Author: therealheliosblog

People are under the impression in the modern world that slavery has been abolished.

They believe that the past was an awful place, where people exploited others and are extremely thankful we don’t live in such backward times.

They have no idea the insidiousness of their own situation.

The truth is that the world NEVER moved away from slavery or serfdom, it simply rebranded them.

The truth is about to hurt, massively… 

Slavery

Here is the definition of slavery:

Slavery is condition in which one human being is owned by another. A slave was considered by law as property, or chattel, and was deprived of most of the rights ordinarily held by free persons.

Basically, under slavery, certain people were not considered human and were exploited mercilessly, sometimes to the point of death.

Slavery is a terrible thing.

The textbooks say that slavery was abolished in the west in around 1865.

It never truly was.

Slavery simply changed form.

Let’s also talk a bit about serfdom…

Serfdom

This is the definition of serfdom:

Serfdom was a form of agricultural servitude that most of Europe had left behind in the medieval period. Medieval serfs (aka villeins) were unfree labourers who worked the land of a landowner (or its tenant) in return for physical and legal protection and the right to work a separate piece of land for their own basic needs.

Emphasis on the “was”.

Now, of course, serfdom also didn’t disappear.

It also changed forms.

Our current history textbooks talk about the terrible situation that both slaves and serfs experienced, making ABSOLUTELY NO MENTION of the current state of the world.

This is done on PURPOSE.

We, the people, do not have access to the truth.

Instead, we are fed pretty lies, bread and circuses.

Here is the REAL state of the modern world…

The State of the Modern World

Our modern world is one of slavery and serfdom.

Nothing has changed practically for the average person in the last 1000 years other than modern medicine (which has increased the lifespan of the average slave/serf).

The majority of the human population in the west still serves at the behest of their king (the corporate oligarch who rules them).

The average person barely has a break and is forced to bow to the whims of their master.

They are expendable and replaceable, living a life of quiet desperation.

They make barely enough money to live.

Something else has changed.

In medieval times, the average person knew they were a slave/serf.

Today, the average person has NO IDEA the TRUE situation they find themselves in.

Only an enlightened few have that privilege.

Bread and circuses keep the average person occupied while the world mercilessly exploits them.

Modern Slavery

A person that is forced to work in order to be able to live in a ratty apartment is a modern day slave.

People that live paycheck to paycheck have barely any more control over their life than a slave did in ancient times.

Their whole lives are consumed by the acquisition of a paycheck.

This paycheck is the absolute lowest possible quantity of money an individual can be paid to continue to be motivated to work while remaining a slave to the corporation they work for.

These are the so-called “lower class” of our society.

Some would also argue that prisoners are modern slaves, as they often work in sweatshop-like conditions in order to earn money (literally pennies on the dollar) so that they may buy shitty commissary items (at a gigantic markup).

In a way, many prisons follow the same system that slaves of the past followed (look up indentured servitude).

Modern Serfdom

A person that works for a corporation, having only two weeks paid vacation a year is a modern day serf.

They live SLIGHTLY better than slaves, but not by much.

The work that they have to do is also much more stressful as well.

No matter how “fulfilling” such a job is, it is still FORCED WORK for 5 days of the week, for 50 weeks of the year.

The modern day serf is what the politically correct would call a member of the middle class.

The truth is that they really aren’t part of a middle class at all.

They have not much more freedom than a slave.

What difference does it make whether you have a nice house and a nice car vs. a shitty house and shitty car if you lack time in both situations?

One of these two options is just more comfortable slavery.

The serfs serve at the behest of their oligarch just as the slaves do.

They simply have nicer rooms.

The Brainwashing of the General Population

The general population is under the impression that we live in some kind of free utopia, where all of the evils of the past have been resolved by modern ideas.

This is patently false.

The population is brainwashed from a young age to believe these ideas, as being a passive follower prevents any changes to the underlying power structure put in place by our rulers (corporations).

The life of the average person matters NOT ONE IOTA to a corporatist oligarch (or any king throughout history, really).

The only time any king considers the lives of the average person is when their position is personally affected (in modern times, this would refer to how much money they make/lose from the general population).

It pays therefore (or rather prevents the loss of money), to train the average person to be a good wage slave/follower/beta/NPC.

How is this done?

You guessed it!

Public education.  

Public Education

Corporations simply pay the school boards to brainwash children (or they pay the government, who pays the school boards)!

If you teach children from a young age to be obedient wage-slave types, they will never rise up to oppose your rule.

The corporatist oligarchs can then rest easy, knowing that they will always have a subset of the human population pre-brainwashed to make them money!

This is the real reason why public education has fallen in quality over time.

The less educated the populace is, the better corporations are at draining their potential in order to enrich themselves.

Not only is public education falling in quality, institutions of higher learning are also falling in quality.

Feminism has taken hold of many of these institutions and the curriculum of many classes has changed to teach cultural Marxism rather than the things that are truly important (such as the scientific method or objective, rational thought).

It is more important for people to “get good grades” nowadays in institutions of higher learning than for people to actually learn what the world is really like and to draw conclusions for themselves.

Expect the future to become plump with uneducated idiots as even the average university student remains a blind idiot despite multiple years of education.

Such is the result of learning information but failing to gain any wisdom.

The Truth Will Set You Free (And Burn Along the Way)

Now that you know the real way the world works, don’t you think it’s time you started to think for yourself?

Don’t just do what your parents/teachers/society tells you is correct.

They have other aims for you than your happiness.

Both society and the matriarchy desire your slavery.

Neither have your best interest at heart.

To them, you are a useful fool.

It is up to you whether you allow yourself to be put in such a position.

You might want to consider learning how to decouple your earnings from your time.

This will take years of practice and will likely distance you from all of the beta/slave/NPC friends you have.

You can escape though.

It simply comes at a cost, one most people are unwilling to pay.

Conclusion

As you can see, not much has changed about the state of the world in 1000 years.

Sad, I know.

Even though we are supposedly enlightened and all of our problems have disappeared, we still live in a world of slavery, serfdom and oligarchs.

It is up to you to decide if you will be one of the slaves or a free man.

The opening of your mind is the first important step to freeing yourself from your mental prison.

Don’t let the programming that has insidiously entered your brain since birth decide your fate.

You are a thinking, reasoning man!

Fight for your freedom!

Take control of your life and stop sacrificing yourself for others’ needs.

Be wise, fierce and independent!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Helios, This Is All Conspiracy Theory Garbage, You’re Literally A Quack!

Are there or are there not sons of the owners of corporations who are born with so much money they could spend it recklessly for their whole lives and never see the end of it?

THAT is a PRINCE, not the son of a businessman.

Are there people with so much money they can control the political leanings and decisions of entire countries?

Those are KINGS, not businessmen.

