Long Term Goals of Men vs Women

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Our modern society teaches us that men and women are the same.

What naturally follows is that men and women have the same goals in life.

The problem with this culturally marxist idea is that it is patently false.

Men and women are NOT the same and DO NOT have the same goals.

It is a LIE that men and women are the same, and it simply serves to reinforce the mental prison beta men exist in.

Let’s talk a bit about how the long term goals of men and women differ.

Off we go…

Men and Women Are Different

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Men and women are different.

Both their biology AND their psychology is different.

That we are taught in school that men and women are the same doesn’t make it true.

Of course, both men and women have VALUE, but they are DIFFERENT to each other.

As a result of their differences, men and women desire different things from life on a deep level.

Our modern society encourages men to sacrifice themselves in order to better facilitate the long term goals of WOMEN.

This is a result of the MATRIARCHY (the feminine primary society we find ourselves in today).

What Do Men Strive For, Ultimately?

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Men DO NOT strive for the same thing as women.

If you boil it down, what men strive for is FREEDOM.

Men want to be free from their burden of performance, and from the toils of life.

They want to relax, knowing that they achieved this freedom for themselves.

Why Do Men Seek Freedom?

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Men seek freedom because men are born with NO INHERENT VALUE.

This means that all men have to work in order to be worth more than nothing.

Since men are biologically replaceable, they do not have any value from birth.

As a result of this, they have to perform.

Practically everything a man receives in his life has something to do with his ability to perform or DO something.

Men are NOT rewarded for who they are, but for what they DO.

Men seek freedom in order to feel as though they have overcome this system.

What Do Women Strive For, Ultimately?

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As I have said before, men and women are different.

Unlike men, women have INHERENT VALUE.

Women, with very few men, could repopulate the earth in the case of an emergency.

As a result, without doing anything, women have value.

Since women have inherent value, they do not strive to break free from the system that they are in.

Instead, they seek to stabilize it.

Women seek stability!

Why Do They Strive For Stability?

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Women strive for stability so that they can maintain the status quo of them having inherent value.

Stability also lends itself very well to raising children, who are the future of the human race.

In light of that, it is pretty clear what a matriarchy would encourage.

A matriarchy would encourage a system that is as stable as possible FOR WOMEN.

This system would maximize reproductive opportunity, while minimizing risk.

Thus, we get the modern matriarchy’s strategy for men:

Raise all men to be beta slaves who facilitate stability, and fuck all the men who rise above their mental prison (the good genetic stock).

Whose Strategy Does the Modern World Facilitate?

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The modern world facilitates WOMEN’S strategy.

It maximizes the long term stability for women while also giving them maximum mating opportunities with the best men.

The best men are determined through natural selection.

The selective pressure for this process of natural selection is men’s upbringing.

Men are brought up to be servile slave boys, effectively (betas).

Only those men who refuse to bend are seen as good genetic stock.

We thus get 20% of the men (the alphas) getting 80% of female attention.

Beta Slaves

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80% of men are beta slaves, raised simply to facilitate the long term stability of women.

In actual fact, ALL MEN are raised to be beta slaves, but 20%, as a result of their inherent biology and possibly their intelligence are able to see past the mental prison and break free.

A freed slave is an alpha who gets reproductive access to practically all women.

Beta slaves are not considered “real men” by women and are only given as much sex as is necessary to keep them providing resources.

Often, no sex is given at all, only the chance at future sex.

Wake Up And Be Free

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It is your job to wake up and be free.

If you live life on autopilot, you will simply grow up to be a facilitator of women’s long term goals.

You will never be free of your burden of performance.

You will always have to work in order to facilitate the primacy of those who raised you.

Without knowing the truth, you will be a permanent slave.

Conclusion

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Men and women have different long term goals.

Men seek freedom and women seek stability.

Our modern world facilitates WOMEN’s long term goals and thus we live in a MATRIARCHY.

Only by breaking free of the mental prison you have been raised in can you be truly free.

The choice is yours!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Are Men and Women the Same?

NO!

They are biologically and psychologically different!

They also have different long term goals.

By following society’s script, you facilitate a female-primary reality (the matriarchy).

What is an Alpha Male?

A man who breaks free of the mental prison put on him by society.

He acts in his own best interest rather than in the best interest of women.

He has passed the natural selection test that is his upbringing.

Why Do Men Seek Freedom?

Since men have no inherent value, they are always required to perform.

Men seek, as a long term goal, an escape from their burden of performance.

Thus, they seek freedom.

Why Do Women Seek Stability?

They seek stability because they have inherent value.

Women seek to maintain the status quo and to raise children.

Both of these are facilitated by resources and stability.

As a result of this, all men are raised to be servile followers of a feminine primary order, which guarantees stability (and also maximizes breeding opportunities) for women.

Having the Power to Rebuild Yourself

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Our modern world is in a time of transition.

It is necessary to change with the times or be swept by them.

I’m going to talk today about why rebuilding yourself is so important in the modern world.

Here we go…

The Modern World

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The modern world cares barely at all for the modern man.

There are pitfalls everywhere, set by the feminine imperative.

They set these traps in order to control you and direct your destiny for their own benefit.

There is misinformation everywhere, aimed at confusing you.

The misinformation dark age is there to prevent you from accessing the truth.

You are to believe falsehoods so that you can walk a false road and serve a false master.

It is your decision whether you change yourself or allow yourself to be destroyed by the modern tidal wave.

Trial By Fire

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Ultimately, the life of a man is a trial by fire.

You win, or you die, destroyed by your own decisions.

Life is going to set many challenges in front of you, many of them masked as “milestones”.

If you meet the milestones life has set for you, without questioning why these are supposed milestones, you’re going to have a bad time.

Life has set a path before you to follow (the traditional life path) that favours women.

It is set up so that you can sacrifice yourself for their benefit.

If you follow this path unwittingly, you will be sacrificed and your name will be forgotten.

You will end up in the pages of history as just another man who was chewed up and spit out by the matriarchy.

Your trial by fire is waking up to see reality.

Betas and Slavery

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Betas live a life of slavery.

From a young age, they have been raised to be good servile boys for women.

They are raised for failure, that natural selection may take its course and select the best of them for reproduction.

The rest are used and abused to facilitate a feminine primary reality.

Only the men that see the mental prison for what it is can truly break away from it.

You make that choice for yourself.

Beta slave, or alpha brave.

Understand the Truth and Rebuild

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Once you understand the truth of the cage you have been raised to live in, you cannot go back.

You begin to understand that life did not have your best interest in mind from the beginning, and the things you were doing were valueless except as they related to your sacrifice for women.

You learn that you were a lamb bred for slaughter.

It is then time to rebuild.

With the understanding of how the world really works under your belt, you need to work to transform that sheep into a wolf.

Do not allow the world to steamroll you.

Change your paradigm and shift your world to be in your favour.

It’s Not Over Until You Win

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Ultimately, the reforging of your personality will not happen overnight.

As the saying goes, Rome wasn’t built in a day.

You need to persevere until victory is in your grasp.

The power to succeed lies within you, if only you were strong enough to grab hold of it.

You are in fact the hero in your story, you were just too afraid to let yourself be.

Fight For Yourself, No-one Else Will

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Ultimately, it’s your job to fight for yourself.

I can give you knowledge, but I cannot give you the iron will needed to stand strong against the tide of society that wants you to bend to its will.

