Everyone today seems to have an answer to this question.
Of course, to the detriment of men everywhere, the answers men are usually taught are wrong.
We have strayed far from our cavemen roots and now have lost the way regarding masculinity.
Our definition of manhood has been changed so drastically many men have no idea what they are supposed to do anymore.
Let’s talk about it…
What is A Man?
What men are taught they should be from a young age is NOT what a man is.
Men are taught from a young age the wrong thing on purpose in order to better facilitate the matriarchy (more on that later).
What a man actually is can be seen in old literature and movies.
Let me give you a list of qualities men have (so you can compare it to the list that women have defined men should be):
1)Strong
2)Independent
3)Cocky
4)Aloof
5)Savvy
6)Witty
7)In charge
8)Powerful
Of course, the men we see in modern media absolutely do NOT embody these qualities, and in fact, only “fake men” act like this in our modern times in pop culture.
“Real men” (as defined by the matriarchy) act quite different.
Men As Defined By the Matriarchy
What is a “real man” according to the matriarchy?
Not a man at all.
Here is a list:
1)Weak
2)Servile
3)Emotional
4)Aims to please
5)Supplicatory
6)A good listener
7)“Respectful” (of women)
Obviously, if men follow these rules (which are basically how a boy should treat mommy at home), he is completely sexually unattractive to women.
The Matriarchy’s Mental Prison
The matriarchy aims to prevent men from ever becoming men.
It does this by teaching men to be servile from a young age.
Only those that break free of the chains they were taught to place on themselves are able to rise above and become alpha.
Many of the social rules we follow and the social niceties we do are in place in order to teach men at every level and in every environment to defer to women.
Such is the power of the modern matriarchy.
Alpha vs Beta
Alphas are treated amazingly, while betas are not.
Alphas receive actual attention, love and affection from women, whereas betas receive scraps.
This is because only alpha men are seen as men by women.
Beta men are more akin to purses than people.
A man therefore, is someone who has broken free of his mental prison and treats women the way they want to be treated and not the way they SAY they want to be treated.
Who Gets to Be A Man?
The only men that actually get to be men are those that break free of the mental prison that is their feminine conditioning.
Only those men who see reality for what it is and stop living their lives as slaves can actually rise to be men.
All the rest of the human population are thrown in the meat grinder, to be discarded when they have no more use.
That is the real reason why I prescribe the importance of breaking free of your mental prison and seeing yourself as the centre of your life.
ONLY then can you be free and truly happy.
“Manning” Up
In the modern world, “manning up” means to do whatever some woman orders you to do.
Manning up means to finally submit to the matriarchy and become the slave you’re supposed to be.
Manning up includes:
1)Taking care of another man’s child
2)Marrying women who are clearly subpar for long term relationships
3)Extreme supplication
All of these things are obviously terrible for men.
Do NOT fall into the trap of “manning up”, it has been corrupted from its previous meaning.
Modern Marriage Is Not Masculine
The matriarchy wants you to get married.
This is because the matriarchy knows that once you’re in a marriage you are under the thumb of a woman.
She has you by the balls through the government and your money being held hostage.
Since modern marriage takes away all freedom and opportunity that was present before, modern marriage is NOT masculine.
It is a sign of submission to get married in the modern age, and is thus BETA.
No man would allow himself to be controlled the way that marriage allows in our modern society.
DO NOT get married.
Don’t Let the Matriarchy Define What Being A Man is For You
If you let the matriarchy define what masculinity is for you, you have already lost.
The matriarchy doesn’t care about you, it cares about itself.
It stands to reason then, that the matriarchy would want to teach you things that favours itself!
Once the matriarchy has changed the definition of masculinity to mean “maximum submission to the feminine”, they can rest easy knowing they have guaranteed their long term safety net.
Do not allow yourself to be a slave to their goals!
Conclusion
The definition of what a man is has been corrupted in order to better facilitate the goals of the matriarchy.
The only men allowed to be men in our modern times are those who rise above the mental prison put in place by the matriarchy.
You need to, for your own sake, break out of the box you have been put in.
You are worth more to the world!
Break free!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
What Is A Man?
Here is a list of qualities that ACTUAL men should have.
These are qualities that are present in many legends of old and also in literature that predates the matriarchy:
1)Strong
2)Independent
3)Cocky
4)Aloof
5)Savvy
6)Witty
7)In charge
8)Powerful
Many ancient Greek heroes embody these qualities, as do masculine heroes in older stories.
It is only in modern times that what it means to be a man has been corrupted.
What Is A Man According to the Matriarchy?
