This is an extremely important topic which I believe needs to be covered (pun intended?).
We’re going to talk about using protection today.
Ironically, we’re not going to be talking about it in the usual context (preventing STD’s), but in the MUCH more likely context of preventing PREGNANCY.
Here we go…
Why Would A Woman Want to Get Pregnant in the First Place?
Many women decide that they want to get pregnant for all kinds of reasons.
Here are a few:
- They want a child
- Their friends all have children
- They want someone to pay them child support
- They want to be a strong “single mommy”
- Their parents pressure them to
- Their partner pressures them to
- Their biological clock tells them that it’s “getting late”
Notice how only one of these has the input of a man.
Basically, these feelings could hit one of your partners at any time, and if you’re not careful, you may just end up with a baby you now have to pay for!
That is even if you didn’t want the baby, by the way.
Save yourself the trouble and protect yourself.
Let’s elaborate on this a bit more, shall we…
They Just “Forgot” to Take Their Birth Control
There are many reasons that women get pregnant, but a common one is that they “forgot” to take their birth control that day.
If you let a woman have full control over her ability to get pregnant, with no agency on your part, she could get pregnant without you even knowing, and surprise you with it later!
You will greatly regret not having had any choice in this matter at that point.
You should certainly use protection, in order to make sure that she’s not getting pregnant with your sperm, unless you seriously want a baby.
Lots of men throw their lives away because they had a baby at a time that they didn’t want it!
Have agency over your ability to impregnate a girl, use protection!
Approaching the Wall
Many women surprise men with a pregnancy when they begin to approach the wall.
The wall is the time in her life when she knows that her rockstar/strong independent phase is over and she has to settle down.
Often, it is because she simply cannot command the same sexual attention that she used to.
She feels her attractiveness slipping and her fertility window as well, and so she feels she has to get pregnant before it’s too late.
She then has an “oops” baby with the current alpha she’s seeing (you).
Of course, not ALL women do this, but you should use protection that you have brought yourself to make sure it doesn’t happen to you!
Some women have even been known to poke holes in condoms they have bought themselves!
Don’t let this be you!
They Were “In Love”
Sometimes, some women who feel they are in “love” (honeymoon phase) decide that it’s time to have a baby with the guy they’re with (without his permission).
They stop whatever treatment they had for birth control without ever telling their partner in the hope that having a kid with him will keep him around.
Obviously, if the guy wasn’t using condoms at this point he would be SOL.
You want to have control over your life and as a result, you need to be using protection with the women you’re having sex with!
It may not be malicious and may be done with the best of intentions, but you don’t want to be paying child support if you didn’t want a baby in the first place!
Make sure that you’re covering yourself!
Sperm Jacking
I’ve heard this with regards to NBA players.
The athlete will sleep with a girl and throw his condom in the trash at her place, she will then take it out of the trash and try to impregnate herself using the sperm in that condom.
Obviously not all women will do this, but I recommend that you take any condoms that you use with you!
This way you can totally prevent this problem from happening.
I would hate for a girl to trap you with a baby when you had no intentions of ever having children with her!
Sexual Pragmatism
Women are sexually pragmatic and strategic in ways that men usually fail to understand.
They will try to impregnate themselves with alpha seed when they’re ovulating and take advantage of male(beta) attention when they’re not.
As a result, women are more likely to perform sexually risky behaviours when they’re most likely to get pregnant.
You need to prevent this problem so that you don’t end up with a child that you didn’t want.
Once again, it is extremely important to protect yourself!
We are not in control of women’s actions, but we are in control of our own.
Before you have sex with a woman, think of the consequences of impregnating her.
If you’re not ok with them, cover yourself!
Child Support
I’ve mentioned it several times, but basically what you’re trying to avoid is unwanted child support.
What will happen if you have a kid you don’t want is that some women will press for you to be forced to pay child support (through legal means).
For the next 20 years, you will be stuck paying the tab for a child you didn’t want.
Some women actively try to have children with different fathers in order to get child support from each one individually.
Obviously this is a huge problem that we want to avoid!
You don’t want to be one of those “deadbeat dads” because you wouldn’t put a condom on.
When you control the birth yourself, regardless of the method of birth control she says she’s using, you prevent this problem.
Chains If You Don’t Comply
In many places in the west, if you fail to pay child support, you can go to jail!
This means that a woman who baby trapped you can legally strongarm you into paying for a child.
If you don’t want to, it doesn’t matter.
The law will force you, or put you in jail!
At that point, you will have wished that you were more prudent with your choices.
Prevention is the best cure.
Unless you absolutely want a child, USE PROTECTION for your own safety.
Conclusion
I hope that repeating this message as many times as I did helped to reinforce the idea that you need to LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF.
If you are trapped in this manner, there is no legal recourse!
You will be strongarmed into paying child support by the government!
That would be a terrible result for a man seeking freedom in this world.
I’ll repeat this again:
We cannot control the actions of others, but we can control our own actions.
Don’t let a dumb decision like failing to use protection be the reason that you remain a slave for the rest of your life!
Take care.
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
My Girl Loves Me, She Would Never Do This To Me!
Honeymoon phase.
You need to make the correct choices regardless of your feelings.
Do you want a baby with her right now?
If you’re cumming in her, it could happen at any time!
Watch out!
My Girl Told Me To Stop Wearing Condoms With Her, Should I Do It?
She desperately wants you to get her pregnant.
Do you want to pay child support for the next 20 years?
Protect yourself then!
I Always Use A Condom, What Do I Have To Be Worried About?
You should be worried about sperm jacking.
Make sure that you don’t throw the condom away in the garbage at her place.
She could impregnate herself with your sperm that way.
Take it with you!
Is Child Support Really That Bad?
It’s money you have to pay for the next 20 years.
Why would you pay that over a child you didn’t even want?
Think about the consequences before you cum in a girl!
Use protection for your future!
Only have kids if you really want them.
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