Today, I’m going to give you the truth.
You may not like it, but it is how it is.
Our modern society does not teach men how to be men.
It teaches men to be beta losers who enslave themselves to common cultural trends.
If you live exactly as society dictates to you, not only will you be miserable, but you will be a slave, forever.
You need to break free of society’s programming.
It is one of the hardest things to do.
Being a strong man in the times we live in is totally against the grain.
In fact, you’ll see, that as you pursue a life of freedom, independence, happiness and pleasure, the people around you will actively try to drag you down.
Don’t let them.
Instead, embrace your masculinity and be the man that you were always destined to be.
Here are the qualities a REAL man embodies!
I want you to pay close attention to how different these qualities are from what society teaches you.
Part 1 – Qualities of A Strong Man
1 – Courage
A strong man embodies the concept of courage.
He is strong where others are weak.
He perseveres, where others give in.
He believes in himself, despite all opposition.
A real man stands in the face of the world and yells.
He refuses to bow just because he is told.
He knows that he can deal with the challenges that life puts in front of him.
He trusts that although he may stumble, he will never surrender.
He will stay true to himself and his mission, regardless of the difficulties in his path.
A strong man has the courage to do what others will not.
He has faith in himself and his abilities, despite doubt.
He tries, and fails, and tries again.
Once again, a strong man is courageous.
He pushes through fear, his own and the fears of those around him.
He has a mission to accomplish, after all.
2 – Discipline
A strong man is disciplined.
He works hard, even when it hurts.
He struggles, when others won’t.
He goes in day in, day out, pursuing his dreams.
Where others doubt, he sees the final goal.
He understands that nothing in life comes easy and is willing to put in the work to achieve greatness.
A strong man embodies the idea of getting up again after being knocked down.
He pursues his mission, even if he’s having a bad day. Even if he doesn’t “feel” like it.
A strong man drives towards his goals, unflinchingly.
He walks against the storm step by step, if need be.
When others tire, he works.
A strong man understands that nothing in life that is worth having comes easily, and puts in the work to get it.
Discipline is not an easy skill to learn, but a strong man puts his will to the task.
A strong man understands that it isn’t over until he wins.
3 – Frame
A strong man is not easily persuaded to change.
He stays true to himself despite what others want for him.
When women want him to behave as they want, he rejects them, following his path instead.
No matter the environment or obstacle, a strong man remains himself.
He isn’t changeable like the wind, instead, he is a rock.
People look to him for guidance and he holds true to what he believes in.
If he is shit tested, he doesn’t bend.
If he is strong-armed, he doesn’t bend.
If he is threatened, he doesn’t bend.
A strong man remains a strong man, regardless of what those around him say or do.
A strong man understands that his worldview is not for everyone.
He doesn’t force people to be like him.
He simply remains true to who he is and allows those that want to follow to do so.
Those that doubt or annoy are ignored by the strong man.
He has better things to deal with.
4 – Physical Fitness
A strong man is not only strong emotionally.
He is also strong physically.
A strong man works on himself, training every week.
He works to gain the body of one who is worthy to wear the crown of superiority.
He understands that a strong body and strong mind are linked.
A strong man bears the pain of hard work.
He bears it, understanding that it accompanies the path to greatness.
He has the discipline to train rigorously and regularly, to obtain the body that few men on earth ever attain.
He has higher aims for his body than the average man.
He wants to join the ranks of the great ones, the ones that put in the time and the work to be that way.
He embodies qualities of the ancient Greeks, strong in body and mind.
After all, a glorious body is one way to show his respect for what humanity can accomplish.
5 – Non-monogamy
A strong man does not commit to one woman.
He understands that humankind is not monogamous.
He leans into this, and allows himself to be free.
He does not force anyone to be monogamous.
Instead, he puts the focus on himself and his own happiness.
A strong man does not try to control those around him, preferring to control himself.
After all, a strong man understands his role as a model to others.
Once a strong man has acquired freedom, he can then achieve the pinnacle of human existence.
He understands that chaining himself to one woman, chains his feelings to the feelings of one who is much more cyclical.
A man who desires a stable emotional life cannot achieve it from one sole woman.
He doesn’t hate that the world is this way, he accepts it and creates a stable emotional environment for himself from the companionship of multiple women.
Part 2 – Results of Being A Strong Man
1 – You Can Be Whoever You Want
When you embody the qualities of a strong man, the world becomes your oyster.