A “modern man” according to the matriarchy is one who shows maximum submission to the feminine imperative.
Here are the qualities of a “real man”:
1)Weak
2)Servile
3)Emotional
4)Aims to please
5)Supplicatory
6)A good listener
7)“Respectful” (of women)
Obviously, if you embody any of these qualities, you are automatically disqualified from true intimacy with women.
Who Gets to Be A Man In Modern Society?
Only those men strong enough to break free of their mental prison have the opportunity to be real men.
The rest of the men out there are simply brainwashed drones, sacrificing themselves for the whims of women.
A “real man” is not a man at all, but a downtrodden plough horse.
Getting Married Is A Powerful Masculine Symbol, You Get to Have A Woman As Your Own, After All
Maybe in ancient times this was the case.
In the modern world, marriage is more akin to a ball and chain.
Women are able to control you through the government and through the ransom of your money.
Obviously getting married in modern times is idiotic!
I’ll bet many of you have heard of the “glass ceiling”.
It refers to the idea that men and women are not paid equally and that this represents a fundamental unfairness in our social system against women.
That is bullshit.
Let’s get into why…
Are Men and Women Paid Equally?
Men and women ARE paid equally.
Our current society has ensured that.
A female engineer with 10 years of experience is paid exactly what a male engineer with 10 years of experience is paid.
If men and women are doing the SAME JOB FOR THE SAME AMOUNT OF TIME, THEY ARE PAID THE SAME in the west.
There is no sexism with regards to pay.
Equal Pay for Equal Work
In the west, men and women are paid equally for doing the same amount of work.
If women were paid less, all businesses would quickly fill with women, as CEO’s realized that having a large group of women working for them is more cost efficient than having a group of men.
Since we don’t see that in the real world, it is clear that it doesn’t happen.
What IS TRUE is that women ARE paid less over the same period of time as men (if we’re considering a 10 year time period for instance).
The reason is NOT SEXISM however.
The reason that women are paid less is because women usually don’t work for as much time as men in the same time period.
If you look at the ages of 26-36 for men and women, for example, professional men are likely to work for all 10 of those years whereas women are likely to take a few years off to have children and take care of them.
As a result of this, if you average the salaries of both men and women in that 10 year period, the woman would be earning less money overall.
It is NOT because of sexism, it is BECAUSE OF LIFE CHOICES.
Equality of Opportunity vs Equality of Outcome
The west currently has equality of opportunity.
This means that if you want to work, and are qualified, your race or sex will NOT determine how much you are paid or whether you can find a job or not.
In fact, in the west, there are often “equal opportunity policies” that FAVOUR people of supposedly “oppressed” status.
This means that those people who are supposedly oppressed have even GREATER opportunity to find work in these industries.
They are also paid a competitive equal wage regardless of sex and race (think of the lawsuits if they didn’t).
What the matriarchy wants however, is NOT equality of opportunity (which they already have).
They want equality of OUTCOME.
They want to be paid the same as a person working for all 10 years, working 7 years, just because they are women, for example.
That is unfair.
Lies
The lie is that a “glass ceiling” exists.
This “glass ceiling” supposedly prevents women from achieving at the highest levels, as men do.
The glass ceiling is a lie.
If a woman worked as hard as a man, she would experience the same level of success and earn the same income as any hard working man.
Many women have done this.
The problem is that it requires sacrifice.
The equality of outcome people want there to be LESS sacrifice for women than for men needed.
They want to angle the playing field in their favour with the lie of the glass ceiling.
Who Benefits?
The idea of a glass ceiling benefits people who are supposedly oppressed who are not willing to put in the effort to succeed, as their competitors do.
They thus want to legislate it to be easier for their lazy asses to compete.
It is unfair to all of the people who have sacrificed their entire lives for their work in order to see the results they do.
Ironically, the glass ceiling hurts people like Sheryl Sandberg, who are obviously extremely hard working, driven, type A people.
Equality of outcome will do nothing good for the west, in fact, it is much more likely to speed up its collapse.
Patriarchy or Matriarchy?
We currently live in a matriarchy.
The matriarchy is all about equality and good feelings at the expense of the hard working person.
The matriarchy is about cultural Marxism, and having everyone be equal and have equal outcomes.
That we live in a patriarchy is patently false.
That could not be further from the truth.
Women cannot be criticized in public, and free speech is being curtailed in favour of good feelings.
This will continue to have negative effects on our society as the collapse continues.
Government Bailouts
Basically, the idea of a glass ceiling is there in order to encourage betas to believe it.
They will then support this false idea, promote it, and it will become a government bailout.