Are there people, employed by businesses who are paid MUCH LESS than they are worth in order to enrich people higher up in the business?

Those are SLAVES/SERFS, being taken advantage of by the KING AND HIS COURT, not a business!

Can you not see that the ideas of the past have simply been repackaged into a new form?

Then you are lost.

I’m Not A Slave, I Have Access to More Information Than the Kings of the Past, You’re Full of Shit!

Yes.

You also have much more MISINFORMATION than ever in history.

Our modern dark age is caused by PURPOSEFUL OBFUSCATION of correct information.

If you cannot see that, I’m afraid you need to work on your critical thinking skills.

Oh wait, your educational system failed you and you have no critical thinking skills, right.

My Mom is a Teacher, How Dare You Say That Public Education is Terrible!

Individuals can be extraordinary.

I don’t deny that.

You can’t deny however that the SYSTEM your mom is in has cancerous ideas that she is FORCED to teach, even if she DOESN’T PERSONALLY AGREE.

Even if she doesn’t teach them, she certainly can’t oppose them.

I’m talking about the following:

1. Feminism (the idea that women are superior and should be looked up to/given every opportunity in life)
2. Cultural marxism (the idea that all people are equal in all contexts regardless of effort or experience)

I’ll Have You Know That I Went To Yale, And I’m Smarter Than You’ll Ever Be! You’re Plebeian Garbage!

Please refer to the following link for what I think of modern higher education institutions:

https://oyc.yale.edu/english/engl-300/lecture-20 (It is a link to an open feminism course)

If they encourage thoughts like that, I’m afraid your beloved school is lost (pay close attention to this sentence, since I know your reading comprehension is probably not where it should be, despite the institution you went to:

“The logocentric approach to gender theory, specifically the task of defining female language as something different and separate from male language, is considered alongside Woolf’s own endorsement of literary and intellectual androgyny.”)

Don’t be like them, actually think for yourself and not about how to destroy the lives of men.

By the way, you believe you’re superior because you were brainwashed at a place that costs 50,000$ per year?

You’re fucking hilarious.

Unless you are free from the shackles of modern slavery, you have NO RIGHT to speak to ANYONE about superiority.

Many men have no idea what actually gets them laid.

They think they just “got lucky”.

Sex is not about luck AT ALL.

Sex is about the following two things:

1. Tension
2. Logistics

If you know how to build tension and know how to set up good logistics, you WILL get laid.

Let me show you how it’s done…

Why Does Tension + Logistics Lead to Sex?

Tension is what makes two people sexually attracted to each other.

Tension creates an inherent discomfort that needs to be resolved.

The discomfort that gets released in the process of sex brings the two people closer together.

Of course, if the girl doesn’t feel safe with you and with the location you’re in, sex will NOT occur, even if there is amazing tension.

If she DOES feel safe however, tension is VERY likely to lead to sex.

It is VITALLY important that you master both the art of creating tension and the art of setting up the environment so that it maximizes your chances of getting laid.

Creating Tension

Tension can be created in a variety of ways.

Here is a list (with an explanation of why it’s attractive):

1. Teasing

Teasing creates tension because it creates a playful argumentative atmosphere. She sees you as someone who is willing to challenge her and that’s attractive.

2. Staring 

She feels that you are sexually attracted to her, but you haven’t said anything. She wants to see if you are worthy.

3. Passing shit tests

You are sending signals that you are a dominant alpha man. It is very attractive and intriguing.

4. Dancing

You are good at leading her and touching her. She wonders if this skill is transferable

5. Answering questions in unusual ways

You aren’t a typical beta/slave/NPC, you have a brain that thinks differently and it’s intriguing

6. Physical closeness without intimate touch

She feels your masculine essence close to her and it piques her interest

7. Casual brushing against each other

She feels your power near her and is intrigued

8. Argument (with her or someone else)

She knows you’re not a pushover, you are willing to stand up for yourself.

9. Physical confrontation (with someone else)

She knows that she can’t dominate you physically. You could easily hurt someone else who’s threatening

10. Talking about sex

You’re likely sexually experienced. What other girls have experienced you?

11. Dread

She knows for sure you have other women. What if they poach you?

12. Fear of Loss

What if she never sees you again? What will she have lost?

13. Cheating

What if the new girl steals you away? Were you a stud after all?

If you do one (or more) of these things with women, you will undoubtedly create tension that can then be resolved through sex.

The Meaning of Good Logistics

If you’re in a place with good logistics, it means that there is a very low probability that you can be interrupted or found during sex.

The girl is very unlikely to be seen as a slut from other people in those environments.

Remember that women care about their reputations much more than men.

You want to have a place set up where you can easily have sex without interruption or the fear that you will be found by one of her friends.

Here are some examples of places that are great logistics-wise:

1. A secluded trail/park
2. Your car, parked somewhere remote
3. Your apartment (especially if no roommates)
4. Your house (especially if you don’t live with your parents)

If you create a lot of tension and you are in one of these places, initiating anything sexual is very likely to lead to sex.

I hope I don’t need to explain the mechanics of sex to you.

If you’re on a trail or in a park, you need a comfortable, non-wet, flat surface and something to lie on.

For the other places, you need a couch or bed, something you can comfortably have sex on (for the benefit of your knees).

Good Ideas for Dates

You never want to take girls on dates that are unlikely to lead to sex.

This means that you should NEVER take girls to the movies, dinner, etc.

This is TRIPLY true if you’re at the beginning of a relationship.

As I have mentioned in other articles, you should try to have sex with a girl on the second date.

The first date is for comfort/rapport, the second date is for sex.

This means that logistically, for the first date, you need a place where it is easy to build comfort/rapport without signalling that you’re a beta/slave/NPC.

Here are good logistical locations for first dates:

1. Coffee shop
2. Casual bar
3. Mall
4. Park

You never want to spend more than 10$ on your first date, remember, you don’t want to signal that you’re a beta/slave/NPC.

For the second date, you need a place where it is easy to have sex once you have built tension.

Here is a list of great places for second dates (and beyond):

1. A secluded park (you drive her there)
2. Your apartment
3. Your house

NEVER take a girl on a date where the logistics to have sex are not set up.

If you don’t have the logistics for sex, it is YOUR FAULT that sex didn’t happen.

Plan with the end goal in mind!

Comfort Does NOT Get You Laid

Talking incessantly on dates is not going to get you laid.

If the girl is super comfortable with you, you’re going to be put in the beta/NPC/slave zone and you’re done.

Comfort does not get you laid, in fact, you want comfort to be at 20%, while tension is at 80%, especially at the beginning of a relationship!

DO NOT set up dates where building comfort is the only thing you can do.

Exception: For the first date, you are allowed a comfort building environment, but it MUST be CASUAL. No “date” dates. Also, for your first date, you want to talk 15 minutes out of the hour you’ve allotted to spend with her.