You need to stand apart and stand fierce.

A man stands up for himself and fights for what he believes in.

A man does not allow himself to be a lamb, raised to be killed, having accomplished nothing.

You’re worth more than that.

The Strength to Stand Apart

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Have the strength to stand on your own two legs.

You will never be happy living the life that was prescribed to you.

Betas live lives of quiet desperation.

I’m sure you know that, and the splinter in your reality is what made you seek out my writing.

Stand strong, stand apart, and you will be rewarded with what men truly want.

Freedom.

Alphas are Made, Not Born

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It is a lie that alphas are born.

Alphas are MADE.

To be alpha is a choice.

Rather than meekly submit to the will of those around you, you choose to stand strong.

Rather than surrender, you choose to fight.

Rather than obey, you choose to think for yourself.

You allow yourself to be strong and independent.

When you live on the edge of your fear, you are alpha.

Conclusion

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You must have the power to rebuild yourself.

The world is set up to freely allow your sacrifice, but you must not let the false teachings of modern society destroy you.

The clever traps set up in front of you are just webs designed to allow the matriarchy to drain your masculine essence for its benefit.

You are worth more than that, and should fight to stand independent of what society has deemed is the “right” thing to do.

When the “right” thing to do is to burn yourself at the stake, no options remain but doing the “wrong” thing.

Stand strong, independent and free!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What Does the Modern World Want From Men?

Sacrifice without reward.

They want the utter destruction of masculinity for the benefit of femininity.

They want alphas to struggle and break free of their chains in order to breed with the modern amazons.

The modern world does NOT have the best interests of men at heart.

Who Are the Most Attractive Men?

Men who fight against their mental prison are the most attractive.

Men who refuse to bend to the will of the matriarchy are alpha.

They receive true love, attention and affection from women.

What Is the Average Man In Our Society?

A beta/slave/NPC.

A useful idiot, whose masculine essence is used to fuel the matriarchy’s goals.

In many ways, they are not men at all, but dogs trained to jump for women.

I’m a Beta, Am I Doomed?

If you continue down your current path, yes.

Alpha is a choice, luckily for you.

Once you decide to cast off your chains, the mental prison can do nothing to stop you.

You will experience true freedom for the first time.

Women Want Archetypal Men

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Stories are powerful things.

In many ways, they are more real than reality.

They concentrate the innate truths of the world into an easily recognizable form and present it to us.

I’m going to talk about how women are not looking for any real man, but an archetypal man (like one from a story).

Let’s get on with it, shall we?

What is an Archetypal Man?

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An archetypal man is a man that represents the “stereotypical” qualities of an alpha, but in super form.

They are present in stories and serve as role models for us real men to aspire to.

Here is a short list of archetypal men (to illustrate the point):

  1. Superman
  2. Thor
  3. Hercules
  4. Gilgamesh
  5. Batman
  6. Achilles, etc.

All of these men are not real, but they are definitely alpha, and also alpha in different ways.

I believe that women are not interested in real men, but in archetypal men like these.

Archetypal Men in Pop Culture

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There are many archetypal men in pop culture that women are extremely attracted to.

Let me list a few:

  1. Hannibal Lector – Hannibal
  2. Jax Teller – Sons of Anarchy
  3. Ragnar Lothbrook – Vikings
  4. Batman 
  5. Iron man
  6. Thor
  7. Khal Drogo – Game of Thrones
  8. Negan – The Walking Dead
  9. James Bond
  10. Achilles – Troy

No person in real life is as smooth, scripted, cool or evil as any of these characters.

No person in real life is as attractive as any of these characters either.

Women want men like in the stories, not real men.

No Real Archetypal Man Exists

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There is NO REAL ARCHETYPAL man.

No man is ever able to achieve what Thor can in the movies, for example.

There are many men who are very attractive and give the impression of a man LIKE Thor, but they AREN’T HIM.

It is interesting to note that the ancient Greeks spoke of this.

They said that in attempting to be like the gods, men worshipped them (in terms of their bodies, effort, attitudes, etc.).

Women want men who are best able to embody one (or more) of the qualities of archetypal men.

The Most Attractive Men Are Those That Are Best At Maintaining Illusion

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I believe that the most attractive men in the world are those that are best at maintaining the illusion that they are an archetypal man.

They have such frame that they neve dissuade a girl from the notion that she is with an archetypal man.

Thus, actors are incredibly attractive, if they direct their acting ability properly.

What this means for you, is that you should attempt to embody the qualities of one (or more) archetypal men and NEVER perform actions that dissuade women from the notion that you are one of these men.

You can then gain the benefits that an archetypal man gets without actually being an archetypal man in reality (something that no man is ACTUALLY capable of achieving).

What Kind of Sex Does An Archetypal Man Get?

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Of course, an archetypal man gets the most amazing sex in the world.

They are able to actually satisfy a woman’s hypergamous urge (temporarily) to be with a superhuman.

No man is truly an archetypal one, but some are able to convincingly create the illusion and temporarily access this crazy sex.

Obviously, also due to hypergamy, all relationships are time limited, but a man that is capable of projecting the illusion of an archetypal man can temporarily access the benefits.

Once hypergamy realizes that you aren’t the archetypal man, it moves on to a new target, one who might be.

This is also the reason why familiarity breeds contempt.

As a girl learns more about you, she realizes you aren’t Achilles, and looks to find him elsewhere (even though Achilles can’t ever truly be found)

How To Maintain the Illusion

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The way to maintain the illusion is through aloofness and mystery.

Rather than giving away all of the things you are capable of, hold back.

Reveal all your talents in a trickle rather than a torrent.

Don’t text her except for logistics.

Don’t talk excessively.

Give her mind as much room to fantasize as you can.

This will allow her to maintain the illusion for you.

What Betas Do Instead of Maintaining Illusion

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Rather than maintain the illusion of the archetypal man, the beta will give away all of his time, attention, affection and abilities immediately.

The woman quickly realizes who she’s dealing with (someone who isn’t Gilgamesh) and she quickly grows tired of him, as she realizes that she could have settled for Gilgamesh but got this imperfect human instead.

She then moves on to a man who is better at maintaining the illusion that he is Gilgamesh (an alpha).

The mental is much more important than the real for women.

Keep that in mind.

Why All Relationships Are Temporary

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The real reason why all relationships are temporary (especially LTRs and marriages) is because women get to know EVERYTHING about their partner.

They initially thought the man they were with was Khal Drogo.

As they learned more about him, they realized that he wasn’t as impervious as they thought.

He quickly became a man, and not the archetype

She’ll say something like “I used to fear men like you”.

She’ll then go looking for a superior man, one who is better at maintaining the illusion that they are Khal Drogo.

Relationships are temporary BECAUSE of hypergamy, which determines very quickly in LTR/marriages that any partner is not superhuman, but a man with weaknesses.

Hypergamy then goes looking for a man without weaknesses, on a never ending quest to find a perfect man who doesn’t exist.

Conclusion

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Women are not interested in men at all, but male archetypes.

They want a superhuman.

Hypergamy is endlessly dissatisfied by a regular man and seeks a super man.

Alpha men are simply those who are better at maintaining the illusion that they are archetypal.

All relationships are temporary because no man is perfect and his perfect archetypal image is bound to crack with time.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What Is An Archetypal Man?

A superhuman from stories.

These are the men women are actually looking for with their hypergamy.