Money will go out of betas pockets and into the pockets of the “disenfranchised”.
Thus, the glass ceiling will become a convenient excuse for why the disenfranchised deserve the average man’s money, without any effort required.
Money cannot come from nothing.
Why Are Women Paid Less Than Men?
As I have said before, and I will repeat again:
Women are NOT paid less than men for equal work.
Women are paid EXACTLY as men are if they are in the same, or equivalent position.
In a 10 year period, however, especially if we are referring to a woman’s prime fertility years, a woman is MUCH LESS LIKELY to work for all of those years.
As a result, the average woman will earn less, due to taking some time off to fulfill her biological imperative.
If a woman chose NOT to do this, they would be paid EXACTLY as a man would over the same time period.
Many women do choose this path, and are paid for that choice handsomely (though of course, they usually fail to have children in that case).
Again, the lie of the glass ceiling exists in order to pay free money to the “disenfranchised”.
Basically, it is cultural Marxism, stating that everyone is equal regardless of age, gender, race or choices.
It is obviously false that everyone is the same and puts in the same effort.
Conclusion
The glass ceiling does not exist.
Men and women are paid the same amount for equal work.
If a man and woman worked exactly the same amount of days for the same 10 year time frame, NO DIFFERENCE would be seen in their salaries (or a negligible difference).
Since women tend to NOT work the same amount of time as men, due to their own CHOICES (such as having children and taking care of them), they work LESS TIME in the same time frame as the men they are being compared to.
As a result, they, on average, earn less money over the same time period.
This is NOT due to sexism, but due to CHOICES.
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
What Is the Glass Ceiling?
The glass ceiling is the false teaching that women are oppressed in modern society.
It refers to the idea that there is a certain limit to what women can achieve due to the inherent unfairness in the system, an unfairness that needs to be righted.
With the modern matriarchy, all of the limits that were previously placed to check female behaviour have been removed.
The glass ceiling is false.
Are Women Paid Equally For Equal Work?
Yes!
If women were not paid equally, all men would be outcompeted by their cheaper alternatives.
Businesses would quickly fill to the brim with only women as business owners realized that they could pay women 75% of the money and save a fortune!
Women are paid equally, they simply work less time over the same time interval as men (ex: in a 10 year time interval, women might work 7 years due to having children, and thus they are paid less than men over that same time interval).
Is the Patriarchy Oppressing Women?
The patriarchy does NOT EXIST.
We currently live in a matriarchal, fem-centric society.
There is no patriarchy to oppress women with!
Women are in fact FAVOURED in our society.
What is the Difference Between Equality of Opportunity and Equality of Outcome?
Equality of opportunity means that if a person is willing to work, they can achieve a stable existence.
They are not held back by the colour of their skin or their birth.
With good, judicious choices and actions, the average person can get a good serf job.
Equality of outcome means that regardless of choices and behaviour, everyone receives the same outcome.
The first is already achieved (and in fact, “oppressed” races and genders have a leg up in the race).
The second is cultural Marxism and will absolutely lead to the ruin of society (the current goal of the matriarchy).
As I’ve stated multiple times, I believe more in your long term happiness than your short term feelings.
I cannot spare you the rod.
It is for your own good, I promise.
This topic is a sad one.
We’re going to talk today about beta men who discover that the “good girl” they married was in fact a wild one when she was younger and now she gives none of that to her husband.
To say that this is a relationship wrecker and a severe cause of unhappiness is an understatement.
Let’s get into it, shall we?
The Lies Men Are Told
Men are told lies from a young age.
One very important one is that there is one special girl out there who will love you just as you are and will be perfect for you.
Men are also told (usually when they’re young and unsuccessful with women) that nice guys win in the end.
This is a lie.
Women fuck the alpha bad boys and the emotionally unavailable boys until they can’t anymore, with reckless abandon.
Women then make the swap to the safe nice guy later (when they can no longer get the attention of the alphas), to ensure that she can fulfill her mommy’s and society’s wishes.
Women will NEVER tell you this.
They ESPECIALLY will never tell you this if they perceive you to be a beta/NPC/slave man.
Who Does She Give Her Best To?
Women NEVER give their best to their husband or serious boyfriend.
Sex with “serious” men is given as a reward for good behaviour.
Women give the best sex of their lives to alpha, uncommitted men who they are animalistically attracted to.
As a beta, you can’t even imagine the difference in quality that an alpha gets.
The men that never break free of the matriarchy DO NOT get to experience the true raw passion of a woman that is fucking him without commitment.