Here are places you SHOULD NEVER take a girl on a date (especially early on in your relationship, before you have had sex at least 10 times):

1. Dinner
2. Movie
3. Fancy restaurant
4. “Theme” dates such as hiking, rock-climbing, mountain biking, etc.

If you build comfort before sex, you’re going BACKWARDS.

You want sex right?

Bad Logistics = No Sex, Even If There Is Tension

Many men go home with their dick in their hands because they had terrible logistics.

Even if there is amazing tension, if you have no way to capitalize on it, the tension is useless!

There is something even worse.

If you build tension with a girl that gets her sexually exited and you DON’T even TRY to have sex with her, you will be immediately beta zoned.

This is how you get the guys at parties that think it’s going so well with a girl and they never respond later.

They didn’t capitalize on their opportunity to get laid and got relegated to the beta zone, where they rightfully belong.

When Do I Go For Sex?

You go for sex starting on the SECOND date.

You have one rapport date, lasting around an hour, where you talk for 15 minutes, directing the conversation towards her interests.

You follow that with a date where you invite the girl to your place for some plausibly deniable activity (come see my new place, let’s watch netflix, etc.) and go for sex then.

Once you have had sex once, you need to have sex a second time to achieve a stable sex state.

You can then cruise, doing the FWB (friend with benefits) thing for around 3 months before she will want to define the relationship (and you can decide the direction the interaction goes in at that point).

Simple In Concept, Difficult In Reality

A lot of you will read what I have written here and think it’s simple.

In concept, it is simple, but it requires a solid framework of game that requires a lot of practice.

Do not be discouraged if you fuck it up a bunch of times.

That is NORMAL.

Try, fail and try again.

You will succeed eventually.

Let me repeat it again.

Sex is tension + logistics.

Conclusion

Three more times for luck:

Sex = tension + logistics

Sex = tension + logistics

Sex = tension + logistics

Remember that!

You cannot have sex without both!

Practice both and you will succeed.

Persevere!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

How Do I Get Laid?

Create tension, then have the logistics for it.

You CANNOT get laid without both.

Keep in mind that if you sexually escalate and she doesn’t leave, she does still want to have sex, just a little later.

Pull back, and try again after you’ve built a little more comfort/tension.

How Do I Build Tension?

There are a lot of ways.

Experiment to see which ways work best for you!

Here is a list again (and why these methods work):

1) Teasing

Teasing creates tension because it creates a playful argumentative atmosphere. She sees you as someone who is willing to challenge her and that’s attractive.

2) Staring 

She feels that you are sexually attracted to her, but you haven’t said anything. She wants to see if you are worthy.

3) Passing shit tests

You are sending signals that you are a dominant alpha man. It is very attractive and intriguing.

4) Dancing

You are good at leading her and touching her. She wonders if this skill is transferable

5) Answering questions in unusual ways

You aren’t a typical beta/slave/NPC, you have a brain that thinks differently and it’s intriguing

6) Physical closeness without intimate touch

She feels your masculine essence close to her and it piques her interest

7) Casual brushing against each other

She feels your power near her and is intrigued

8) Argument (with her or someone else)

She knows you’re not a pushover, you are willing to stand up for yourself.

9) Physical confrontation (with her or someone else)

She knows that she can’t dominate you physically. You could easily hurt someone else who’s threatening

10) Talking about sex

You’re likely sexually experienced. What other girls have experienced you?

11) Dread

She knows for sure you have other women. What if they poach you?

12) Fear of Loss

What if she never sees you again? What will she have lost?

13) Cheating

What if the new girl steals you away? Were you a stud after all?

It will only serve to reward the wrong behaviour in a population.

How Do I Create Good Logistics for Sex?

Try having second dates (and beyond) in the following environments, you’ll find that it is much easier to get laid if you do:

1. A secluded park (you drive her there)
2. Your apartment
3. Your house

You have easy places to fuck her in each environment (the car in the first one, and a bed/couch in the other two)

Many men want an SNMG.

They want a relationship with a woman that is more serious than casual dating or sleeping around.

Luckily for you, I know the steps and am willing to share!

Let me show you how it’s done…

What is an SNMG?

First of all, let’s define what an SNMG is.

An SNMG is a serious non-monogamous girlfriend.

She is a girl you can bring around to parties, to your parent’s house, etc.

You and her are NOT monogamous, however.

You are free to pursue as many other women as you like and she knows.

She is also permitted to see other men as well.

Rules for an SNMG

In an SNMG arrangement, both of you are allowed to see other people.

There are a few rules that need to be put in place, however.

Here they are:

1. The “other people” you both see are for SEX ONLY
2. They cannot spend serious date time with those people, and neither can you

Helios, you’re a fucking cuck, how can you allow your girl to sleep with other men?

The beautiful power of having multiple women is that they become replaceable.

I don’t have the time or inclination to police the personal time of all my girls.

As a result, I don’t give a shit what they do when they’re not around.

You shouldn’t either.

If she starts dating some other guy seriously while claiming she’s your girlfriend, you can simply downgrade her and move on, no hard feelings.

You lose no access to sex by doing this, and your happiness will remain relatively stable.

SNMGs are amazing arrangements for men (as compared to traditional LTRs or marriages).

Steps to Get an SNMG

Here are the steps to getting an SNMG.

You MUST follow each of these, as they allow you to gauge her behaviour over the long term.

You should NEVER get into an SNMG right away, it should take a minimum of 6-9 months.

Another suggestion I have is that you should NOT consider an SNMG until you’re at least 35 years old.

You will not have the experience to properly judge behaviour or the emotional control needed in order to make the correct moves until then.

Ok, here are the steps:

1. Get her as a FWB (friend with benefits)
2. Hold her as a FWB until she asks to define the relationship (around 3 months)
3. If she has exceptional behaviour, you have “the talk” with her. If she survives, she’s upgraded to NMG (non-monogamous girlfriend)
4. Hold her in an NMG for 3 months or so, gauging her behaviour. If she is amazing after 3-6 more months, you can consider upgrading her.
5. Upgrade her to SNMG (serious non-monogamous girlfriend) status
6. Gauge her behaviour in SNMG for 6 months. If she’s amazing in this arrangement, keep her there, otherwise, downgrade back to NMG or FWB again
7. This is for a very small quantity of you stupid enough to get married. If you really want to, and have all the pre-planning in place, you could upgrade her to an OM (open marriage), I DO NOT ENDORSE THIS.

FWB Phase

The FWB phase marks the beginning of any relationship. 

Most men say that this is the best part of a relationship, before anything is defined.

I am inclined to agree.

For the most part, before anything is defined, you just meet up and have sex.

During this phase, you’ll be able to judge her personality.

