, you’re DONE.
She will immediately be signaled that you’re a compliant beta/slave/NPC man and you will NEVER experience genuine desire, attraction or sex from her ever again.
YOU are the centre of your life, NOT HER, no matter what she says.
Alpha vs Beta Treatment of Women
Since alphas are strong, independent and put themselves first, they are VERY unlikely to kiss a woman’s ass.
They will disagree with her, make fun or her, and be unavailable (for communication).
Alphas know instinctively that THEY are the centre of their own life.
If a woman leaves, for whatever reason, the alpha LETS HER GO (he knows she’ll be back later).
Betas, on the other hand DO NOT do this.
They place women on a pedestal immediately.
Women KNOW they are the mental point of origin for these men, and so, they treat him like garbage.
Since betas treat women as the cake of their life (rather than the cherry), betas get ravaged.
ALWAYS place YOURSELF as the priority in your own life.
Your life and your mission is MORE IMPORTANT than any girl.
Women Do NOT Want to Be the Priority of Your Life
Even though women TELL betas that they want men to worship them, the treatment they give alphas says otherwise.
Women DO NOT want to be the priority of your life.
They want to feel as though they have a strong captain leading them.
Women will naturally submit to alphas, who do NOT put them as the centre of their lives.
Do NOT fall into the trap of pedestalizing women.
No woman is worth more than you.
Alpha men are a prize worth fighting for, and women know it!
Prioritize yourself and your mission, and watch how much better your interactions go with women!
What Women Want
Women want a strong, alpha man.
Women SAY they want an equal partner, but the men that women fuck says otherwise.
No matter the personality of the man, the men that women invariably fuck are ALPHA (at least when they are at their physical peak).
Women want a man they can look up to and appreciate.
They want a man who is BETTER than them (so that they feel secure in their hypergamous choice).
Women WANT a man who focuses on HIMSELF.
They fuck and look up to these kinds of men.
Do NOT believe the lies that by pedestalizing her you will get laid (you won’t).
Why Beta Men Get Mangled In Relationships
Beta men get mangled in relationships because they fail to understand that women should NOT be the top priority in their lives.
Betas falsely believe that they should always work to please their partner and do whatever she wants.
By not treating her as she wants to be treated (as the cherry on top), the beta ruins himself.
Once a beta/slave/NPCs partner knows that he is weak, she will begin to use and abuse him (as her programming and the matriarchy dictates).
Betas get mangled in relationships due to incorrect prioritization.
They SHOULD be prioritizing THEMSELVES, but instead, they prioritize their partner (to their extreme detriment).
Who Should the Focus Be On In Your Life?
Since I want men to be happy, I recommend that men put the focus on THEMSELVES.
WOMEN SHOULD NOT be the focus of your life.
Your mission and your goals for your life should be the focus.
Women should be a pleasant distraction from the hard work required to achieve your goals.
Betas are DOING IT WRONG.
Do not be a beta and follow along with what the herd believes.
Following the herd will lead to your long term destruction.
Focus on YOURSELF!
Women Are the Cherry On Top
As I have repeated many times, women should be the CHERRY ON TOP of your life.
They should be a pleasant distraction from the hard work you do to achieve your goals in life.
Do NOT believe what the matriarchy tells you about how women should be treated (as superior beings to be deferred to).
Women WANT men who work on themselves and their mission.
You do yourself a terrible disservice by ignoring this.
Conclusion
Women should NEVER be the focus of your life.
The focus of your life should be yourself and what you desire to accomplish in your life.
Women look up to and want to follow men who are this way.
Do not fall into the beta trap of putting women as the priority in your life.
You will improve your life immeasurably by following this advice!
Good luck.
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
What Should A Man’s Priorities Be In Life?
He should be focused on himself and his mission!
A man should NOT be focused on women, but on HIMSELF.
Women should be the cherry on top of the cake that is a man’s life.
Women should be a pleasant distraction for a man, a temporary reprieve from the hard work he has to do to achieve his goals in life.
But Helios, Women Say They Want A Man Who Treats A Lady Well!
That is beta bait.
When they say that they want a man who treats a lady well, what they are actually saying is they want a guy to kiss her ass.
If you do kiss her ass, you’re in for a bad time.
Any woman would destroy a man who bows himself before her.
She is doing the human race a favour, in her biological opinion.
Weak men are not men, but slaves to be ground into the dirt.
Don’t let that man be you.
How Do Alphas and Betas Treat Women Differently?
Alphas place themselves at the centre of their own lives.
Betas do not.
As a result, alphas DO NOT treat women with deference.
They act in their own self-interest no matter the woman they’re with.
Betas defer and bow to women.
They do whatever women want, and so they are unattractive to them.
What Do Women Really Want?
They want an alpha man who they can look up to.
You need to embody the qualities of an alpha (by placing yourself at the centre of your life) and avoid the qualities of a beta (which places women at the centre of their life).
By placing themselves at the centre of their own life, alphas are giving women what they BIOLOGICALLY and PSYCHOLOGICALLY want.
Only alphas (who ironically don’t care about women that much) get the best treatment from women.
All other men are treated very poorly by women in terms of relationships.
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