You can do and achieve anything you want.
You simply have to understand the sacrifice it entails.
Nothing in this world comes easily.
You have to struggle, work and bleed for every good thing you want.
The world is not made to make you happy, it is made to keep itself going.
It is your job to create happiness out of the cards you were dealt.
You cannot do this under the current societal model of being a beta male.
You must fight against societal programming and be your own man.
Once you understand that you have the power to change, everything opens up as a possibility.
Life is tough, but you are tougher.
When you persevere, while others give in, you show the world what you’re made of.
When you show the world that you’re made of stronger stuff than the average, the world gives in to you.
It accepts you as one of the people that deserve to stand at the pinnacle.
Congratulations, you are now free.
2 – You Can Have the Relationships You Want
If you’ve ever wanted to have a threesome, or sleep with multiple women, or simply get a pretty girl to want to have sex with you, you can, using the methods above.
You have to internalize and become the kind of person that women want to sleep with, and then you’re done.
You achieve abundance.
The life that you’re living now of quiet desperation will melt away as you realize that you’re capable of so much more than you ever thought.
You can become the kind of person that you read about in books, or you see in the stories.
They just don’t mention how hard it is to do so in those stories.
Those people you look up to have struggled and fought harder than you can imagine.
You can join them with the same effort.
That is the secret.
They succeed where you fail, not because you don’t have it in you, buit because you’ve never tried to summon the energy needed for the time it’s needed to get there.
You have to bust your ass to achieve greatness.
There is no other way.
3 – You Can Live the Life You Want
Only strong men can live the lives they want.
Weak men do and achieve nothing.
They live and die as sheep.
You should aspire to more than sheephood in this life.
The way to do that is through hard work, sacrifice, perseverance and discipline.
You also cannot achieve this if you listen to the betas around you.
They will drag you down, with the best of intentions.
They have no idea how to achieve anything in this life, why are you listening to them?
You can be the writer of your own story, but you have to write it.
You’ll never write your own story by laying down and giving up.
The strong accept the strong, and the weak complain.
Which are you?
Conclusion
Being a strong man is difficult.
It takes courage, perseverance and discipline.
It takes vision, and understanding that the world does not bend easily.
Here is a list of the qualities of strong men:
- Courage
- Discipline
- Frame
- Physical fitness
- Non-monogamy
Once you work on yourself to embody these qualities, you’ll notice that the world opens up to you.
You will achieve things that you never thought possible.
You will soar, while others sink.
You will be the powerful leader and example that the world needs.
It is your time. Seize it!
-Helios
Frequently Asked Questions:
How Can I Be More Courageous?
Try doing things that scare you, and persevering anyway.
You’ll see that the monster in your head is always greater than the real monster that exists.
Once you’ve internalized that, watch out!
You’ll never be the same.
You Say All These Awesome Things, But I Just Don’t Have the Motivation, How Do I Get It?
You’ll never be motivated enough to do the difficult tasks in your life.
Motivation dries up after a few weeks.
It takes grit to succeed, not motivation.
Grit is the idea that even though you hate it, you do it anyway.
Even if you don’t feel like it, you do it anyway.
Make the correct play, despite your feelings.
Or don’t, and stay an NPC.
I don’t give a shit.
I Want to Be More Physically Fit But There’s So Much Conflicting Information, How Do I Know What to Choose?
Ultimately, if you’re doing compound lifts (squat, bench press, deadlift, row), or if you’re doing martial arts at a good gym (filipino martial arts, muay thai, western boxing, rugby), you’ll do fantastic.
Just control how many calories you eat in a day until you get the body you want.
It is simple, but not easy.
Life is such that many of the foods that make you feel best are not the best for you.
What are you going to do about it?
Here’s a hint – grit!
People Keep Telling Me That the Way I Want to Live WIll Make Me Miserable In the Future, What Gives?
They’re trying to drag you down into beta hell.
Misery loves company.
Do you want to join them, or do you want to be great?
Ultimately, the choice is yours.
The bottom line is betas don’t get laid like I do.
There’s This One Girl…
If you get hung up on one girl, your emotions are being held in a vice by her whims.
It is a terrible way to live.
You need to free yourself from monogamy if you want to live a stable, emotionally happy life.
Women are cyclical, men are linear.
You cannot linear behaviour out of one girl.
A group of girls though? That’s different.
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