Here are some red flags to look out for (that disqualify her for anything past FWB):

1. Has a party girl past
2. Has done any kind of drug other than cigarettes/casual marijuana
3. Mas many tattoos (more than 10)
4. Has kids from a previous relationship
5. Has bi-polar disorder
6. Has serious depression
7. Has BPD (borderline personality disorder)
8. Has schizophrenia
9. Owns a pit-bull or other attack dog
10. Claims to have been raped/abused in the past
11. Has incredibly bitchy/entitled behaviour

For me personally, if it comes out that the girl has some serious illness or sketchy past, I will often move on, so as to prevent drama in my future (even if the sex is great).

You will want to fish for information in the FWB phase to determine if she has any of these red flags so that you can end the relationship before anything seriously bad happens to you.

Often, women will simply volunteer this information if you let them talk for long enough.

That is why it’s important to let her do most of the talking, especially early in your interactions.

“The Talk”

After around three months of FWB, many women will want to define the relationship.

She’ll ask you some kind of question like “what are we?”.

You then answer depending on what you want:

1. I like how things are going/I want things to remain as they are (if you want the FWB to continue)
2. You’re someone very special to me (if you want an NMG)
3. I think it’s time we go our separate ways (if you want it to end)

You’re also going to have to explain to a girl, if you want her as an NMG, the kind of man you are.

Most women will assume that you want to be monogamous when you say something like #2.

You’re going to have to tell them that you’re a man that will never be monogamous and if that’s what she’s looking for, she can find it in another man.

You should also tell her that you won’t be controlling her behaviour and so, if she wants to sleep with other men, she is free to do so, she can do what she wants.

NMG Phase

You simply meet up with your girl, and do activities together that you wouldn’t do with a FWB.

You can:

1. Have her sleep over
2. Cook together
3. Watch movies together
4. Hang out with your friends and bring her along
5. Go on “event dates”, like hikes, museums, etc.

There are some things you should NEVER do with an NMG.

Here is a list (DO NOT DO THESE THINGS):

1. Text her all the time
2. Tell her you love her
3. Buy her expensive gifts
4. Buy her a plane ticket if you’re travelling together
5. Have her meet your parents
6. Have a kid with her

These are things you DO NOT do with an NMG, but you can do with an SNMG.

If you see things are going well for a 6 month period or so, you can then think about upgrading her from NMG to SNMG (if that’s what you want).

When I say going well, I mean that she worships you.

She treats you EXTREMELY well, and is NEVER bitchy or complains about her “situation”

It will then be time for a second talk.

The “Second Talk”

In the “second talk”, you should talk about how you really like how things are going and would like to be more serious.

You will then explain the rules:

1. No seriously dating anyone else
2. Other people are for sex only

You can then start to do the things that “traditional” boyfriends do.

You can do things like:

1. Tell her you love her (VERY OCCASIONALLY)
2. Buy her expensive gifts (VERY OCCASIONALLY)
3. Buy her a plane ticket
4. Have her meet your parents
5. Have a kid with her (you need to have a parenting plan in place before this signed by a notary)

There are still some things you should NEVER DO with an SNMG

Here’s a list (DO NOT DO THESE THINGS):

1. Text her all the time
2. Live together (she CANNOT spend more than 3 days back to back at your place per week)
3. Get married
4. Get common-law married (if you live in a common law state)

SNMG Phase

Just because a girl is in the SNMG phase with you does NOT mean she gets to relax.

You should CONSTANTLY be watching her behaviour.

ANY time she shows you disrespectful behaviour, you immediately withdraw attention (for 1 week).

If she is at your place when she does it, you kindly ask her if she wants to be taken home.

On the way home, you DO NOT engage or argue, SHUT UP and don’t talk to her at all for a week.

She will get the message that disrespectful behaviour is not tolerated.

Upgrading or Downgrading Women’s Relationship Status Based on Behaviour

In any kind of relationship arrangement you’re in, you upgrade or downgrade based on behaviour.

If she is being kind and respectful and treating you well, you upgrade.

If she’s in an NMG with you, 2 instances of disrespectful behaviour warrants a downgrade.

If she’s in an SNMG with you, 3 instances of disrespectful behaviour warrants a downgrade.

But Helios, what if we have a kid together?

In your parenting plan, you have a pre-agreed upon quantity of child support.

That is what will happen should she step out of line too much.

You will leave, with no drama and begin to make those payments.

She knew the kind of man she was getting involved with.

If she’s willing to explode the relationship over disrespectful behaviour let her, it is no loss to you.

Conclusion

As you can see, getting an SNMG involves constantly assessing the behaviour of the girl you’re with.

She cannot reach an SNMG relationship with you without good behaviour and attitude expressed over the long term.

It is up to HER to choose how she behaves around you and for YOU to judge whether she is worthy or not.

She is ALWAYS being scrutinized, and bad behaviour must be punished.

Operant conditioning is key.

Stay strong and prosper!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an SNMG?

It is a serious non-monogamous girlfriend.

The outside world will see her as your girlfriend.

She is a girl that you have assessed extensively and she has demonstrated that she is solid for a long time (6-9 months).

I’m 24 and I’ve Met an Amazing Girl, I Think I Want Her to Be My SNMG!

You’re too young bro.

You don’t have the life experience to know if she’s good enough yet.

At your age, I recommend only FWB and NMG relationships arrangements.

Anything more serious is likely going to hinder your long term goals.

I Really Don’t Want to Have This Girl as My Girlfriend, But I Really Like the Sex, What Do I Do?

First of all, that’s a good problem to have.

Kudos!

Don’t say anything at all until she asks to define the relationship.

When she does, simply tell her that you like how things are going and would like them to stay as they are.

If she leaves at that point, no problem, you have other girls!

I Want to Go On Vacation With My FWB, But She Doesn’t Have the Money for the Ticket, Can I Buy it For Her?

NEVER buy expensive shit for your FWB like this.

ALso, you shouldn’t be doing stuff this serious with a FWB anyway.

FWBs are for fucking.

NMGs and SNMGs are for vacations.

If she doesn’t have worthy enough behaviour to be an NMG, don’t go with her on this vacation.

I’m sure you businessmen reading this are already familiar with the sunk cost fallacy.

I’m writing for those of you not familiar with the term today.

I’ll also be talking about how the sunk-cost fallacy relates to betas/NPCs/slaves in LTRs today.

Sorry guys, it’s gonna be rough.

Here we go…

What is the Sunk Cost Fallacy?

Here is the definition of the sunk cost fallacy:

“The Sunk Cost Fallacy describes our tendency to follow through on an endeavor if we have already invested time, effort or money into it, whether or not the current costs outweigh the benefits.“

Obviously the sunk cost fallacy can be applied to areas other than business.

In a betas case, the sunk cost fallacy refers to how he stays in a relationship that’s doing nothing for him, even if it’s stupid to do so, because he has already invested so much time, attention and energy into it.

