Many men struggle with the concept we’re going to talk about today.
Men talk by relaying information.
Masculine communication is very direct and overt.
Feminine communication is NOT this way.
Off we go…
How Women Communicate vs Men
Women communicate COVERTLY.
They disguise the meaning behind what they’re trying to say.
Women often maintain a veil of plausible deniability in anything they say.
They always allow themselves a strategic exit in conversation.
Often, women will not communicate with words, but with the implication behind the words.
This is in contrast to men, who speak OVERTLY.
They will very often say what they mean and mean what they say.
Men are LESS LIKELY to actively try and deceive through the way they speak.
Women communicate in “power talk”, men communicate in “straight talk”.
Betas are basically those men that fall into the trap of believing the words women say rather than the implied meaning behind what they say.
They listen to the OVERT meaning, and fail to comprehend the COVERT meaning underneath.
Insidious, I know.
How Most Men THINK Women Communicate
Most men (betas), think women communicate OVERTLY, as they do.
They are WRONG.
Women DO NOT communicate overtly.
They speak a different language than men do, oftentimes, which veils the true meaning behind nice words.
Here are some examples of things women say that men don’t (men would prefer the overt, direct translation to saying veiled things like this):
1) I love you, but I’m not in love with you.
2) Don’t ever change.
3) Let’s just be friends
4) He’s a nice guy.
5) He’ll make some girl very happy one day.
If you believe that women communicate overtly, you have your head up your ass and need to learn what women are really like.
Once you understand what women are really saying, you’ll be amazed at the difference!
What Women Are Actually Saying
I’m going to take the above examples and translate them for you, so that you can understand what women are really saying when they say the things above.
Watch the difference.
| What Women Say | What They Mean |
| I love you, but I’m not in love with you | I’m not sexually attracted to you |
| Don’t ever change | Don’t stop being a beta |
| Let’s just be friends | I’m not sexually attracted to you, but I like your attention |
| He’s a nice guy | He’s a loser |
| He’ll make some girl very happy one day | He’ll be a great bailout for some girl one day |
If you fall into the trap of believing that women speak overtly, you’re going to have a bad time!
Women often use statements like these to trick betas into bad deals or into false beliefs (for the benefit of team woman).
The Medium is the Message
Often, when communicating with women, the medium is the message.
If she is showing you good behaviour, it does not matter what she says.
Here are some examples of good behaviour:
1) Responding to texts instantly
2) Sex every time you meet
3) Being relaxed around you
4) Asking you to meet up
5) Cooking for you
6) Cleaning for you
7) Triple or quadruple texts
8) Shit tests (at the beginning of the relationship)
If women do these things, regardless of what she’s saying, she’s extremely attracted to you.
By contrast, if she does the following bad behaviours, she’s not into you (no matter what she SAYS).
Some examples of bad behaviour:
1) Never replies to texts
2) Denies sex
3) Constantly reminds you that you’re friends or how good of a friend you are
4) Constantly talks about other men (and how much she enjoyed them, or how much she hated them)
5) Is disrespectful to you or makes fun of you in a rude way (not a shit test, a direct insult)
Women Are ALWAYS On Team Woman
If you EVER ask a woman for advice, she will understand what you’re sub-communicating (that you’re a man who is clueless with women).
She will then give you advice that favours team woman (the matriarchy).
ALL ADVICE given by women related to relationships is advice that if you follow, will lead to women eventually winning the relationship.
I thus recommend that you NEVER ASK and NEVER LISTEN to advice from women about relationships.
They are WRONG.
Even if women hate each other, in public, they will sub-communicate to each other the fact that they are on the side of the sisterhood.
Two women who hate each other would thus advise a man the same way, even if they’re in the same room as each other both speaking to the man.
Why Advice from Women About Relationships Should NOT Be Taken
As I’ve said above, relationship advice should NOT be taken from women because it ALWAYS favours women.
They will never give you advice on how to seduce them, only advice on how to be a good butler/slave.
Funnily enough, if you do the OPPOSITE of what women tell you for advice, often it is correct.
If your mom says you should buy your girlfriend flowers, for example, you should do the opposite.
You should NOT have a girlfriend, and with that girl that you’re seeing in a different arrangement to an LTR, you should NEVER buy her any kind of gift, including flowers.
If your mom says that you should do nice things for your girl, if you do the opposite and expect her to do nice things for you, it is correct.
If your mom tells you that you should be nice to women, doing the opposite (not kissing a girl’s ass) is correct.
Power Games
Women play power games with men.
They play them through sub-communication.
Most of women’s sub-communication boils down to this question:
“Are you alpha enough to resist this test?”
If you resist, you pass.
If you agree, you fail.
The power games do stop, or slow down, if a woman sees you as her alpha.
If, at any point in your relationship, the power games start again, it means that you did something to trigger her hypergamous detector for betas.
She will sub-communicate what she thinks through starting the shit tests again.
The medium is the message, don’t forget that!
Conclusion
With women, communication is sub-communication.
Women often communicate indirectly through their actions rather than through their words.
Betas believe that women communicate overtly, and get manipulated as a result.
You need to listen to women’s behaviour and sub-communication rather than what she says on the surface.
Try it and see your results soar!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
How Do Women Communicate?
Women communicate indirectly, through sub-communication.
Betas fail because they believe that women communicate directly.
It is very important for men to learn how women communicate in order to navigate the world properly.
When A Girl Tells Me She Just Wants to Be Friends, Does She Actually Want to Be Friends?
She wants to use you as an emotional tampon, yes.
If you’re not fucking, you’re nothing to her.
You could let her use you, or you could move on to a woman who is actually interested in you.
Your choice.
This Girl Never Replies to My Messages, What Gives?
The medium is the message.
She’s not that into you.
Move on to a girl who is.
Why the Hell Does the Advice Women Give Me About Seducing Women Never Work?
Women have no idea how to seduce a woman.
When you ask a woman for advice on how to do that, you communicate to her that you’re clueless.
A clueless man does NOT receive good advice from women.
Instead, he receives advice that aims to screw him over.
Don’t listen!
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