Here is a list of examples:

  1. Hannibal Lector – Hannibal
  2. Jax Teller – Sons of Anarchy
  3. Ragnar Lothbrook – Vikings
  4. Batman 
  5. Iron man
  6. Thor
  7. Khal Drogo – Game of Thrones
  8. Negan – The Walking Dead
  9. James Bond
  10. Achilles – Troy

There is NOT ONE man on this Earth who is an archetypal man, and thus hypergamy is never satisfied.

Who Are the Most Attractive Men?

Men who are best at maintaining the illusion that they are an archetypal man are the most attractive.

This also means that relationships are doomed to end as the truth is discovered (he wasn’t Thor after all? Damn!).

Which Men Get the Best Sex?

Men who temporarily satisfy women’s hypergamous urge (by embodying an archetypal man) are those who get the best sex.

Women temporarily believe that they are with a superhuman, and thus their hypergamy is temporarily satisfied.

This sex is bound to end when she realizes that he wasn’t a superhuman after all, but a regular man with weaknesses.

How Do Betas Relate to All of This?

Betas basically instantly roll and show their weaknesses and all of their abilities.

As a result, women get an instant hypergamous assessment that tells them that this man is not superhuman.

As a result, women NEVER experience attraction for these men.

They simply can’t, as he’s a human, not a god!

The Sex Cartel

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Here is an interesting concept I’m sure you haven’t heard of before.

I’m going to talk today about the sex cartel and the price fixing of sex (for betas).

The sex cartel is something that the matriarchy uses to hold power over most men.

Let’s dive in, shall we?

The Matriarchy

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Before we talk about any sex cartel, we have to understand the matriarchy.

The matriarchy refers to the women who rule over us.

The matriarchy is our parents, pop culture, our teachers, etc.

They all teach us that women are to be treated as above men.

Women are not to be criticised and are to be listened to, especially when it comes to relationships.

Of course, this applies to sex as well.

Betas and Sex

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Men who listen to the matriarchy and its rules are betas (80% of the male population).

These betas do exactly what society/their mom and beta dad/their teachers tell them when it comes to relationships.

Thus, betas only get sex by following the matriarchy’s rules.

These rules basically fix what price sex has.

Betas have no idea that a market exists for people who are superior to betas and they even scorn that such a thing could exist.

The average price for sex is determined by womankind as a whole.

This is the sex cartel.

Why Does the Sex Cartel Exist?

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The sex cartel exists for the purpose of harnessing beta male sex drive for the good of the matriarchy.

Basically, by following the sex cartel’s rules, beta men become more and more servile in exchange for sex, which DECREASES in freqency over time.

As a result of the sex cartel, the matriarchy has a pool of willing slaves following its orders, who will do anything in exchange for very little sex, or sometimes no sex at all.

This allows the matriarchy to wield incredible power, both culturally (through controlling the primary narrative of society) and through laws (which are passed to favour women and “disenfranchised” people more and more at the expense of beta men).

How Much Do Betas Have to Pay For Sex?

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Basically, betas have to pay the price of entering an LTR (long term relationship) in order to have sex.

The price of an LTR increases over time.

What is the cost of an LTR?

Here is a list of requirements betas have to meet in order to be considered for sex:

  1. Good paying job
  2. Servile
  3. Good listener
  4. Emotionally available
  5. Puts women above his own needs
  6. Puts children above his own needs
  7. Cooks
  8. Cleans

All of these requirements are NOT things that lead to women being TRULY attracted to a man.

A man who meets these requirements and gets into an LTR will be receiving TRANSACTIONAL sex.

Basically, women are paying with sex in order to have stability, and once that stability is secured in a marriage, the facade of attraction to the beta/slave/NPC is no longer needed.

Beta/slaves/NPCs pay extremely high prices for sex due to the sex cartel.

How Much Do Alphas Have to Pay For Sex?

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Alphas, who are playing a completely different game, don’t have to pay practically anything for sex.

They have sex on tap, and it is NOT transactional.

Women fuck men they consider to be alpha just for the pure enjoyment and validation of knowing that they have the opportunity to be with an alpha man.

It is quite different, the sex that alphas and betas recieve.

Because the betas pay such a high price for sex, alphas can afford to pay nothing.

Effectively, women are subsidizing alphas through their behaviour.

They are enabling alphas to have open season, using beta time, attention and affection.

This is why in a previous article, I talked about how it is a much better investment of time working to break into the top 20% than it is to compete with the bottom 80%.

Transactional Sex vs Validational Sex

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Women have transactional sex with betas (basically prostitution, which they hate) and validational sex with alphas (a thoroughly enjoyable experience).

Men should aim to break into the bracket of men that receive validational sex.

Not only is it more enjoyable, you have to pay much less for it.

This means that once you’re in the top 20%, the effort a beta would expend in order to have sex can be directed towards other things.

This is also one of the reasons why alphas seem to be good at so many things, they are not burdened by working so hard to please their partner at their own expense.

The Bottom 80% of Men Hold Up the Top 20%

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As I have mentioned before, the bottom 80% of men (betas) basically subsidize the top 20% (alphas).

Beta men have to put in a ton of time, attention and effort into a relationship in order to have sex (at their own tremendous expense) whereas alphas barely have to put any effort at all.

You should aim to break into the top 20% and experience the benefits of being independent and not needing to put in so much effort into your women.

Consequences of the Sex Cartel

As a result of the sex cartel, most men live lives of quiet desperatio, being butlers to women.

They serve women at their own expense and receive barely any sex.

It is extremely unfair to betas, the way things are currently, but that is how they have been for a long time.

You’re MUCH better off as an alpha than a beta.

Conclusion

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The sex cartel exists in order to control the male population through its sex drive for the benefit of the matriarchy.

The sex cartel effectively subsidizes the top 20% of men by making the bottom 80% servile and weak.

You are much better served as an alpha than as a beta, since you don’t have to work nearly as hard once you’ve reached that point.

Strive for greatness and reap the benefits!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

You’re A Conspiracy Theory Nutjob! There is No Matriarchy and They’re Not Trying to Control Men!

Who are you not allowed to criticise?

Who has unilateral control over pregnancy?

These things are NOT a coincidence, you just think they are.

The reason 80% of men are miserable betas is because of the matriarchy.

You’ve been warned.

Why Does My Girl Barely Put Out? I Do So Much for Her!

Women don’t fuck butlers.

The sex you are recieving is the bare minimum the matriarchy has determined will do in order to keep you as her slave.

You are subsidizing all the alphas through your behaviour.

Congrats.

How about you don’t enter into a shitty LTR and instead be non-monogamous?

You’ll be free and live much better.

Why Does the Sex Cartel Exist?

It exists to control beta behaviour through their sex drive.

Betas are basically directed to maintain the feminine primary social order through their sex drive.

Insidious, I know.

What Behaviour Should I Avoid if I Want to Be Alpha?

Good question.

Here’s a list:

  1. Good paying job
  2. Servile
  3. Good listener
  4. Emotionally available
  5. Puts women above his own needs
  6. Puts children above his own needs
  7. Cooks for women
  8. Cleans for women

You’re not a butler, you’re a man! 

Act like one!

Why There Is No Hormonal Male Birth Control

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I’m sure many men have asked this question.

We have had fully functional hormonal female birth control since the 1960s.

We still to this day only have condoms for men.