Who is the Loser in the Sunk Cost Fallacy?

I’m sure you can already guess who the loser is.

The beta!

The beta loses because he is provisioning a woman in a relationship that does nothing for him.

Often, not only does this woman not fuck him, she also nags him incessantly.

Basically, the benefit of the relationship for him is the privilege of being her butler.

Obviously, this is horrendously bad for the beta, but often he doesn’t know any better!

Beta Brainwashing

The reason most betas don’t know better is due to societal brainwashing.

Betas are raised from a young age to worship women.

They never break out of the mental prison they were put into as a child by their mom/society/the media.

Due to all the propaganda and his naivete, he goes along with society’s script, not knowing that his destination is the garbage can once his utility has been drained.

The More Chores You Do, the Worse it Gets

Betas find themselves in a terrible relationship where there is virtually zero sex and they resort to asking their wives what the problem is.

Not only is this terrible because it signals the guy just doesn’t “get it”, it also means he’s in for some terrible advice.

Usually, his wife/girlfriend will say something along the lines of:

1. I’m tired
2. You don’t do enough chores
3. I want to watch this show, etc.

It’s a lie that masks the true reason she doesn’t want to fuck him (he’s a beta who does not fulfill her hypergamous urges).

He then listens (another idiotic move), which cements his position as a loser.

The woman wins, in the sense that her provisioning is improved (since the husband has agreed to do more chores), but the man loses, as he gets basically nothing other than the privilege of being the woman’s butler.

The beta man doesn’t realize he got the shit end of the stick and so, he stays due to the sunk cost fallacy.

Do you see how insidious this is?

He falls more and more into habits that fuck him over more.

It is a positive feedback loop with terrible results.

Don’t Stay Just So You Can Add to Your Month/Year Count

Many guys stay in shitty relationships so that they can brag about how long they’ve been in a relationship.

This is obviously idiotic.

If the relationship is going bad and you’re getting nothing out of it, DON’T STAY DAMN IT.

Adding months/years to your misery timer does nothing for anyone.

Individualistic Spirit

As a man, you should think about yourself as the centre of your world.

You should think about how everything that you’re doing and the situations you’re in favour YOU.

If they don’t, CUT those relationships out.

You don’t deserve to be a tool for others to use and discard.

You’re worth more than that.

You’re Better Off Developing New Options Than Being Used By Old Ones

The truth of the world, and something that the matriarchy does provide is a plethora of options.

You NEVER have to settle for one girl.

If a relationship doesn’t work for you at any point, you’re totally free to walk away.

Any new relationship you enter into has a much greater chance of being good for you than any old one, especially if you were treated badly in the old one.

Don’t root through the trash when other shiny options are available!

Options Are Power

As I have said in previous posts, options are power.

The person who needs the other the least is the one with the most power.

Obviously, when you exercise your biological imperative (polygamy), you’re going to have many options.

This spreads out your sexual needs over multiple women and means that you don’t NEED any of them.

Mac Miller said it best:

“I don’t need nobody, I would love somebody though.”

As a result, you will be able to hold onto your power and be MUCH more attractive to all the women you’re with.

Rather than submitting to a shitty LTR that is prone to sunk cost fallacy, you’re much better off in a non-monogamous arrangement with multiple women.

Conclusion

Many betas fall into the trap of the sunk cost fallacy.

They believe they should stay in a relationship simply because it has gone on a long time.

The truth is that if a relationship is not serving your needs, you shouldn’t be in it, regardless of the length of the relationship.

Don’t stay in a relationship where the only benefit is that of being the woman’s butler.

Be strong!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What Is the Sunk Cost Fallacy?

It’s the idea that people stay doing something because they’ve done it for long, even if it’s not serving them.

It applies to betas in the sense that they stay in relationships where the woman basically uses them just because they have been with her so long.

Betas basically ensure their misery by doing this.

The Media Says That All Relationships Require Communication and Constant Work! I Will NOT Give Up On My Relationship, No Matter How Bad!

Even if there is zero sex and your only benefit to you is that of being her butler?

If that’s the case, shame on you!

You’re an idiot who doesn’t think he deserves better.

What kind of man lets his masculine essence be drained away just because of a stupid decision he made a few years ago?

You’re A Sociopath Helios! You Advocate for Wielding Multiple Options In Order to Leverage Your Power Against Women! I’m A Nice Guy, I Would Never Do That!

Women ALWAYS have multiple options.

By that logic I guess all women are sociopaths.

Does that hurt your mental image of women being perfect little angels?

I thought so.

If they do it, so can you.

My Wife Says That the Reason We’re Not Having Sex Is Because I Don’t Do Enough Chores! I Think She Knows Better Than You!

You try doing more chores and see what happens.

It’s going to be fucking bad for you, I promise.

More chores DOES NOT equal more sex.

Ironically, if you refuse and do your own thing, she’s much more likely to want to fuck you.

I’m sure you’ve all heard this mentioned, especially when you were a young child.

The principle of everyone being special is obviously flawed, and today we’re going to talk about why.

We’re also going to talk about how this mentality, taken to the extreme, leads to extremely negative effects on society.

Off we go…

Everyone is Special and Other Such Platitudes

Obviously, platitudes like “everyone is special” exist to brainwash the masses.

They exist in order to make people feel better about their bland existence.

Platitudes like this are used to convince people that any action they take is ok, since they have inherent value no matter what.

It, alongside idiocies like “just be yourself” have led many people down the path of mediocrity.

If more people knew the truth of their existence (that they get NOTHING) unless they work for it, they would be more inclined to break free of their dull existences.

As it currently stands, everyone feels they’re special, even if they’re working a shitty McDonalds job at the age of 35.

Platitudes vs. Reality

While platitudes might help you feel better about yourself, no amount of feelings are going to change your situation.

It is much better that you understand reality, and use it to your advantage, than to believe garbage platitudes and go through life with blinders.

NO, you’re not special if you work some dullard job and play video games all day.

You are a donkey of society then.

You’re also not special if you get married, have kids and live with your significant other.

You are just like every other idiot following their cultural programming.

If you would stop and think for a second, you would realize how your life is fucked.

Instead, people ingest platitudes like “happy wife, happy life”, ‘you’re special no matter what”, “you’re beautiful at any size” and other garbage and are rendered miserable as a result.

The truth will prevent many problems down the line!

Men Have NO Inherent Value

Men, hear this:

You are born with NOTHING.

You are worth NOTHING until you earn it.

You are what you can DO.

Women will say that they like you for who you are.

They do not understand their own natures.

Women like you for who you are to THEM.

You are a status object.

Without looks/status, women will find you TOTALLY undesirable, sexually speaking.

If YOU KNOW you have neither looks nor status, you can be assured that the women you’re with is there for other reasons.

Cultural Marxism

Time for a cute segue into cultural Marxism.