The realization of the truth for beta men is one of the reasons for suicide, it is that much of a visceral hurt to the ego of a man.
Remember that you have a choice as a man to NOT be this guy.
“I Married A Whore Who Fucks Like A Prude”
The experience of many men is this one:
They marry a whore who fucks like a prude.
Disclaimer: I do not personally believe in the concept of whore or prude, this is simply to make a point.
Basically, men marry a woman with a diverse sexual past, expecting her sexual experience to benefit him.
They expect that she will do all of the freaky things with him that she did with her previous partners.
She NEVER does.
Women only do those things for men they are TRULY attracted to, and women are NEVER truly attracted to their husbands (in the long term).
Because of this fact, many men suffer doubly.
They suffer at the lack of sex AND at all of the time they missed where they could have been fucking women like this and NOT sacrificing for them.
It is for this reason that many men have a mid-life crisis.
Cultural Lies
The cultural lies of the matriarchy state that men should sacrifice their lives for women.
Those lies are present to facilitate the following female strategy:
Men sacrifice their lives so that women can fuck as many alphas as they like when they’re in their sexual prime and STILL have a fallback option.
THIS is the reason why there are so many betas.
Betas exist to facilitate a female reality.
Men Have to Sacrifice to Facilitate the Matriarchy
Here is the truly tough pill to swallow.
Your whole life, you have been conditioned as a lamb to the slaughter so that women could have their cake and eat it too.
Betas are sacrificed so that women can have alpha fucks AND beta bucks.
Men should not have to suffer this fate.
They should know EXACTLY what modern marriage is about.
It is not at ALL the LIE that Disney teaches.
Marriage is present to facilitate women’s sexual strategy and nothing more.
If you agree to marriage, you have agreed to sacrifice your life so that women could live a charmed life with no consequences.
You are worth more than that.
Do Men Divorce If They Find Out About Their Woman’s Sexual Past?
The sad part is that due to cultural conditioning, many men DO NOT divorce.
They STAY and ENCOURAGE women’s bad behaviour.
They are then praised to the heavens for being such a “good husband” (slave).
Women are NOT saving their best for their husbands.
They are USING them.
Sad, I know.
It is even sadder than many men defend marriage, being so steeped in matriarchichal brainwashing, they have no idea what sheep they truly are.
Is A Man’s Sacrifice Rewarded With Good Sexual Behaviour?
FUCK NO!
Men’s sacrifice is NEVER rewarded.
That men are expendable is EXPECTED!
Men are expected to sacrifice themselves to facilitate a feminine reality.
In marriage, men are treated as live-in butlers, not as respected husbands.
Contempt is their fate, not respect.
Familiarity Breeds Contempt
I have mentioned this before, in previous blog posts.
Living with a woman does not make her like you more.
Due to the lack of mystery she starts to resent that you’re not a superhuman (even if you started off as alpha in her eyes).
This is why I say that you should NEVER get married or cohabitate.
Doing these things is the closest thing to an anti-aphrodisiac a man can produce.
Do not agree to shitty deals like monogamy or cohabitation.
Conclusion
Due to our cultural programming, many beta men suffer at the hands of women.
Women get to fuck alphas when they’re young and beautiful and have the safety net of betas to fall back on.
They NEVER reward betas behaviour (marriage) and instead treat them with contempt and barely give them any sex.
Many beta men, having discovered their wife’s previous sexcapades, do not even leave, due to the deep cultural brainwashing they have experienced.
Thus, betas facilitate women’s reality where they can have their cake and eat it too.
Do not allow this situation to befall you.
Be strong!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions
Can A Beta Man Forgive His Girlfriend’s Past?
Yes!
Sadly.
If he is steeped enough in matriarchichal brainwashing, there is no low to which he won’t stoop for women.
He will utterly sacrifice himself for the feminine imperative and have no idea that he’s even doing it.
From What My Wife Has Said In Passing, I Get the Impression She’s Very Sexually Experienced. Why Won’t She Give Me Even One Blowjob?
She’s not sexually attracted to you.
She’s using sex as a carrot to encourage certain behaviours in you.
To her, you’re not a man, you’re a plough-horse to be driven whatever direction she desires.
Isn’t it great being a beta?
I Found Out That My Wife Was In A Gangbang In College! She Gives Me Starfish Sex Once Every Two Months. I’m Thinking Of Divorcing Her.
So you finally figured out she was using you, huh?
I hope you have a prenup…
Otherwise, things are going to get pretty bad for you…
I’m So Lucky, I Married the Girl of My Dreams at 30, That Girl That I Longed For In High School!