Let’s talk a little bit about why that is…

The Matriarchy

Pretty much, the reason there is no hormonal male birth control is because of the matriarchy.

The matriarchy is insistent on maintaining its power, and a big way that they do that is through the control of pregnancy.

In our modern world, if a woman does not want to have a man’s child, she does not have to, even if the man does want to.

This means that women hold serious power over men.

Women hold the power to determine if a man has a child or not.

Often, having a child is coupled with other necessary supplicationary behaviours from men which were not needed in a pre birth control era.

Female Birth Control

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The current options for female birth control are extremely varied.

Women can prevent pregnancy altogether though a variety of methods, hormonal or otherwise.

Since 1960, women have had access to the ability to say no to having children, whereas men cannot do the same.

If a man cums inside a woman, there is no way to prevent the pregnancy from his end at that point.

This means that men need to be extremely careful every time they have sex.

Who Chooses Whether A Baby Is Had or Not?

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As I have mentioned above, women unilaterally choose whether a baby is had once pregnancy occurs.

This means that men have no control past the point of pregnancy.

Of course, they have some control pre-pregnancy, but things go wrong with condoms all the time!

Without hormonal birth control of their own, men are left with condoms as their only option (of course, a man can have a vasectomy, but that is risky and difficult to reverse, unlike female hormonal birth control).

Some men rely on women to have birth control for them, but this allows the woman to determine if she wants to get pregnant or not (she can discontinue use of the birth control without telling the man).

This is quite different from the way it used to work.

The Way It Used to Work

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Before women had birth control, sex with a man always carried the risk of pregnancy, something the woman could not terminate on command.

Before, women had to be much more judicious in their choice of partner.

This meant that getting laid was much harder for men, but also that women didn’t burn out their ability to pair bond as often.

This led to generally more stable relationships (but also much more sexlesness for alpha men).

Life After 1960

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After 1960, birth control allowed women to explore their hypergamous nature much more.

It allowed women to pursue sex with alpha men without restraint, practically.

The trend continues to this day.

Basically, since women were free to explore their sexual options and they gained the ability to vote, they began to vote in order for the rules to be in their favour.

They then voted to keep the status quo, which favoured them.

The status quo I’m referring to is the unilateral control over pregnancy through the use of hormones, etc.

Consolidation of Power

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Once female primacy was consolidated, there was no need for men to have the ability to control when birth happened.

Beta men also don’t think about the sexual options of men, and so men who were raised to follow what women wanted had no incentive to research or develop a way for men to unilaterally decide if they wanted to get a girl pregnant (aside from the rudimentary condom).

Basically, men having little control over birth is a demonstration of the modern matriarchy.

It is simply not something that men should have access to, since the matriarchy believes that women should have unilateral control over the process.

Baby Trap

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With men only having access to condoms, it is easy to baby trap a man (and force him to pay for the child).

All it requires is for the man to not be careful, and he can “accidentally” get a girl pregnant.

From that point, the girl has all the control in the relationship and over the fate of the child.

Remember, there is no current hormonal male birth control.

What Would Happen If Men Had Hormonal Birth Control?

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If men had hormonal birth control, they would be able to decide if they wanted to have a child or not, and the woman would have no idea.

He could cum inside her without a condom and be 100% certain that he wouldn’t get her pregnant.

This would make sex for men much safer, as they could guarantee their future.

With a condom, it is not 100% effective at preventing pregnancy, as it can be misused.

If men had hormonal birth control, women would have to convince them to give them a child, as he could always be on birth control, preventing it.

It would put men and women back at sexual parity, something that does not currently exist in the modern world.

Conclusion

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The reason male hormonal birth control exists is because the matriarchy doesn’t want it.

They want women to have unilateral control over pregnancy so that women have a lever of control over men at all times.

Reversible hormonal male birth control would give men agency over pregnancy and give them some sexual agency that they do not currently have.

An appearance of hormonal male birth control would begin to even the playing field, something that has been uneven for the past half century!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

You’re A Conspiracy Theory Nutjob! There is No Matriarchy and They’re Not Trying to Control Men!

Who are you not allowed to criticise?

Who has unilateral control over pregnancy?

These things are NOT a coincidence, you just think they are.

The reason 80% of men are miserable betas is because of the matriarchy.

You’ve been warned.

Why Do Girls Get “The Pill” and I Only Get Condoms?

Betas freed women from worry about pregnancy but didn’t give a shit about providing men with the same luxury.

Once women gained unilateral control over pregnancy, and the power that comes with that, they never let it go.

If I Want A Baby With A Girl, Who Decides Whether We Have One?

Due to the options available to women (and not to men), she decides.

You have no agency once a pregnancy has started!

You barely have any agency before a pregnancy (other than condoms).

What is Baby Trapping?

When a girl gets pregnant on purpose and chooses to keep it even though the man doesn’t want to.

The laws state that men have to take care of the kid whether they want it or not.

Of course, if a woman gets pregnant and doesn’t want the kid, she can always get an abortion, even if the man doesn’t want her to.

If a man doesn’t want kids now, but might want them later, there is no hormonal birth control for men that allows them to do that.

Men just have to use condoms.

For women, there are MANY options if that is what they want.

If She’s Pissing You Off, Withdraw Attention

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Today, I’m going to talk about an extremely important concept.

We’re going to talk about how you should respond to the inevitable disrespect you’re going to experience from women.

People acting in ways that piss you off is inevitable.

You need to have a plan in mind for when these things happen, so that you are not put on your back foot!

Here we go!

Shit Tests

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A shit test is when a woman is trying to determine if you’re an alpha badass or not.

She will push on your frame in order to see if you bend.

If you do, you’re done.

If you pass, she will see you as an alpha and her attraction for you will spike.

What I’m talking about today is not shit tests.

What I’m talking about today is disrespect.

Disrespect

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Disrespect is any behaviour that you find to be absolutely intolerable.

It is behaviour that makes you cringe internally, or actively pisses you off.

This behaviour is behaviour that must be eliminated if you are to have any kind of enjoyable relationship with a girl.

To disrespectful behaviour, I recommend a withdrawal of attention.

What qualifies as disrespectful behaviour?

Here’s a list:

1)  Refusing sex

2)  Ordering me to do things

3)  Gold-digger behaviours

4)  Direct insults to my character or to other women of mine

5)  Crying at me

6)  Nagging/criticizing my behaviour

If a girl shows me any of the above behaviour, I immediately without argument or explosion withdraw attention.

I tell the girl that it’s time for her to leave, and then I say nothing.

For a week, I cut her off from all contact.

No texts or responses to texts or calls.

She will get the message that what she did is not ok.

Alpha vs Beta Behaviour In Response to Disrespect

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Alphas and betas have very different reactions to disrespect.

Betas will often capitulate when their frame is pushed on.

Alphas usually don’t allow their frame to be pushed on.

If you are the kind of man that likes to argue, I’d like to point out that explosion and anger IS attention.

You do NOT want to give a girl attention in response to her disrespecting you.

It is MUCH more effective to ignore and show disdain than it is to explode in anger and try to correct behaviour.

When you try and correct behaviour and explode in anger, you communicate that you care.

Showing her you care is antithetical to the message you’re trying to send, that you won’t tolerate disrespect.

Make sure that you are demonstrating alpha aloofness and not beta caring.

Operant Conditioning

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Operant conditioning states that in order to get behaviour you want, you reward behaviour you want to see, and you punish behaviour you don’t want to see.