Cultural Marxism is the idea that everyone is inherently equal no matter what they do or say.

This is patently false.

Some people are more worthy than others.

What cultural Marxism argues is that everyone has inherent worth as a human being and the lives we live should reflect that.

I argue that we should allow for competition to weed out the losers and not force the winners to bail out the losers in an effort to keep everyone “equal”.

Equality of Opportunity vs Equality of Outcome

Equity = cancer.

What I’m saying is that there is no sense in working if the extra effort you’re putting in gets redistributed for the purposes of “equality/equity”.

Our modern world currently has some of the best equality of opportunity that has ever existed in human history.

While it is true that there are some people who are born ridiculously wealthy, it is entirely UNTRUE of modern times that if you are born a woman, or a person of a race that isn’t white, that you’re totally disfavoured and destroyed by society.

This is why measures to equalize everybody’s outcomes in society bother me so much.

People should NOT have equal outcomes if they are not willing to put in the work to achieve those outcomes.

It is ENTIRELY UNFAIR for educational institutions to FORCE quotas with regards to race/gender in order to equalize the outcomes between the races/genders.

If one person is UNWILLING TO PUT IN THE EFFORT, they SHOULD NOT receive the same rewards as someone who is REGARDLESS OF RACE/GENDER.

The Race to the Bottom

Forcing quotas in institutions of higher learning and also in the workplace rewards people who DO NOT want to put in the effort.

This means that over time, institutions become filled with incompetent people and are MUCH more likely to fail.

Those businesses will then get outcompeted by businesses from countries that do not have such idiotic policies.

Can the west not see that by forcing quotas they are hamstringing their ability to compete on a global level?

The educational institutions of the west, and their highest workplaces should encourage people of the HIGHEST QUALITY and ONLY those people.

A suboptimal candidate should NOT be chosen because of their race/gender.

THAT is racism/sexism.

If one person is MORE WORTHY for a job EVEN IF they are incompetent and the reason they were hired was BECAUSE of their race, THAT is racism.

That means that the “quota hire” is being favoured BECAUSE of their race and NOT their competence.

Dressing it up as “fighting against prior oppression” does NOT erase the fact that it is racist (in the opposite direction).

If Everyone is Special, No One Is

If everyone is a special “snowflake”, then no one is.

Treating everyone as though they have equal value, while not commending those that seek to rise above is heading entirely in the wrong direction.

We should reward the exceptional, NOT everyone.

We should treat the exceptional as exceptional.

That would teach the lesson that those that are less than exceptional could aspire to more.

Cultural Marxism seeks to equal the playing field, at the EXPENSE of the exceptional.

In order to spare people’s feelings of inferiority, society has sacrificed the rewards that only the truly exceptional deserve.

Society suffers in order to spare some feelings.

Results of the “Participation Trophy” Mentality

If everyone is special, no one is.

Nobody is encouraged to fight for the trophy if everyone gets one no matter what they do.

Giving everyone a trophy for varying levels of effort rewards everyone and not just those at the top.

We want to encourage and reward those people who are willing to put in the effort to rise to the top and NOT those that fail to do so.

This builds character in both the winners and the losers.

The losers learn that their effort was not good enough, and the winners learn that with enough effort, success is possible.

It is an extremely important message, ESPECIALLY FOR MEN.

This is a public service announcement:

If you are an educational institution and you give participation trophies, you are contributing to the decline in quality of the human race.

You are thus IDIOTS.

Men must LEARN that they are worth NOTHING and that they have to FIGHT in order to win.

You do not learn that lesson if just any level of effort is rewarded.

Of course, the consequence of such stupidity is that the country fails.

Conclusion

The concept of everyone being “special” is deeply flawed.

It is a way to pacify the NPCs and make them feel better.

By making platitudes like this the norm, we disfavour the population.

Rather than call the truly exceptional special and have people aspire to greatness, society, in an attempt to spare people’s feelings does the opposite and rewards people for being entirely average.

The consequences of such a weak attitude will be clear in a few years…

Be strong and persevere!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

Are You Saying that Men Have No Inherent Worth? Asshole!

I’m not an asshole for stating the truth.

You, as a man get nothing until you earn it.

Your spot in the world is as secure as you make it for yourself.

You have no inherent value.

To think that you do is simply a platitude to make you feel better.

You ARE your struggle, effort and dedication.

When you are unable to do so any longer, no safety net exists.

What is Cultural Marxism?

It is the idea that every person should be equal regardless of effort or ability.

It is a flawed concept that leads to a race to the bottom.

When people are not motivated to work, they don’t.

Equality of Opportunity vs Equality of Outcome

In the west, there is equal opportunity.

No one is denied access to services based on their gender or race.

This is different from equality of outcome (the current goal of the matriarchy).

Equality of outcome means that no matter how hard (or little) anyone works, they deserve the same outcome.

This is idiotic communist thinking.

It will only serve to reward the wrong behaviour in a population.

I Love That My Children Receive Participation Trophies! They Feel Good Even When They Lose!

You should NEVER reward a person for losing.

That creates the wrong mentality in a person.

A person should learn from failure and loss.

They should NOT be rewarded for it.

If a person is rewarded for being a failure, it does not encourage the learning that has to happen in order for the person to stop being a failure.

This leads to a coddled, idiotic population down the line, a terrible result for society.

Many men complain that women are damaged goods.

Of course, we should probably define the terms so that inexperienced men can understand what we’re walking about.

Obviously, we want to prevent having serious relationships with women that are “damaged goods”, for our own long term stability and happiness.

Let’s get into it…

What Does it Mean for A Woman to Be Damaged Goods?

When a woman is damaged goods, it means that she has been with too many men and has lost her ability to pair bond.

Some men refer to a woman being damaged by the “1000 cock stare”.

I find that to be an over-exaggeration, but you understand the gist I hope.

Women who have been with too many men, or have stayed in the “rockstar” phase too long eventually ruin their ability to enjoy future men.

They simply cannot enjoy them because their hypergamy demands that any new man they find beats all of their previous partners.

This becomes more and more difficult as the number of partners a woman has increases.

Once a woman is “damaged” in this way, there is no going back.

Many women end up miserable and alone OR settle for a man they consider to be beta and torture him to death once they have become damaged goods.

The matriarchy puts no limits on female hypergamy and thus, MANY women fall into the “rockstar trap” and ruin themselves in the long term as a result.

Oxytocin

The reason why women ruin their ability to pair bond is because of a hormone called oxytocin.

Oxytocin is responsible for pair bonding in both men and women, though women release about 10x the quantity that men do.

What happens when a woman sleeps with a man for the first time is that there is a HUGE rush of oxytocin, which attempts to bond the woman to the man.

This rush of oxytocin leads to the honeymoon phase for women.