You married her when she turned 30?
Who did she fuck before you?
Be very careful, she might be treating you as the safe, fallback option.
Why do I even bother advising people who got married…
Of course we’re going to talk about texting strategies!
In the modern era, texting is one of the cornerstones of seduction.
I’m sure you want what I wanted when I started, some strategies you can use to text, and some specific messages to send to girls to get on dates.
Look no further!
I’ll show you the way…
Alpha Mindset When Texting
There are several fundamentals to keep in mind when texting, but here is the iron rule:
Alphas only text for logistics.
An alpha male is simply too busy to spend his time texting women.
He only has time to text in order to set up a meet with a woman (where he ideally has sex with her).
This means that, lucky you, you don’t actually have to put in that much work to be good at texting.
In fact, texting is an exercise in self-control!
How to Text as an Alpha Male
As I said before, texting as an alpha is an exercise in self-control.
With a girl’s phone number you can literally message her at any time, and she knows that.
When you don’t message her, she wonders why.
Here is something people don’t tell you:
Women who are interested in you think about you more than you know!
They simply don’t tell you because they don’t want to lose the upper hand in a relationship!
The key is, through non-messaging, you want to gain this upper hand for yourself.
Once again, as an alpha, we only text for logistics!
This means that you only text to set up a meet!
Otherwise, you’re doing your own thing.
Want to be called aloof and mysterious by women? Don’t text them.
When they don’t know what you’re doing specifically, they fantasize about all the cool things you’re doing and the cool people you’re meeting (including women) who aren’t them.
This is amazing for you!
Once again:
The way an alpha wins the text game is by not playing.
Actual Messages to Send as an Alpha Male
“Helios, I thought you said that the way we win the text game is by not playing!”
“Why are you giving me texting examples then?”
“My son, I’m giving you texting examples because I want to show you how to be minimalist in your texting.“
You win by using the least effort possible in order to get laid. The time you save you can then use to improve yourself in other ways.
Also, you want to get laid, not get yourself a new penpal, right?
There are four types of women you can be texting:
Women you met at a bar/club/party
Women you met through your social circle (friends of friends, etc.)
Women you met through cold approach (just talking to that pretty girl at the bookstore, for example)
Women you met through online dating (Tinder, Bumble, etc.)
You’ll need to change your initial approach depending on where you met them initially!
1 – Texting Women You Met at a Club/Bar/Party
For club/bar women, you initiate the text through something you talked about or some common experience you had when you met them.
Text her the next day after you got her number.
Maybe you went to a jazz club, here is an example text exchange if that is the case:
You: Hey, it’s that amazing guy you met at the jazz club. Wasn’t *insert musician here* amazing? – *Sign your name*
Her: Yeah! He was 🙂
You: Man, it was so good! You doing anything else fun this week?
Her: Nah, not really.
You: Tragedy. We should totally meet up! I’ll turn that frown upside down 🙂 How about we meet at *insert place here* at *insert time here*? We’ll go for a coffee/walk/whatever
Her: Sure!
In this example, I set up the date really fast, in the span of three exchanges. You want to do the same!
An alpha doesn’t have time to waste talking all day with a woman, he has work/other fun things to do.
You want to not text her until the day of the meet, sending a confirmation text to make sure she shows up.
Send her something at 9am the day of the meet that goes like…
”Hey, see you at *place* at *time* -Helios”
Let’s see how it goes if the girl is in your social circle…
2 – Texting Women You Met Through Your Social Circle
For social circle women, you want to reference the friend who introduced you in your first text, or the situation that brought you together.
This way, it adds a touch of familiarity that puts you a bit further ahead than random strangers she’s met.
Here’s an example of what you could text her.
Text her the next day after you got her number.
Maybe you met at a house party:
You: Hey *Girl’s name*, it’s Helios, that stunner from Becky’s party! We won like 40 rounds of beer pong together 🙂 What’s up?
Her: Oh hey! Yeah, we were amazing together weren’t we?
You: We crushed all the competition! Got anything else fun going on this week?
Her: Yeah! I’m going golfing this weekend with Becky actually!
You: Sounds fun! We should totally meet up 🙂 How about we meet on *insert day here* at *insert time here* at *insert place here*. We’ll go for a coffee/walk/adventure, etc.
Her: I can’t do Thursday but I can do Friday. Is that ok?
You: Sure! See you then 🙂
Notice how I said we? You want to establish an “us” frame. She’ll be more comfortable with you from the beginning if you do this!