You can reward by giving the girl something she wants, or taking away something she doesn’t want.

You can punish by giving the girl something she doesn’t want, or taking away something she wants.

I recommend you reward through giving attention (giving her something she wants), and punish by taking away attention (taking away something she wants).

In this way, no money or anger has to be spent needlessly.

Many men see spending money on a girl as a way of rewarding behaviour.

They will buy her nice things and expect her to reciprocate.

By buying a woman nice things, especially early on in your interactions, you are demonstrating beta behaviours.

As a result, her attraction for you will dramatically decrease.

Attention is much more valuable (and cheaper).

Important note: Some women see anger and behaviour correction as ATTENTION, which they LOVE. This means that even though you think you are punishing her when you yell at her, you are actually rewarding her. No woman likes it when you withdraw attention, however. That is why I recommend you use that method.

Attention is the Most Valuable Resource You Have

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The thing women want most from you is attention.

It is your most valuable reward and your harshest punishment.

Do not give attention for free!

Only reward attention for behaviour that you want to see.

Take away attention when you’re not seeing behaviour you want.

This is why it is so important for you not to text willy-nilly.

It rewards the girl for just talking to you, something that is not important for men.

Your attention should be focused on other things, and only turned to her when she is giving you what you want (pleasant behaviour and sex, in person).

Why Withdrawing Attention is Effective

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Withdrawing attention is effective because the girl knows that she may lose you.

After the first time you have shown her that you are willing to withdraw attention, she will second-guess all of her disrespectful moves, wondering if she might lose you over them.

She then constantly second guesses and questions herself about whether her actions will be met by your approval or not.

When she is constantly trying to win your approval it is amazing for you.

It means you don’t have to work in order for her to want to stay with you.

When you do withdraw attention, she has time to think and think about what she did wrong.

Her fantasy might also go into overdrive as she imagines you being with other women, and her losing her place.

You put the onus on her to chase you.

Obviously, the frame of her chasing you is very powerful.

The Person Who Wins the Relationship Game is the One Who Cares the Least

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When you withdraw attention, you also show her you don’t give a damn whether she stays with you or leaves.

You communicate that she’s below you.

You also signal that you have other options.

It is a very strong power play, one that you should use in the event of disrespectful behaviour.

When you signal that you don’t give a damn, she is much more likely to chase you.

As I have mentioned previously, the person who cares the least wins the relationship game.

How Long Should You Withdraw Attention?

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Depending on how disrespectful you consider the behaviour you can withdraw attention for longer or shorter periods of time.

For extreme disrespect, you could withdraw attention for four months.

For something mildly disrespectful, it could be as short as a week.

You need to withdraw attention long enough for her to get the message that she might lose you if her behaviour continues this way.

Conclusion

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If a girl pisses you off, withdraw attention.

It is a very powerful tactic that encourages the girl to second-guess her disrespect.

When the girl fears she might lose you, you are much more likely to get good behaviour from her.

Try it for yourself and see how it goes!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

I Keep Yelling At My Girlfriend For Being A Bitch, and She Never Stops, What Gives?

Your girlfriend sees yelling at her as attention and she likes it.

You’re better off going cold for a week.

That should work better.

She will fear losing you for showing disrespect.

If she leaves you after you go cold, she just wasn’t that into you.

My Girl Keeps Shit Testing Me, Should I Withdraw Attention?

Shit tests are a natural part of female behaviour.

If they shit tests are incessant, however, it may be time to withdraw attention.

She needs to get the message that she has to relax.

How Do I Apply Operant Conditioning to My Partner?

Reward the behaviours you want to see with attention, punish any behaviour that you consider to be utterly disrespectful by withdrawing attention.

In this way, you encourage her to be pleasant around you and you do not have to deal with her being rude to you otherwise.

What Do Women Want Most From Men?

Attention.

This is why controlling when you show attention is so valuable.

Show attention when she is being kind, pleasant and giving you the sex you want.

Withdraw attention when she is being annoying, bitchy or disrespectful.

You will find that your experience with your partners improves dramatically!

The Pareto Principle

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I’m sure some people have never heard of the Pareto principle.

Allow me to enlighten you!

People need to understand the Pareto principle in order to maximize their choices in life.

Once you understand the Pareto principle, you will easily be able to understand the modern SMP (sexual marketplace)

Let’s dive into it!

What is the Pareto Principle?

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The Pareto principle describes the 80-20 rule.

It means that 20% of the population (those in the highest bracket) receive 80% of the resources.

It does not only apply to capitalism, but also to the free sexual market place.

In the free sexual market place (which basically follows a capitalist structure), sexual availability is concentrated in the top 20% of men.

This means that the top 20% of men receive 80% of the sexual attention.

Understanding the Pareto Principle

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Regarding the SMP (sexual marketplace), the Pareto principle implies that 80% of men are competing for 20% of female attention.

This means that the competition among betas is fierce.

One of the hardest things in the modern SMP is for a beta to get into a relationship with a woman.

They essentially have to be a super-beta, following all of the matriarchy’s rules to the letter and continually revamping and capitulating in terms of their personality in order to stay competitive among the pool of beta losers they find themselves in.

Not only is it a losing battle, it is not even one worth fighting.

If the betas understood what they really needed to do in order to succeed, they wouldn’t need to fight so hard.

20% of the Men get 80% of the Attention

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In the modern SMP, 20% of men get 80% of the attention.

This means that the top 20% of men receive most of the sexual attention and experience extreme sexual abundance.

THESE top 20% men are the men that women refer to when they say things like “all men are assholes, or men are all pigs”.

To women, who only see the top 20% (and maybe the top 2% of betas), only the absolute winners are considered sexually.

You are much better off trying to break into the top 20% than fight betas for the scraps that remain to them.

Hypergamy and the Pareto Principle

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Hypergamy refers to how women (especially those in their sexual prime) seek men who are most attractive and successful (alphas).

When women are no longer competitive, they MIGHT settle for a beta (though many simply exit out of the game completely and become cat ladies).

Hypergamy means that 80% of women try and gain the sexual attention of the top 20% (and succeed).

Obviously, many alphas have several women as sexual partners.

Women would much rather share a winner than be saddled with a faithful loser.

Alpha vs Beta

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As I have said several times, men are split into two categories (actually three, with undesirables being the other group).

Alphas, the top 20% of men in terms of sexual attractiveness (which is a mixture of physical shape, game, and resources) receive most of the attention, and betas fight for the scraps.

It is difficult to break into the category of alphas (it requires both freeing yourself from your mental prison and also working on your body in order to be physically attractive).

Ultimately, the alphas are the ones that women want to spend sexual time with and the ones that women show genuine desire to.

It is your decision whether you want to spend the effort required in order to become successful, or whether you decide to fall into obscurity.

The Sexual Marketplace Doesn’t Care About Fairness

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The SMP does NOT care about fairness.

Just like how a small percentage of the population holds 90% of the wealth, a small percentage of men have most of the sexual attention.

If you are NOT currently in the top 20% of men in terms of attractiveness, you should spend some chunk of your available free time becoming a top 20% male.

Breaking into the top category of men will make your life WAY easier in terms of seduction.

Fighting the 80% is HARDER than fighting the 20%

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The life of a beta is MUCH more difficult than that of an alpha.

A beta has to work extremely hard in order to maintain the affection of one woman.