For every subsequent partner after the first, women release less and less oxytocin.

As a result, women never feel as bonded to their later partners as they felt to their earlier partners.

This also correlates with the fact that women are most likely to find their most attractive match when they are younger and most fertile.

This confluence of events means that women have an extremely narrow window with which to find a good man to settle down with, an opportunity which the matriarchy encourages women NOT TO capitalize on (age 18-22).

The matriarchy encourages women to explore their options forever, while never believing that any man they have found is good enough (age 18-35).

The irony is that women are best positioned to capitalize on their options when they are young and fertile (in their rockstar phase, age 18-22/23).

Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks

The matriarchy encourages women to date up.

Women naturally do this, but open hypergamy, as backed by the matriarchy exacerbates it.

Thus, modern women pursue a strategy of fucking men who will never commit to them until they’re too old and uncompetitive to do so any longer.

These men are SO much more attractive than they are that these women had no chance in hell of ever getting their commitment (also, there are relatively few).

At that point, they fall back on the safety net that the matriarchy has brainwashed for them, the betas.

The problem is that by the time they have fallen onto their beta safety net, women have burnt out their oxytocin so much that they have guaranteed their inability to enjoy any relationship.

They are thus doomed to misery in the long term.

They obviously did not consider this consequence when they were young, beautiful and competitive rockstars.

Alpha Widows

Often, women coming out of their rockstar phase, or their strong independent phase are alpha widows.

They have been with many men who they have attempted to bond with, who subsequently left them.

They no longer have the ability to pair bond, or even to respect a man who isn’t that man they are alpha widowed by.

To say that these women cause misery in a beta’s life is an understatement.

Betas often think they have won the lottery getting with a sexy older woman, but he has actually gotten a woman who is not only sexually cold, but pair bond incapable.

This is the real reason why men prefer younger women.

Not only are younger women more sexually attractive, they are also MUCH less likely to come with baggage and the inability to pair bond.

Oneitis

Betas, being clueless slaves, have no idea the women that they are inheriting.

They have a tendency to fixate on one and worship her.

When “the one” that the beta fixates on is damaged goods, both people end up miserable in the long term.

Obviously, any kids produced from such a union will also end up miserable, through osmosis.

The beta safety net and the matriarchy have ruined many lives this way.

Rather than encouraging women to pair up when it would be prudent and maximize their reproductive potential, the matriarchy encourages women to sterilely sleep around  and waste away their youth.

They are then “saved” by a white knight who is too brainwashed by oneitis to know any better.

It is idiotic, what the matriarchy has done to women, but it is not your job to fix that.

Your job is to adapt to the system that exists around you.

Don’t Turn A Ho Into A Housewife

When you know a girl is damaged, DO NOT EVER get into any kind of serious relationship with her.

That will lead to your misery.

If you get the sense that she has had a ton of past partners, you can definitely enjoy her sexually, but you should avoid allowing her to get any closer than that.

Her ability to pair bond has been burned out of her, and none of your efforts will restore it.

You are better served getting yourself a younger woman who is less damaged than one who is ruined in this way.

I know women are going to be very angry reading this, but the truth is YOU CAN’T HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO.

Biology doesn’t give a shit about that.

If you waste away your youth fucking around, you WILL suffer the consequences.

You know who can waste away their youth fucking around?

MEN!

WOMEN ARE NOT MEN!

Living the way a man does as a woman is the easiest way to make yourself miserable!

The matriarchy has ruined many women’s lives because it has also brainwashed women into believing that there are no consequences to her actions.

The consequence of a woman sleeping around as a man does is that she ruins her ability to enjoy any sort of long term committed relationship, something which is necessary in order to have children.

When women do not have children, massive depression often results.

This is because those women who did not have children have NOT fulfilled their biological imperative.

A man’s biological imperative is to sleep with multiple women.

A woman’s biological imperative is to HAVE MULTIPLE CHILDREN with genetically FIT partners.

Notice the distinct difference between these two imperatives.                                                                             

Open Hypergamy Has Made More Women “Damaged Goods” Than Ever Before

As a result of how women have been raised (in a system of open hypergamy), more women than ever before have become damaged goods.

They are no good for long term relationships as a result of the many sexual partners they have had and resultant inability to pair bond.

Many women will be upset at hearing this, but ultimately, it is up to everyone to make informed decisions.

If you know that your ability to pair bond and stay in a long term relationship with a man will be damaged as a result of your reproductive choices, you should be judicious in making them.

Ultimately, I cannot decide or make value judgements on you.

Instead, I can give you the truth and you can decide for yourself what choices you want to make in the long term and what consequences you’re willing to accept.

As I’ve said before in previous articles, I do not personally believe in the madonna/whore fallacy.

I believe that there are just women and their choices.

You as a man also need to make informed decisions.

If you know the woman is likely not good for a long term relationship, do not offer her one.

You will end up miserable in the long term as a result of your poor choice!

Conclusion

Women become “damaged goods” through poor personal choices.

Obviously, as a result of the matriarchy we find ourselves in, many more women than before are encouraged to make these poor choices.

When women make poor reproductive choices during their sexual prime, they hurt their ability to pair bond.

In doing so, they ruin their future chance at happiness.

Obviously, as a man, you need to understand that women of this type are to be avoided for serious relationships.

Be judicious in your choices!

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What Does It Mean for A Women to Be Damaged Goods?

A woman is damaged goods when she fucks alphas in her prime, gets alpha widowed, and loses her ability to pair bond any further.

She then gets into a serious relationship with a beta, who she subsequently tortures.

You as a man want to avoid women who are too “experienced” for long term relationships.

What Do You Mean When You Say “Don’t Turn A Ho Into a Housewife”?

I mean a woman who has lost her ability to pair bond due to all of the guys she’s fucked will be unable to last in a stable relationship with any man.

Obviously, you as a man shouldn’t be monogamous anyway, but you can’t consider this type of girl even for an NMG or SNMG.

The only good choice for this type of woman is a FWB, where she’ll make you very happy due to her vast experience.

What Is Open Hypergamy, and How Does It Relate to Damaged Women?

Basically the matriarchy, once it took hold of society, made it its goal to give women all the sexual freedoms they could possibly want.

What this means is that women are now encouraged to live out their primal sexual strategy (fuck the best guys they can get their hands on, and try to secure their commitment).

As a result of all the best guys having so much access to sex, most of them are unwilling to commit.

Women then alpha widow themselves trying to get this top man to commit, who then leaves them.

If they had been more pragmatic in their partner selection, they would not have ended up in that position.

Basically, open hypergamy encourages women to follow their primal nature at the cost of their long term happiness (women usually end up unhappy if they feel they had to settle and have children with a suboptimal partner).

What Do You Mean By Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks?

The current state of the world is that women can pursue the hottest alphas around in their sexual prime, fuck them and then fall back on the beta safety net the matriarchy has made for them.