Something else:
If she can’t make the time you’ve given her, but she tells you a time that works for her, that is a huge indicator of interest! It’s a great sign when she’s giving you logistics! It means she really likes you 🙂
You want to not text her until the day of the meet, sending a confirmation text to make sure she shows up.
Send her something at 9am the day of the meet that goes like…
”Hey, see you at *place* at *time* -Helios”
Alright, let’s move on to cold approach texting…
3 – Texting a Woman You Met Through Cold Approach
If you met a girl through cold approach, you want to reference something you talked about in the conversation when you met her.
Hopefully you made some kind of joke, or talked about something you both enjoy.
This way, she’ll feel like you’re more familiar and she’ll be more likely to respond!
Text her the next day after you got her number.
Example conversation:
You: Hey *Girl’s name*, it’s Helios, that hot guy you met at the book store! I still think that Eragon has a better love story than Twilight 🙂 What’s up?
Her: No! Twilight has the best love story! I’m just chillin 🙂
You: Nope. Eragon is the best of all time! What you got going on this week that’s fun?
Her: Umm…Probably gonna re-read Twilight.
You: Got a thing for vampires huh 😉 We should totally meet up! How about we meet on *insert day here* at *insert time here* at *insert place here*. We’ll go for a coffee/walk/adventure, etc.
Her: Sure!
Notice how all of the first dates I’m asking girls on are very chill! You should do the same.
This is because you don’t want to put too much pressure on the girl on the first date!
You also don’t want to spend any money initially.
You don’t know if you really like this girl yet, so why commit resources to her?
You want to not text her until the day of the meet, sending a confirmation text to make sure she shows up.
Send her something at 9am the day of the meet that goes like…
”Hey, see you at *place* at *time* -Helios”
Time for online game, it’s also slightly different…
4 – Texting a Woman You Met Through Online Dating
On dating apps, every dude texts the same thing!
This means that unless you’re incredibly attractive, she won’t even see your message…
We fix this by changing up our initial message and our secondary message too. We want to have a call to action as well, and sign our name.
This is important because many women online have no intention of ever meeting you. We want to weed out the ones that are time wasters.
Example texts:
You: “Hey ______, you seem fun 🙂 You should message me! – Your Name
Her: This is me messaging you 🙂
You: Fantastic! If you could be any character from a book, which would you be and why? Don’t answer based on appearance 🙂
Her: I would be Bella from Twilight because she’s innocent, and kinda wild at the same time 🙂
You: Nice! We should totally meet up 🙂 How about we meet at *insert place here* at *insert time here*. We’ll go for a chill walk/drink/hangout.
Her: Sure! See you then!
You: Great! Text me at (111) 222 3333
Her: Sure
Notice how I asked for her number after setting up the meet!
Women prefer you pitch the meet first and then ask for their number later online.
Giving you their phone number right away is too personal too quickly.
You want to not text her until the day of the meet, sending a confirmation text to make sure she shows up.
Send her something at 9am the day of the meet that goes like…
”Hey, see you at *place* at *time* -Helios”
Key Alpha Texting Strategies
Notice how regardless of how I met the girl, I pitched the first date within three exchanges!
You want to weed out any time wasting women.
An alpha only has time for women who want to meet in person.
You do not want to establish a penpals relationship but some kind of sexual relationship.
Make your intentions to meet clear and quick!
IMPORTANT REMINDER: On the day of your meetup, at 9am or so, message the girl and repeat where you’re meeting and at what time. If she confirms, excellent!
If she doesn’t, it means that she’s flaking and you can make other plans. Don’t be upset if she flakes.
Some women are terrible planners.
Just wait a day or two and try to set up a meet again the same way you did before.
If she flakes again, cut your losses and move on to a new girl.
Alpha Responses to Common Female Text Signals
Women have several signals they send while texting.
You can get this information not by the content of the text, but by the WAY the text is sent and formatted.
Here are things to look for:
Timeframe of responses (instant or takes a long time)
One message or several (double text, triple?)
Length of responses (one word text, or sentences?)
Grammar (bad grammar or good grammar?)
Capitalization of your name (non-capital or capital?)
Once you have this information, you can reply accordingly.
Female texting indicators of interest:
Instant replies to your texts
Double, triple, quadruple!! texting in response to your message
Her responses are long, while yours are short
Her grammar is perfect in her texts
She capitalizes your name
Female texting indicators of disinterest:
Taking a long time to respond (days, a week)
One single message to respond to your messages
Her responses to your texts are one word
Her grammar is terrible
She does not capitalize your name
Here’s what to do, depending on if she’s signalling interest or disinterest…
How to Respond if the Girl is Showing You Interest Through Her Texts
If the girl is showing interest through her texts, you MUST be cool.