An alpha requires no such effort.

Since the beta has such a huge group to compete against, and the way that they are competing is very similar, nothing distinguishes one beta from another.

As a result, only the super-betas win, while the others have no chance at all.

Once you break into the top 20% group, as a result of the abundance of options available to you, you will find that seducing women and creating your own roster will be relatively easy.

Work to Break into the Top 20%

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My recommendation to you is that you work to break into the top 20% of men in order to ensure that you are easily able to access the sexual options of the superior group.

Once there, the work you have to do is much less.

Basically, working on yourself in order to get into the top 20% is an investment.

It is VERY HARD to break into the group, but ONCE THERE, practically no more work is required.

An alpha literally shoots fish in a barrel.

The abundance of options available to you make it extremely easy to seduce women once you’re in the top 20% due to the Pareto principle.

Conclusion

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The Pareto principle explains how 20% of men receive 80% of female attention in the SMP.

It is much harder for a bottom 80% beta to fight for the scraps of women left to them than to compete with the top 20% for 80% of female attention.

Thus, I recommend that you work on yourself in order to break into the top 20%.

Once you are there, your sexual life will be all but guaranteed.

Life is about struggle, and now is your time.

Work hard!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Pareto Principle?

The Pareto principle is the idea that the top 20% of men in the SMP (sexual marketplace) receive 80% of female attention.

Life distributes sexual attention similarly to how it distributes monetary wealth.

As a result, men in the bottom 80% bracket have a HELL of a time trying to get ANY woman at all.

Is It Harder for An Alpha or Beta to Seduce a Woman?

Obviously it is much harder for a beta.

It is harder because not only does the beta not have game, he has the Pareto principle working AGAINST him.

He is competing with 80% of men for 20% of female attention.

Alphas are the reverse.

They compete with 20% of men for 80% of female attention.

Thus, alphas have abundance.

Life is So Unfair! What the Hell Helios! Why Are Women Like This?

Life is NOT fair.

You need to work in order to turn the unfairness to your advantage.

Now that you know that the top 20% of men receive 80% of female attention, you should work to break into the top 20%.

Once there, you can reap the fruits of your labor.

My Girlfriend Loves Me, She Would Never Leave!

Your girlfriend loves you for what you give her.

Since you’re probably a beta (as evidenced by your willingness to be in a traditional LTR), she is draining you for all you’ve got.

Your time attention, affection and resources are all on tap.

Once they run out and she gets bored, she’ll be on to the next.

She has a ton of options and can easily replace you.

How easily can you replace her as a beta?

Surrender

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This is an extremely important concept and one that I am very passionate about.

I am going to talk about how our society teaches and encourages men to surrender from a young age.

I am going to talk about how men are obviously worse off as a result and what you should do to rise above the bullshit.

Let’s get to it!

All of Their Lives, Men Are Taught to Surrender

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From when we are small children, encouraged to listen to our parents and our teachers, on onto adulthood living in the matriarchy, men are taught to surrender.

Men are taught that the only socially acceptable way to live is the way that women live.

They are taught that men are worse women, and not “emotional enough”.

It is all a farce.

Men are taught this in order to facilitate the feminine primacy we see today.

Weaken one gender in order to artificially raise another.

Surrender to the Matriarchy

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In practically all of the messages of pop culture, in all the advice from your mother and your sister and your female friends lies a hidden message:

“Surrender to the matriarchy. Do what we want and you will be rewarded.”

That reward never comes.

Women do NOT reward surrender, and thus, anyone that listens to these false messages is an unworthy man, and is unworthy of sexual attraction and freedom in our world.

With surrender comes torture and slow death, not the happiness promised.

Be very careful NOT to listen to the matriarchy’s messages.

Listening WILL lead to your destruction in the long term.

What Does Surrendering to the Matriarchy Look Like?

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Surrendering to the matriarchy takes many forms.

Here is a list:

1)  Entering into women-favoured relationships

2)  Speaking in a feminine style

3)  Learning and taking part in traditionally feminine activities/hobbies

4)  Choreplay

5)  Medicating boys for acting like boys

6)  Fighting over women

7)  Teaching your children any feminine primary platitudes (such as “happy wife, happy life”)

8)  Pedestalizing women

9)  Censoring free speech to make people “feel better”

10)   Favouring women in all basic necessities of civilization (healthcare, government bailout, relationships, jobs, education), etc.

This is not an exhaustive list by any means but it serves to prove an important point.

It is clear that women have ALREADY WON.

Men have ALREADY SURRENDERED en masse and this is the consequence.

Most men live in a female-primary mental prison from which they will never escape.

It is a terrible tragedy.

Consequences of Surrender

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As I have already said, the consequences of surrender to the matriarchy is the current society we find ourselves in today.

People today are NOT ALLOWED to say the truth in public places anymore.

If they speak the truth, they will be rewarded with social ostracism and loss of employment.

Women are holding onto their primacy in any way they can.

Many of the tactics in Orwell’s “1984” and Huxley’s “Brave New World” are being used against the general population of men TODAY.

Basically, women are taught female game, and men are taught anti-game, and only the best, most alpha men survive the process and are able to gain real sexual favour and appreciation from women.

The rest of men are left out to rot.

The consequences of surrender is that most men are dead before they are even born and have NO IDEA!

Sad indeed..

Is It Alpha or Beta to Surrender?

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Obviously surrender is beta.

It is SAD that our forefathers let the matriarchy take over so easily.

They had no idea they were even losing a cultural war until it was too late.

Nowadays, there are so many clueless betas parroting what the matriarchy says they should in an attempt to gain women’s favour it isn’t even funny.

Men have lost and have lost BADLY.

The Global Matriarchy Shit Test

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The global shit test of the matriarchy is that men should be more like women.

If you believe that what the matriarchy is telling you is true is correct, you have FAILED.

Failing to break the mental prison by failing this shit test dooms a beta man to a life of essentially eternal servitude to a wife who doesn’t respect him.

The global matriarchy shit test is used as a way to naturally select men.

It drains the masculine essence of any man who is stupid enough to listen.

Only the most alpha are able to break out of the mental prison and “just get it”.

These men are the men Sheryl talks about in her book:

1)  The crazy boys

2)  The commitment-phobic boys

3)  The sexy boys

It is YOUR JOB to break YOURSELF out.

If you fail at this, your life is forfeit.

Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Natural Selection

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80% of men fail to break out of the mental prison that the matriarchy has created for them.

Thus, 80% of men fail to be attractive to women and are ground down to their foundation.

Once they are shells of their former selves, they are casually tossed aside.

Hypergamy does NOT CARE about your feelings.

It only cares that you “just get it”.

Fail and you’re done.

You were never worth anything to anyone anyway.

The Winners Are Those That Refuse to Surrender

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You can ONLY be an alpha/winner if you REFUSE to surrender to the matriarchy.

When you CHOOSE to be your own man, you PASS.

You are then able to gain the actual respect, love and adoration of women that you wanted.

Of course, the only reason they feel that way about you is for what you can provide for them.

Don’t forget that.

A woman’s love is genuine, but is based on what you GIVE not who you ARE.

Take Back the Reigns of Your Life

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Now that you are armed with knowledge, use it to your advantage.

You know that everyone around you is begging for your capitulation.

Do you give them what they want or do you stand strong?

One decision leads to eventual destruction, and one leads to derision.

Ultimately, the choice is yours.

