Ever been jealous of guitar-guy?
That guy that pulls out his guitar and suddenly has a bunch of girls around him?
I imagine you thought that that wouldn’t be a bad idea for yourself!
You’re right!
Hobbies demonstrate that you’re a well rounded person.
They make you stand out from the crowd!
Some hobbies are much better at getting you laid than others.
Let’s talk about a few…
A Word of Advice
I hope that you’re not picking up hobbies just to get laid.
That’s lame.
You should do what you enjoy doing.
People love people that enjoy living life!
If you’re passionate about something, people will be drawn to you for your passion.
Alphas don’t compromise themselves for others.
We hold onto our self image strongly and are powerful.
Not being a slave involves enjoying the great things that life has to offer, and these hobbies are some of them!
While I don’t recommend you pick up a hobby just to get laid, I do recommend that you have hobbies. You need to do something besides wake up, work, sleep and repeat.
What kind of life is that, even?
What If the Hobby That I Love Isn’t On This List?
It doesn’t matter!
People in general love those that are passionate about life.
If you have something you really love to do and are hardcore passionate about it, people cannot help but be drawn in!
Check out Joe Manganello!
That guy’s a total D&D nerd. You think he doesn’t get laid?
He’s the best version of himself living his best life.
You do the same with whatever it is that you love.
That passion is extremely attractive!
Ok, onto the hobbies that are conventionally attractive…
1 – Playing the Guitar
I know what you’re thinking.
Lame!
You want me to be a guitar guy just to get laid?
No!
I believe that as part of your masculine development, you should learn how to play music.
Why not learn an instrument that’s portable, and that will also get you laid?
Guitar is a great hobby, but if you want it to get you laid, you’re gonna have to be a little better than a beginner.
Getting good at guitar is the same as getting good at seduction.
It takes practice.
There are also youtube videos, luckily, to help you learn.
Hilariously, you’ll find after a while that most songs need very few chords to actually be played.
You can play a bunch of songs just by learning a few chords and singing along.
Amazing!
It’s also a great way to relax if you’ve been working a bunch. I usually play guitar as a relaxation method, or piano!
Don’t worry about pain in your fingers, that goes away after about two weeks!
Start out with some easy songs, and then learn some scales and basic solos.
It doesn’t take much to impress people, most people do not have the time or patience to devote to an instrument.
You can wow them once you’re at a medium, or even low-medium level of guitar skill.
You don’t need to be BB King to impress a beginner 🙂
Listen to music that you like, and learn to play that on guitar!
You’ll find that many classic rock songs are pretty approachable, even for a beginner!
2 – Yoga/Dancing
There are a ton of women that do yoga/dance.
You would be amazed at the amount of hot women you can find in these places.
Your goal when going to one of these classes isn’t to get laid directly, instead, you’re going to have a different strategy.
You should go into those classes with the genuine intention to learn that skill.
Me, for example, I do martial arts, and so I want to become more flexible so that I can do better in my martial arts class.
I joined a yoga class for that reason.
Once there, passionately try to do the activity.
You won’t be able to prevent making friends in your yoga class.
Guess what?
These happen to be pretty girls that you’re making friends with!
You know what pretty girls have?
Other good looking friends!
When you’re invited to one of their parties, that is your chance to get the phone numbers of a bunch of gorgeous women!
Now you have a bunch of hot yoga girl prospects. Amazing!
The same could apply to a salsa dance class, or whatever you decide to join.
See the girls in your yoga class as a social circle source.
If you fuck up with one yoga group, you can always change classes and try again with another.
No problem!
3 – Cooking
Cooking is an amazing hobby to have as a guy.
Women become sexually aroused when they see men cook, I’m not kidding!
Also, it will help you to control the kind of food you eat, since you’re trying to get a nice body.
It’s a total win-win.
By the way, you can also save money over pre-made food.
Having cooking as a hobby gives you plausible deniability.
You can invite a girl to your place and make food together for a near guaranteed lay.
Learn a bunch of basic recipes, and use the internet as a source to help you.
There are many excellent, well-reviewed recipes online that you can follow.
If you decide to join a cooking class, there will always be a bunch of beautiful women there.
Guess who can slay with a little game?
That’s right, you!
An alternative is to build a social circle from your cooking class too, which is likely to lead to a bunch of pretty girls again!
The fun never stops.
4 – Travelling
Travelling, of course is an excellent source of getting laid if you stay in youth hostels.
Also, by travelling to different places in the world, you become cultured.
Women love cultured men.
When you have the experience of having been to many places in the world, it changes you.
You’ll be much more able to connect to people of all kinds of cultures and understand them.
This of course, applies to women as well.
If you’re white, you’ll have an easy time sleeping with asian women.
Travelling makes you worldly, it gives you more experience than the average man.
This makes you have much better conversations, and makes you much more relatable.
Women want a man who they can look up to. It is pretty easy to look up to a man with multiple hobbies who has travelled around the world.
Women of all stripes will love to hear the stories of when you were out exploring the world.
To say that travelling improves your prospects as a man goes without saying.
You will be better able to relate to multiple kinds of people and sleep with girls from all over the globe as a result.
You will also develop a respect for many cultures and an appreciation for humanity that you never thought possible.
Travelling allows you to seduce higher quality girls since it elevates you.
Not bad, huh?
Conclusion
Many men have hobbies.
Hobbies make us a more complete person and therefore, more attractive to women.
When we improve ourselves and have full lives, we become much more attractive.
There are several hobbies that are particularly sexy. Here they are:
- Guitar
- Yoga/Dancing
- Cooking
- Travelling
This does not mean that other hobbies aren’t attractive, you simply need to be passionate about whatever it is that you do, and you’ll do great!
Try some of these hobbies out for yourself and see what I mean 🙂
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
Do I Need to Do One of These Hobbies to Get Laid?
No!
Passion and excitement for what you do will also be attractive.
If you’re not sure what hobbies are attractive to women though, you can’t go wrong with the above (guitar, yoga/dancing, cooking, travelling).
I Don’t Know How to Cook, Am I Screwed?
Nope!
Follow the recipes online, or buy a recipe book.
It’s no big deal!
Just practice, and you’ll do totally fine.
I Don’t Have the Money to Travel, How Do I Bang Exotic Women?
You could always talk about where you would like to go!
When you’re talking to an exotic woman, ask her about her country.
Ask her about how her country is different from the one you’re currently in, you’ll do fine!
I’ll Embarrass Myself In Yoga Class, I Don’t Want to Do It!
If you’re handsome and doing terribly, that may work in your favour, hilariously.
You’ll draw lots of attention.
When they make fun of you, deflect in cute, non-needy ways and you’re set.
You’ll make the friends you need to get laid from the yoga social circle!
Amazing.
I Don’t Want to Play Guitar, I Want to Play the Trombone!
Do what you want man.
If you’re passionate about it and thoroughly enjoy it, I’m sure that can get you laid too.
There’s some mean blues trombone out there!
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