You must be chill and NOT match her level of enthusiasm.
Calmly steer the texting conversation towards your goal, which is MEETING IN PERSON.
Matching her interest is needy. Don’t do it!
How to Respond if the Girl is Showing You Disinterest Through Her Texts
If a girl is showing disinterest through her texts, you respond by showing EVEN MORE disinterest in hers.
Simply do all the things in the list of disinterested texts. She’ll get the message.
The only thing you can’t do is screw up your grammar. Your grammar must always be impeccable in your texts.
If she takes a week to respond to a text, I take two weeks.
If she replies with a short sentence, I reply with an even shorter sentence.
The key is that you want to subcommunicate not giving a shit.
You should also couple this with instantly pursuing other women.
A girl that is showing you disinterest isn’t worth your time anyway, but through the subcommunication of not giving a damn, you might make her want to chase you.
This means you leave the girl who’s being a dick to you on read.
Sweet, sweet revenge.
If a girl texts you something you really don’t like, leave her on read for a minimum of two weeks.
She’ll sort herself out usually. Women know when they’re being dicks.
Conclusion
There are several ways you can meet women and you need to change up the texts depending on how you met the girl.
As an alpha, you don’t have time to text all day and so you want to get to a meet as soon as possible.
A woman’s texts actually contain a lot of information, if you look at the context of how the messages are being sent.
Use these strategies and get dates!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
She’s Triple Texting Me, Is That A Good Sign?
Oh yeah! She must really like you!
Why is She Not Replying to My Texts?
She’s either super busy, or doesn’t like you all that much. Either way, pursue other women. Show even more disinterest in her if you want to get her to chase you.
I Really Like Her and She’s Not Like the Rest, Can I Text Her Every Day?
If you want her to see you as a beta and start denying you sex within three weeks then yes!
What Do I Text Online, No-One is Responding?
You’re probably just texting “hey”. Try something like: “You seem cool 🙂 You should text me! -*Your Name*”. That may work better!
If you’re still getting nothing you need better pictures. See my guide on how to get a FWB online.
This Girl is Super Into Me and I’m Super Into Her, Can I Have a Text Conversation?
You’re free to do what you want but that doesn’t mean it will get you laid. You want her to excitedly think about you when you’re not around. It’s hard to do that when you’re distracting her with your real self.
Distract her with your real self in person and you may just get laid.
Of course, this leads to several societal ills, all of which are reflected in our lived experiences today.
On reading this, you’ll recognize several things that I’m sure you’ve seen on the news or in other places.
Off we go…
Societal Decline
Obviously society is collapsing.
This is reflected in the prices of everything going up.
It is also coupled with the inability of most youths to buy a house, and being forced to rent.
Most people do not make enough money to have children unless they combine the incomes of two professionals (and we all know how that goes for men).
The prices are going up while everything is in stagnation or decline (roads, job salaries, government effectiveness).
Governments have dealt poorly with the pandemic, and so many small businesses have simply failed, leading to many people becoming destitute.
Big corporations are becoming so powerful they can effectively control the government, leading to a corporatist oligarchy, rather than a democracy, or republic, as is claimed.
Even above-average people are forced to work for corporations who treat them like cattle and effectively farm them for money.
The Race to the Bottom
People compete for positions in the social hierarchy in the collapsing west, without a care for the implications.
It is not enviable to be in a position of power in a place that is on the decline.
Power is related to your location, oftentimes, and being unable to relocate when you’re on a sinking ship does not bode well.
Many people are going to stay in the collapsing west and experience all the ills that come with that while being forced to stay, as their attractiveness is situational, and based on their placement in the country that they’re currently in.
Effectively, this locks people into a race to the bottom as people vie for positions that are quickly becoming worse and worse.
Crabs in a Bucket
The NPCs in the collapsing west still will want to believe that their countries are good.
As more people start to awaken to the state of things, most NPCs will try to convince everyone around that things are fine.
They will effectively try to pull the other crabs back into the bucket.
This will prevent a lot of otherwise intelligent people from making the decision to leave.
The crabs in the bucket will prolong the suffering of many through propagating the brainwashing necessary to remain in a “sinking ship” country.
Adoption of More Extreme Ideologies
As the west falls more and more into a state of decay, political instability will lead to the adoption of more extreme ideologies.
We need look no further than Germany after WW1 to see a past example of this.
God help us if such a situation were to happen again.
We can already see this trend in the way that politics is becoming more extreme (the right go further right, and the left go further left).