Do you want to be praised by a society that hates you and wants you powerless, or do you walk your own path, one that others fear to tread while the crowd sneers at you?

Both sides have their advantages and disadvantages.

I personally would prefer to hold the reins of my own life and steer myself where I want to go, but the choice is yours.

Alpha or beta is a choice YOU now hold in the palm of your hands.

Society would prefer you to be beta.

Which do you prefer?

Conclusion

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Society screams for you to surrender from every angle.

They scream from the media, from school and from the government.

It is your choice whether to surrender or not.

If you do, you are praised (since you have agreed to be a lamb to the slaughter) if you don’t you are derided (for not bending the knee).

The choice is yours.

Choose wisely.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Society Does Not Encourage Men To Surrender, Where Is This Random Thought Coming From Helios?

False.

Society wants men to surrender their masculinity to the matriarchy so that it can steer men’s ship.

It is the job of a man to say no.

Men need to be in charge of their own destiny.

We Live In A Patriarchy, Not A Matriarchy, What the Hell!

False.

Women are favoured in every avenue of life.

That is NOT patriarchy.

That is matriarchy, pure and simple.

Maybe there was a time in the past where women were repressed.

It is CERTAINLY NOT this time.

The West Has Free Speech, You Are Totally Allowed to Say What You Want!

If you tell the truth in public nowadays (wrongthink), you are liable to be kicked out of your job or be publicly shamed.

That is not free speech.

That is repression of ideas.

WOMEN are allowed to say what they want, NOT men (the privilege of the matriarchy).

What is the Global Matriarchy Shit Test?

The global matriarchy shit test is the one that convinces men from a young age that men and women are the same and that women want men who are more like women.

If a man believes these ideas, he will be EXTREMELY unlikely to enter into a relationship with a woman where he is respected.

Only a man who passes the test (breaks the mental prison) is able to be treated with respect and love by women (and not be destroyed by them in an LTR).

This Is My Beta. There Are Many Like It, But This One Is Mine

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I’m going to hurt many feelings today.

My apologies.

I’m going to talk about how betas/slaves/NPCs are largely interchangeable and how that leads to misery and often terrible life outcomes for them.

I’m also going to talk about why there are so many betas and why they’re necessary for civilization.

Off we go…

Interchangeability

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The standard quality of a beta is that he is interchangeable.

Much like the rifleman’s creed, which I quoted in the title and slightly modified.

A woman’s attitude towards her beta is exactly a rifleman’s attitude towards his rifle.

“This is my beta. There are many like it, but this one is mine.”

The abundance that is inbuilt into this thinking is incredibly powerful for women and allows them to spin multiple options easily.

They know that if one beta goes, there is always a new one to replace him.

Betas are largely interchangeable as they are culturally raised to have the same attitudes, opinions, ass-kissing, etc.

Since there is SUCH a LARGE pool of betas, women are basically guaranteed a comfortable existence as a collective.

This was the goal of the matriarchy from the outset.

To give most women the most success possible at the expense of men’s comfort and happiness.

Inter-Beta Competition

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This is the real reason why betas/slaves/NPCs have such trouble getting laid.

They are competing with a VAST pool of men, FAR LARGER than any alpha man ever has to compete with.

And all the betas are so similar!

Since one is so much like another (they’re basically a herd themselves), there is practically no differentiation.

Standing out of the beta crowd is thus, nearly impossible and leads to results approaching zero for ALL beta men.

You’ll see once you become one of the alphas, how much easier everything becomes (though the barrier to entry of alpha-hood is quite high).

Relationship to Online Dating

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I can compare how difficult beta competition is to trends in online dating.

Basically, if you are a man that does what every other man does on online dating, your success will be near zero.

Since everyone is doing the same thing, nothing differentiates you from anyone else.

You are just another face in the crowd.

It doesn’t work to do what everyone else is doing online, or in real life.

If you do what betas do, nothing differentiates you from any other.

Alphas have much more variation in their behaviours and attitudes.

Beta Behaviour Control

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The matriarchy has imposed several cultural rules on betas that they must follow in order to fit into that crowd.

Here is what betas have to provide (from “Valentine’s Day”):

  1. Being a nice guy
  2. A stable home
  3. Nice things
  4. Money
  5. Chores done for her
  6. Comfort
  7. Love
  8. Listening to her

This makes it very hard for betas to display the behaviours that women really find attractive.

They therefore remain in obscurity and have no idea why they fail so hard and so often.

The Sad Reality of the Beta

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The sad reality of the beta is that you have to compete with so many other men, only to fail 99.5% of the time.

The 0.5% of the time the beta doesn’t fail, he ends up with only half winning (as he “wins” a woman who doesn’t want to fuck him anyway).

Betas very often end up in relationships with women who only pretend to be attracted to them for the purpose of extracting all of the other benefits.

They never gain the privilege of experiencing genuine love and attraction.

Instead, they get boring duty sex and chores.

Why Inter-Beta Competition is So Hard

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As mentioned previously, inter-beta competition is so hard because betas are competing with so many men.

They are all trying to compete along the same axis, and it isn’t even one that truly attracts women.

It’s like if women told men that they liked soccer players and most men decided that instead of playing soccer, they would compete in chess.

Most men are so far removed from what they should be doing to attract women, they might as well be a third gender (that isn’t a man or woman).

I in fact have explored this in another article (Women Perceive Three Genders, Not Two).

Betas would be much better off learning what it is that women truly want and competing there.

Of course, it would make the competition much harder for alphas, but it would also push everyone to become better, so I would welcome it!

Why the Creation of Betas Is Necessary for Society

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The creation of betas is necessary for society because society RUNS on betas.

Society runs on people self-selecting themselves (or being raised by their mothers) for slavery and not aspiring to greatness.

The beautiful life we get to live in the west is largely a result of betas bending over backwards to make everything run as well as it does.

That means that the beautiful life we get to live is largely a result of FEMALE CONDITIONING of betas (to continue the status quo).

Unfortunately, being a beta does not lead to happiness, but slavery on an individual level.

Biology Doesn’t Care About Happiness

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Biology does not care an iota, for happiness.

Biology cares about the continuation of our species.

As long as we live as bees do (with a large, expendable pool in our population), we can maximize the biological success of the species.

If everyone understood the underlying mechanics behind how the world worked, we would probably not have as many slaves.

Women culturally train men to be slaves and only those that break free can experience true happiness (a very small fraction indeed).

Betas Win In the End?

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If you consider reproduction, betas win in the end.

They get to have babies and continue the species.

Unfortunately, it is not really winning.

Betas reproducing is slaves producing more slaves in order for the cycle to continue.

As we know from previous posts, betas never get the love, adoration and quality of sex that alphas do.

Women only have babies with betas after the wall has passed, in order to continue the slave exploitation that is most of the human population.

It makes sense, the few alphas that “sneak through” have the alpha kids (a small proportion of the population), and the betas (the large majority) continue as they always have in order to ensure the continuation of civilization as we know it (which has been built on the broken backs of betas throughout all of history).

Usage and Elimination

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In order for our society to run as it has since about 5000 BC, betas need to be used and discarded.

This is the cycle of history.

The human population consists of a large pool of betas to ensure that the cog of civilization continues with a small pool of alphas to direct the direction of civilization.

You choose which you want to be.

Your choices are beta cog or alpha driver.