As a result of all the alpha fucking they did in their prime years, however, many women lose their ability to pair bond, and ruin any chance they would have had at happiness.

The betas are left to pick up the scraps of women that alphas have left behind.

They get the shitty end of the deal, as they get duty sex and have to pay for a commit solely to one of these damaged women.

It is definitely an unfortunate state of affairs.

It is possible that you’ve never heard of the concept of solipsism.

If that is the case, prepare to have your mind blown.

Solipsism is one of the very real ways that women differ from men.

Fair, warning, this information may be stunning to some.

Let’s go…

What is Solipsism?

Solipsism is the way that women see the world.

Solipsism is the idea that everything a woman experiences is filtered through her own self-interested lens.

This means that women have a lot of trouble empathizing with perspectives that are not personally their own.

When a woman speaks, in any context, she will relate everything back to herself personally, and then generalize from there.

It is not so important for women to have all the facts.

If their belief and feeling in something is strong enough, it must be true for everyone.

They assume that their reality is everyone’s reality (and her reality favours her and her perspective, always).

How Does Solipsism Affect Women?

Solipsism affects every aspect of a woman’s life.

Every sentence she utters and every thought she has is filtered through a self-interested/self-important lens.

This means that she will have a lot of difficulty understanding any perspective that isn’t her own and will generalize all experiences in terms of how her experiences are.

Women are all about themselves.

This is why it is very hard to see women sacrificing for anyone or anything that they don’t consider “their own” (their children).

It is also why women appear to have low empathy for men in relationships.

They genuinely don’t care about men the same way that men care about women.

They tend to see people in terms of what they provide FOR THEM.

The Way Women Argue vs the Way Men Argue

Men argue using logical facts, amassing information in order to argue their point of view.

Women argue using their personal anecdotal experiences and generalizing those to the world.

Only one of these argumentation styles is based in objective reality (men’s).

Women’s “objective” understanding of reality is often myopic and nonsensical.

This is due to her solipsism.

Of course, any person can be trained to reason logically, but an untrained woman WILL think solipsistically.

She will think and favour her opinions and experiences and use them as a basis for reality everywhere.

Obviously, generalizing the experiences of one person is HIGHLY UNLIKELY to yield truth, but it does help a person to navigate difficulties in life, something that women often experienced (men would be killed, and wouldn’t have to suffer psychologically as often).

How Does Solipsism Affect Men?

Solipsism affects men because men often have to communicate with women.

Solipsism is a huge reason why men and women don’t understand each other.

Men try to explain things to women, and women will reply with “well, in MY EXPERIENCE, it doesn’t work that way, therefore it doesn’t work that way”.

This is even true if what the women believes has been proven factually incorrect.

If it isn’t correct in “her experience” it isn’t correct.

This is also a huge reason why feminism is a big problem.

It teaches many women to believe that they are all victims of an evil patriarchy (which doesn’t exist), and they rationalize every negative thing that happens to them as being a result of that boogeyman (who doesn’t exist).

Men often have to suffer as a result of female solipsism.

It is also the reason why women move on from relationships very quickly.

Since they never really considered their partner all that much (outside of what their partner could provide FOR THEM), they are easy to replace.

“The Hamster”

The hamster refers to a woman’s propensity for rationalization after the fact.

Women will do something, realize that it doesn’t fit in with their myopic understanding of reality, and rationalize it after.

This is why you get women who say that sex “just happened”.

They don’t think about the person seducing them, only about how THEY THEMSELVES felt in the moment.

The rationalization hamster works very well in a man’s favour once a woman loves him as it will make her change reality to be positive, no matter what the man does.

Of course, this only lasts as long as the good feelings last,

Once the feelings change, the direction that the hamster rationalizes changes direction.

Me, me, me

If you read women’s posts on any forum, really, it will be full of the following two words, more than any others:

1)  I

2)  Me

This is because, no matter the context, women have a solipsistic frame.

They are ALWAYS thinking about how things apply to THEM.

It also means that women rarely, if ever, appreciate gifts or other things given to them.

Since they are the narcissistic centre of their own universe, gifts and special treatment are expected, not praised.

Why Did Solipsism Evolve In Women?

Solipsism evolved in women so that they could protect themselves from serious problems in their world.

Ancient women were often stolen and had their whole family killed.

Obviously, this would break any rational person, but an irrational, narcissistic person who cares only about themselves wouldn’t suffer that much in the event of their husband being killed, or their children disappearing.

They would be hurt, sure, but they would be able to move on relatively quickly.

Of course, a solipsistic nature would ruin a woman’s ability to reason on the same level as a man, but that is not important when you can have a man reason for you.

As I said before, any person can be trained to reason, but if a woman is not specifically trained, she will focus on herself at the expense of all other perspectives.

Children As An Extension of their Mother

Obviously, women were the primary caregivers of children, so they couldn’t evolve in such a way as to not care about them at all.

Solipsism fixes the problem of loving your children while still not caring if your partner dies or if you get stolen.

It fixes it by having women think of children as extensions of themselves.

I‘m sure you’ve seen it.

A mom somewhere, with her son, who is way too old to be with her still, and the son is doing everything the mom says like a slave.

She isn’t thinking about the son as an individual, she is thinking of the son as an extension of her.

Naturally he would want to do everything she says, he is just a part of her.

The mom can then rationalize things in the son’s favour and help him with her solipsism.

Conclusion

As you can see, women are solipsistic.

They care about their own perspective at the expense of all others.

Solipsism helped women to survive the harsh ancient environment.

Nowadays, it just helps them to feel less emotional pain at the end of relationships while reducing her ability to think critically (if untrained).

Women aren’t men!

Heed my words.

-Helios

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Solipsism?

Solipsism is the idea that women filter everything through their own self-interested lens.

It is one very real difference between men and women.

It is also why men and women argue in different ways.

Are You Saying that Women Don’t Give A Shit About Anyone But Themselves? How About Their Children?

Their children are extensions of themselves, therefore they give a shit about them.

If it doesn’t relate to her in some way, she doesn’t care about it.

This also means that once a person (including a sexual partner) is no longer useful to a woman, they are easily discarded.

How Could Solipsism Have Evolved In Women?

It could have evolved so that women could face the harsh realities of the ancient world.

It would be impossible to survive and thrive in a world where your partner and family could be killed at any moment without a good rationalization mechanism.

A woman who was more empathetic might experience suicidal thoughts, or debilitating feelings that would make her much less likely to survive.

Why Are Women Always Talking About Themselves Online?

That’s how they talk everywhere.

Women generalize their SPECIFIC perspective to the whole world.

They believe that everyone lives the same lives they do, unless they are TAUGHT to think otherwise.

Women will also believe that their perspective is correct even if it is stupid.

It is for the same reason.