It may just devolve into communism vs. fascism again.
A terrifying idea.
Weak Men Create Hard Times
Let me restate an old adage:
“Weak men create hard times, hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men.”
And the cycle repeats.
We are currently in the “weak men create hard times” phase.
After WW2, the west experienced a golden age, lasting for around 100 years.
In this time, we have become decadent and complacent in our thoughts.
This has allowed cancerous ideologies to spread and weaken men, turning most in NPCs.
NPCs spread the message that everything is fine and all is going well.
This hastens the collapse and decline of the west, which we are experiencing now.
Expect the next 50 years to be “interesting(hard) times”.
The Focus on Surface Level Things
Since society is collapsing, it now encourages surface level desires and accomplishments.
This has led to the pedestalization of the following three things:
Money
Status
Looks
I hope you can see the parallel between this and what women are attracted to.
Did you notice that women exactly find attractive the things that culture says to focus on?
That is NOT a coincidence.
Culture favours women and their perspective currently.
Are you surprised that it turned out this way?
Let me suggest a different set of things to pedestalize:
Strength
Knowledge
Wisdom
If our society favoured those things instead of the three above, I believe we would not be in a decline currently.
But I digress…
Destruction of the Nuclear Family
Because the corporatist oligarchy that currently rules the west needs more people to sell to, they’ve decided it’s time to collapse the nuclear family (which was also an invention of the west, by the way. Before that, we had communal living, where extended families lived together.).
Encouraging divorce (it has a long-term rate of 80%-ish currently), makes it so that there are many more households to sell to.
This means a MUCH greater marketplace to sell to.
Of course, the collapse of the traditional family also leads to the creation of a HUGE population of NPCs, but obviously, that is also a benefit.
NPCs, you see, are extremely easy to manipulate, and thus, sell to.
For the corporatist oligarchy, the destruction of the nuclear family is a win-win!
Of course, it has led to the slow decline and collapse of the west, but those people don’t care, as they can simply move to a different country once they’ve drained the marrow of the west.
Death of Religion
Whereas before we had religion as a form of control, now, we have propaganda in the form of commercials and paid news.
The corporatist oligarchy simply pays the news stations to say what they need to say in order for people to continue to be mindless consumers.
NPCs blindly listen, and the intelligent people are so outnumbered that it is irrelevant that they know the truth.
Religion has also been corrupted to be a neo-feminist institution, made to teach men to worship women.
Worship of Women
It is noteworthy that the original religions were those of fertility.
We have returned to that point.
Modern christian religions in the west now are effectively fertility religions by a different name.
They are feminist to the core in their promotion of female-centric life strategies and goals for men.
Religion nowadays effectively teaches men to live life the way that absolutely favours women (traditional relationships and marriage) and if men don’t live that way, they are considered a sinner and will burn in hell.
Of course, this is sheer stupidity, but it doesn’t stop old school people, who remember the way that it used to be, from blindly following.
Unfortunately, despite the best of intentions from conservative religious types, religion has been co-opted by our corporatist oligarchical culture into a man brainwashing factory.
It favours marriage (and divorce!).
Enjoying the Decline
The point of all this is to show you that life is not full of butterflies and rainbows in the west.
A smart man might think to establish some businesses that provide money in a fashion that doesn’t require them to remain living in the west.
A smart man might also think to relocate to another country or area of the world that is on the rise, rather than on the decline.
You can enjoy the decline by educating yourself on the way that the world really works.
With this knowledge, you can play the game to your advantage and not to that of the corporatist oligarchs who seek to control you and have you be their divorce factory for their own monetary gains.
Conclusion
The west is in decline.
People will suffer as a result.
The next 50 years will likely make for some interesting times.
Be careful what decisions you make, as the world may change from under you.
Enjoy the decline!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
What If I Just Want to Live A Quiet Life?
You can, but not here.
Things are about to get real crazy, real soon in the west.
Are There Really No Life Paths That Are Perfect for a Man?
In my opinion being a free deviant is perfect.
Your parents and your beta friends won’t approve though.
What If I Want the Wife and 1.5 Kids With the White Picket Fence?
Then you have been brainwashed, young man.
That is what women want.
Go your own way or get divorced and become destitute.
Staying in the West in the long term is a fool’s errand.
If I Just Focus On my Money, Status and Looks I’ll Be Happy Right?
You’ll have everything that women want in a man.
You will have missed the entire point of this article however.
Just because it is what women want does not mean that you have to do it, or even that it will make you happy.
Our society is collapsing because we are doing what women want at the expense of everything else.
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