Both are needed on the meta level for civilization, but only one gets to be happy and free.

Conclusion

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Women treat betas as interchangeable objects.

The competition between betas is huge because so many men fall into the beta pool.

It is very hard to have success using the beta strategy due to the quantity of competition.

Betas are necessary to continue the march of civilization but they are exploited and often end up miserable.

You choose which type of man you want to be…

Be wise!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Why Is It So Hard for Me to Get Laid? I’m Such A Nice Guy!

You and every other beta!

Your competition is fierce since everyone is doing the same thing!

Try some alpha strategies, they will work better for you.

Online, I Message “Hey” and No Girl Responds, What Gives?

You’re messaging just like everyone else.

There is nothing to differentiate you from the crowd other than your pictures at that point.

Unless you look like Adonis, that strategy isn’t going to work for you.

Why Do All Men In Marriages End Up Miserable?

They end up miserable (in the long term) because marriage is not made for them.

It is made to encourage the man in the marriage to be a good cog and sacrifice himself for the good of society.

On a biological level he is helping to ensure the survival of the human species, but on an individual level he is used and abused.

He might have avoided that fate if he knew better…

In the End the So-Called Betas Win, I Mean They Are the Majority of the Population Right? They Must Be Doing Something RIght!

If you call being a cog of society doing it right, then yes.

They effectively sacrifice themselves to the wheel of history, guaranteeing their own misery for the survival of the human race.

I wouldn’t call that winning, but you are free to have your own opinion.

In my opinion, being grinded in the gears of civilization and agreeing to be exploited is not victory.

That is what most betas do (unknowingly).

10 Reasons Why Strong “Independent” Women Need Men

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The matriarchy says that strong independent women don’t need men.

Let’s analyze several situations where men are absolutely necessary in order to maintain female primacy (all of them) and see if the “independent” part of that phrase holds up.

I think we all know where this is going.

Here we go…

1 – Marriage

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Every girl’s mommy wants her to get married.

The strong independent woman therefore needs a man to fulfill that role of husband for her.

How else can she rub her status in the faces of all of her other strong independent friends?

She gets married, having totally never needed a man (except for status and pleasing mom).

She still maintains her strong independence in the household since she runs it!

She’s independent from her husband sexually, so it counts.

She doesn’t need the salary of her husband in order to maintain the house she runs, he’s just there.

Counting the total household income is for misogynists.

2 – Social Standing

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Women consider married women to be the highest status.

A woman who has full control of an NPC is one to look up to.

The woman is totally strong and independent and doesn’t need her slave, though, don’t forget!

He’s just there to be pretty.

Pay no attention to the money and things he’s doing for her, she could do them all herself if she wanted.

A strong independent woman doesn’t need a man, after all.

3 – Deferential Treatment

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A strong independent woman expects to be treated as such.

She’s so much better than everyone else, why not remind herself of that fact?

The great way she’s treated in public, and in private totally doesn’t count.

Of course, NPCs are the ones that treat her this way, but she doesn’t need them to cement her status.

She is this powerful whether men are there to kiss her ass or not.

All of those likes and comments on social media don’t matter to her.

Strong independent women don’t need men remember?

4 – Slave Services

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In relationships, strong independent women, as the “boss bitches” they are, don’t expect to do anything.

Their man (slave/butler) should cook, clean, shop for groceries, taxi her around, etc.

She doesn’t need him though.

Slave services are free!

They are just the treatment a strong independent woman deserves.

Women are not at all dependent on beta slaves kissing their asses and maintaining their position.

Saying that women need men is misogyny!

5 – Children

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For a woman to have children, her biological imperative, she needs a sperm donor.

Since she’s strong and independent, she can choose any man she wants.

She doesn’t need the man to have the child, since she’s strong and independent, only his money.

Her strong independence means that she raises the child without a father.

She doesn’t need him and neither do her kids!

That children that grow up without a father end up having worse outcomes means nothing to the strong independent woman.

She has to prove to the world that she doesn’t need men!

Consequences be damned!

6 – Trash Collection

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Icky tasks like taking trash to the dump are not for strong independent women.

They escaped those difficult times years ago.

Those tasks are for slaves to do.

Since slaves aren’t men, women don’t depend on men for the service of maintaining her clean and orderly world.

She gets to be fully free and independent while not having to take the trash out.

7 – Repair Services

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Many strong independent women have never picked up a screwdriver or even a plunger.

They don’t need men to do this, though, since they’re strong and independent.

When a repairman comes and does the job, he doesn’t count as a man.

He is an NPC, a slave of society.

Slaves don’t count as men, and she can remain strong and independent while not needing a man.

You see, if you just change the definition of what man means, she doesn’t need one!

8 – Alpha Sex

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Strong independent women have needs too!

They need to experience the full range of emotions.

This includes alpha sex.

They totally don’t need men for this, since they are strong and independent.

Their rationalizations like “it just happened”, or “I could have used a vibrator” allow them to remain strong and independent.

Alphas are not men that they depend on, they are just there for temporary pleasure.

Since they’re not always around, women don’t “need” them.

9 – Child Support

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Many women, being strong and independent, are single parents.

They don’t have enough money to take care of their children, and so they use child support.

This does not mean they are dependent on men, though.

Since the cheque comes from the government, they don’t “need” a man.

Even though it took a man to create that child and the man’s money goes into raising that child, the woman remains strong and independent.

10 – Alimony

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Many strong independent women feel that the workplace is too harsh a place due to sexism.

They still need money to live strong independent lives, however.

Some strong women use alimony (from a beta slave) rather than working in order to fuel their powerful “don’t-need-no-man” lives.

The NPC is not a man TO HER, so it doesn’t count.

Divorce courts favour her since she’s so strong and independent so that she can take care of herself when her marriage is done.

Since the man is supporting her from a distance, she “doesn’t need him”.

Conclusion

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Clearly, in every one of these scenarios, even though the women CLAIM they are strong and independent, every benefit is derived from men in some way.

As a result, they are obviously NOT independent, but in fact HOPELESSLY dependent on men for all of their “strong independent woman” benefits.

Women NEED men for practically every benefit that women get in our society.

It has been socially engineered to be this way.

Now you know.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

I’m A Strong Woman! Since My Husband DIdn’t Treat Me Like I Deserved, I Left Him! Now I Can Live My Life Free!

You can only “live free” due to the government mandated forced support he gives you.

Don’t lie and say you’re independent when you’re not.

You needed him when you were together, and now you need him when you’re apart.

I Make Way More Money Than My Husband, I’m A CEO In Fact of My Own Company! Are You Telling Me I’m Not Strong and Independent?

You are definitely strong and extremely capable.

I don’t deny that.

Are you dependent on a system which favours you where men kiss your ass?

Absolutely.

You are strong and DEPENDENT.

Don’t LIE and tell me or anyone otherwise!

My Ex Was A Deadbeat. He Pays Me Nothing. I’m Definitely A Strong Independent Woman!

You needed him to have the kid.

The government is likely helping you with your children.

That money comes from the collective taxes of EVERYONE (including men).

You are therefore DEPENDENT on men for at least SOME of your stability.

That is FACT.

I Just Sleep With Men, I Don’t Need Their Money! I Am Strong and Independent!

In the financial sense, you are independent.

In the sense of needing men, you are DEPENDENT.

You need alpha men for good sex!

You’re therefore NOT independent.

Don’t lie and say you don’t need men!